I Can't Get Laid!

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22 turn 23 on the 21st of this month and i'm a Virgin. I'm not your typical virgin i'm 6'3 black male, average looking, played ball my freshman & sophmore year of HS, wasn't popular, but was a known class clown, average built a little chunky now, above average dresser, and nice shoe game. Just had to give a backstory, but I went through HS & living on campus for a year and a half without getting laid at all. I've had girls like me and ****, but my lack of confidence has killed me. Like I flirt, get good reactions back, but I can't close a deal for ****. I'm going ******g crazy now, I feel like such a lame real ****. I have a girl back from HS and we've talked about like being BF & GF for 5 years now, but the timing is never right for me to be the man she needs. I'm either unemployed or car-less when we start back talking, I would rather lose it to her because at least it'll be to my first love. Any advice would be helpful, thanks in advance.
 
22 turn 23 on the 21st of this month and i'm a Virgin. I'm not your typical virgin i'm 6'3 black male, average looking, played ball my freshman & sophmore year of HS, wasn't popular, but was a known class clown, average built a little chunky now, above average dresser, and nice shoe game. Just had to give a backstory, but I went through HS & living on campus for a year and a half without getting laid at all. I've had girls like me and ****, but my lack of confidence has killed me. Like I flirt, get good reactions back, but I can't close a deal for ****. I'm going ******g crazy now, I feel like such a lame real ****. I have a girl back from HS and we've talked about like being BF & GF for 5 years now, but the timing is never right for me to be the man she needs. I'm either unemployed or car-less when we start back talking, I would rather lose it to her because at least it'll be to my first love. Any advice would be helpful, thanks in advance.

On the same boat. i'm 20 and still have my card.. I feel like I'm getting closer though (with a few chicks in some of my college classes). My birthday is is in three weeks. Seriously, I made it my mission to get laid by then.. I've had two decades to get laid. I don't want to be known as the guy who couldn't get laid before turning 21.

Seriously though? 6'3 black male, who claims to have been a class clown , can't get laid? Doesn't add up.
 
op , you mentioned first love and being a virgin all in one post ....dont make sense b




on the real , yo the box is awesome but not worth stressin and advice .....umm a car , clean clothes , and stop thinking these girls think differently than us .....you gotta be un descarado b trust me , WIO is very effective but plz be careful op.....
 
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22 turn 23 on the 21st of this month and i'm a Virgin. I'm not your typical virgin i'm 6'3 black male, average looking, played ball my freshman & sophmore year of HS, wasn't popular, but was a known class clown, average built a little chunky now, above average dresser, and nice shoe game. Just had to give a backstory, but I went through HS & living on campus for a year and a half without getting laid at all. I've had girls like me and ****, but my lack of confidence has killed me. Like I flirt, get good reactions back, but I can't close a deal for ****. I'm going ******g crazy now, I feel like such a lame real ****. I have a girl back from HS and we've talked about like being BF & GF for 5 years now, but the timing is never right for me to be the man she needs. I'm either unemployed or car-less when we start back talking, I would rather lose it to her because at least it'll be to my first love. Any advice would be helpful, thanks in advance.

this is where you went wrong fam u think she wasnt smashin another dude within them 5 years? :lol:
you are either friendzoned or she is a sloot either way if you guys been talkin about it why dont you just ask her on a date bring her to the crib and smash?
forreal if you KNOW a girl is interested in you and you are interested in her it isnt rocket science fam throw dirty joke in when youre flirting and she WILL get the idea
 
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this is where you went wrong fam u think she wasnt smashin another dude within them 5 years?
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you are either friendzoned or she is a sloot either way if you guys been talkin about it why dont you just ask her on a date bring her to the crib and smash?
forreal if you KNOW a girl is interested in you and you are interested in her it isnt rocket science fam throw dirty joke in when youre flirting and she WILL get the idea
Yea I know, she had a miscarriage, but I was friendzoned hard bro, but like when I was 20 we talked about like dating and she said she wanted to date someone different, but that summer I lost my Grandpa and I was ******g depressed. And the summer of my Senior year we was supposed to go out, but my mom was cock blocking with her Car.
 
On the same boat. i'm 20 and still have my card.. I feel like I'm getting closer though (with a few chicks in some of my college classes). My birthday is is in three weeks. Seriously, I made it my mission to get laid by then.. I've had two decades to get laid. I don't want to be known as the guy who couldn't get laid before turning 21.

Seriously though? 6'3 black male, who claims to have been a class clown , can't get laid? Doesn't add up.
Yea I got a annoying *** personality, **** will talk to a *****, but they'll be pissed by the end of the conversation. I got bad habits bro...
 
You need to go out, OP. Dorm parties, apartment parties, clubs and or bars. The more you make your self out and about. The more apt you'll be able to find a interested lady.
 
 
Yea I got a annoying *** personality, **** will talk to a *****, but they'll be pissed by the end of the conversation. I got bad habits bro...
we all have bad habits... what are you saying to piss them off?
 
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Your small talk game sucks.

You need to learn to pump the brakes a little and let the girls do a lot of the talking after you initiate the conversation.
 
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