What's your current dilemma?

I don't know what to do with my life..

My girl lives in another city.

She was here last week and we were celebrating my B Day and I forgot to use my condom that night. Cross my fingers I dont have a little me.

All the material stuff doesn't bother me. That stuff will always be there to get.
 
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My parents are forcing me to go camping ..aummer school just ended and I should be home alone ...but I gotta go ..if I stood id get major *** in my empty house from a girl im talking to... im heart broken ..im never really alone in my house this is the best chance I got to get my d wet....
How are they forcing you? They still gonna go if u don't so say u not going
 
I'm a failure academically but I won't give up.

I have low self-esteem

I leave for Navy boot camp in January. Trying to mentally prepare for that.

It's hard seeing most of my friends getting ready to graduate college but I'm happy for them

I have beyond terrible money management skills

I wish my mother didn't struggle so much financially. It really stresses me out.

I'm still on the road to improving myself physically but it gets harder & more complicated everyday( lost 40 lbs in 4 1/2 months)

I still have big dreams to be a financial analyst but it feels like life is passing me by. (I'm 21)

I'm praying that joining the Navy can be just the helping hand that I need for self-discipline & that the benefits allow me to finish my degree & get my career started in the Business Finance field that I've always wanted.

Literally working right down the hall from an investment banking analyst and another investment banking associate, both who broke into investment banking from the Marines. Joining the military enables you to access a very large career network as well, so if you stay focused and do your best to study while you're in the Navy then anything is possible. Keep your head up.
 
I got a 2nd DUI last week...smh..I was going to join the military but thats a long shot now...Good thing I still have my job...But don't Drink and drive kids its not worth it...so now I got tons of court and lawyers fees..just ****** up everything for me smh 
 
I'm a failure academically but I won't give up.

I have low self-esteem

I leave for Navy boot camp in January. Trying to mentally prepare for that.

It's hard seeing most of my friends getting ready to graduate college but I'm happy for them

I have beyond terrible money management skills

I wish my mother didn't struggle so much financially. It really stresses me out.

I'm still on the road to improving myself physically but it gets harder & more complicated everyday( lost 40 lbs in 4 1/2 months)

I still have big dreams to be a financial analyst but it feels like life is passing me by. (I'm 21)

I'm praying that joining the Navy can be just the helping hand that I need for self-discipline & that the benefits allow me to finish my degree & get my career started in the Business Finance field that I've always wanted.
Man, I feel like im a failure academically too, in business school right now, about to get the boot due to my grades being low.
super low self esteem
also have bad money management skills, its ridiculous.

My dad helps me out with rent, but it kills me because i know he's going to have to help my bro through college and i hate putting the burden on him.
I really dont know what to do with my life? About to be a senior in college. Life is just blah right now.
 
Pretty Girl just left my job. We had a pretty good convo, helped her out and she said (in jest) "You're my hero."

Didn't get the number, but she did email me something, so I have her email.....thats one.

This married girl always snap chats me, we don't dance we essentially **** on the floor. One time I had a slight chub, she grabbed it, then pulled me closer....tells me she can't wait til we go out, every time we go out we get really really close....
 
I quit smoking cigs and drinking Pepsi about 1 1/2 months ago..But yet I'm even more broke than when I smoked and slammed Pepsi's all day..How is that possible?..I rarely leave my house and have too many bills to waste money..:smh:..Can't figure it out..
 
I met this chick and she just moved right up the block from me. And she got the hots for me, the finest thing I've ever seen. But oh, no, no, she gotta man and a son though.
 
I know most of yall living solo & not with mom/dad...

but ishhhh


moms telling me to cut my hair... :frown:

been growing it since I turned 20 & never looked back, it's long as fuuuuuuuuuuuu


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I quit smoking cigs and drinking Pepsi about 1 1/2 months ago..But yet I'm even more broke than when I smoked and slammed Pepsi's all day..How is that possible?..I rarely leave my house and have too many bills to waste money..:smh:..Can't figure it out..

That's so true I cut out so much ish off my expenses and for some reason I still got nothin' much to work with as opposed to when I was still doing other stuff. Ridin' solo now too.
 
Cheated on my girlfriend of 2 years, told her about it, and now she won't talk to me. We've been best friends for what feels like forever, not sure how to deal with this.
 
Just got turned down for a promotion and better job because I have bad vision and I don't have the 2k + for LASIK
 
I just want to see what happiness feels like. :smh: :frown: Seems like its just one thing after another.

School is really kicking my butt right now on top of my military commitment.

Hopefully when i make the promotion cutoff and my degree is finished I will be able to relax, just seems so far away right now..

I just want to be effin HAPPY!!!!!!!!
 
Cheated on my girlfriend of 2 years, told her about it, and now she won't talk to me. We've been best friends for what feels like forever, not sure how to deal with this.

Can't have your cake and eat it to unless she makes cakes for a living man. No real woman is going to be okay with being cheated on and KNOWING it.

That said, I hope she can forgive you or you can find another good one man. Just know that even if you get her back, you'll probably never have her full trust again.
 
rolled ankle, have to get it checked next week, cant play. really disappointing as all basketball team tryouts (college, intermurals, clubs) are in September so im gonna have to be teamless this season. Not a fun way to start college, a setback but I think I can recover and hopefully make the college team next year.

Never been injured before where I had to sit out. Its really frustrating
 
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rolled ankle, have to get it checked next week, cant play. really disappointing as all basketball team tryouts (college, intermurals, clubs) are in September so im gonna have to be teamless this season. Not a fun way to start college, a setback but I think I can recover and hopefully make the college team next year.

Never been injured before where I had to sit out. Its really frustrating

Get a tight brace, take some pain meds (non-drowsy) and try to do your thing. If your talking about trying out for a college team, these are opportunities that only come around once and you dont want regrets. Play through it bruh! my pops used to say "if it aint broke, get your *** back on the court/field"

rolled ankle really isnt that serious, just annoying.. remember, Emmitt Smith played with a dislocated shoulder in the NFL..
 
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Can't have your cake and eat it to unless she makes cakes for a living man. No real woman is going to be okay with being cheated on and KNOWING it.

That said, I hope she can forgive you or you can find another good one man. Just know that even if you get her back, you'll probably never have her full trust again.

I appreciate the response and agree with what you're saying. Just feeling lost right now
 
I'm jumping through hoops and obstacles for this shipbuilding job. But I have to because the pay is good and it has hella benifits for years to. This is my first job and I've never been through this before. Plus I have to wait 2 months before I start training as an outside machinist. So I gitta get a side job untill then. This job has everything 401 k, and helps pay for my school , medical benefits, life insurance and all that so its worth it.
 
i feel weird about this small company i work for, its a main contractor for small a&a projects and interior renovation. i dont think its goin to go bankrupt or anythng but it doesnt feel right. i dont like how some things are handled by the company. i wana move to a new company but ive only been here 5 mnths.
 
I've been putting off going back to college until my wife graduates next may, but my kids start school soon and I can't look myself in the mirror until I finish. I have a fantastic career and don't need the degree to further it, but dammit I want to do this for my daughters. I want them know there father finished something he started.

Hardest part though is I can only take it online and work really takes around 10 to 12 hours out my day sometimes. I haven't been able to sleep most nights this past two months just debating but this fire is not going out in me. My father is a college grad, my mom got her masters just last year, my older brother went back and got his degree. Hell my grandparents both have a degree. I left school cause I had kids and needed to get to work, but that was almost 4 years ago and I can't put it off anymore.

I just can't wait anymore I feels lot until I get back into school.
 
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