To my NTers with kids

Biggest status symbol for a man is a family.....not material. Dead srs. I know on NT we love our cars n cribs but end of the day........Passin on your DNA/gene pool is what it is. A survey was actually done on this. Wish I could find the article.
if you do please post sounds intresting
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http://www.askmen.com/specials/great_male_survey/lifestyle.html#question_509  

thats the exact question Audi was referring to but theres a bunch of questions take a look its very interesting
 
I'll say having my son was the best thing to ever happen to me. I love him more than words can describe. But I would say I would change all of the drama that I've been through with his mom. If i could do it all over again I would have kids with my wife now. lol
Here's a pic of him before his 1st game. He 7
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I never understood why an unplanned pregnancy automatically equals young, stupid, irresponsible and a huge mistake...i assume you all living in happy 2 parent homes believe you were planned too right. sure some of you were but reality is reality b, unplanned pregnancy happen, ALOT and they are not always a bad thing.
 
If I didn't have a kid I'd prb be in jail or on some serious drugs, so yeah it was the best thing that happened to me. I wouldn't change when it happened either and it wasn't planned.


Same her but my children were planned. I had a nasty drug habit back in my younger days and ended up doing some time. When I got out, nobody wanted to hire me because of the record. Got a job at a restaurant waiting tables. Thats where I met my wife and the mother of my kids. She had a 6 year old daughter at the time and her father was a deadbeat. Now she is legally mine. Been raising her since she was 6, and now she is 14. Got a much better job and became more financially stable so we decided to expand our family within the last couple of years and it was the greatest decision ever.

The feeling you get when you come home from work and your little ones run to your arms with hugs and kisses is the GREATEST feeling ever. And when my 14 year old comes home with nothing but straight A's is also amazing feeling. Fatherhood is great.:D

My son Dante
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My daughter Camila and my father meeting her for the first time
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My oldest daughter and son meeting their baby sister for the first time. You can see the jealousy in my sons face.
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Had my daughter when I was 28.Means much more now because of situations to have her.I wouldn't change it for anything.I understand for younger folks having kids of how they would change things though.Im fortunate and blessed for how it's going.Its the greatest thing for me.Made me grow up,be humble,more responsibly and think wisely.I owe my life to her.
 
My kiddo is the best thing that ever happened to me.  Hands down.  He's made me a better person.

One thing that never gets mentioned, and I don't know why, are abortions.  I know plenty of people that having an abortion was the best decision they ever made.  Why don't people ever say that?  Abortions are amazing.

I honestly dont know if youre being sarcastic here or not.

OP,
Im amazed I have a daughter and another one on the way. There are 2 things that make us men better individuals, a wife and children. Both should make us better men, selfless, responsible and other positive qualities. Children are miracles and blessings and its a privelege to be a parent. Many people who want kids arent able due to health issues. That alone should make us more appreciative. We had our daughter after a few years of marriage. I wouldnt change anything about either.

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I have two kids . I never wanted them. Was with my now ex wife for two years and she never got pregnant . as soon as I'm trying to break up with her she's pregnant with twins. She gave away her other kids before we met so I knew what she was about. She sings that she's different and wants to be a mother now. I asked her to abort she says no.


We stay together for another two years then outta the blue she's cheating on me and doesn't want kids anymore. She leaves and I'm stuck with kids I never wanted. I love my kids to death but life is difficult for me because of them. I have no one to help me out. Can't work at the moment. Girls be like oh how nice he takes care of his kids but shun me like crazy. I geTs no play...

To answer the question. They aren't the best thing that happened to me far from it but I made my bed gotta lie in it.

Damn... That's rough man. I just pray you don't grow to resent your kids. They should feel nothing but love and acceptance from their parents. They didn't ask to be here.

I'll keep it 100. 

I have been a parent since I was 16. I am now 32. There has never been a moment in my adult life where I was not responsible for someone else. I have had to make MAJOR sacrifices in order to care for him. I could have been non-existent like my dad, but I am a GREAT full time parent. I love my son, but I would rather have had him later if I could have.

I had my daughter at a better age(I was 25). Ideally, I would have liked to have both of them back to back. 

Honestly, I can't wait until they are all grown up. I am going to have a mid life crisis and attempt to do a lot of the things I couldn't do due to my responsibilities as a parent. 
 
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