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Introversion =/= socially awkward.
Some of y'all are just introvert AND socially awkward. Not introducing yourself to the rest of the party? Awkward. Not making an effort to at least talk to people? Awkward. Not saying a simple hi or hello? Awkward.
I've been introvert my whole life. That doesn't mean you get a pass for being a socially awkward dude. Go out there and mingle. That's how opportunities present themselves, both socially and professionally.
Using introversion as an excuse to not display good manners is laughable.
I don't think you understand what being an introvert means. If you're very outgoing and say hi to 30+ people at a party, who you've never met, then that kind of sort of means you are more of an extrovert. I don't sit in a corner by myself. If someone speaks to me I have no problem holding a conversation with them.
I've performed at clubs before and haven't been nervous at all. I was great at speeches all throughout high school and college. I just naturally prefer sticking to my group of 4 close friends.
Now I realise maybe I should have never posted in this thread since it is more about soial anxiety
I just watned to share a funny tidbit.
Introversion and extroversion, for the most part, is about where your personality gets its energy from. Yes, introverts prefer to be alone vs larger groups because it's draining on them, but that doesn't mean you still can't do certain things.
Have you ever had to work or study when you were tired? Exhausted? If so, then you can appreciate that you can still show manners, talk to people, and present yourself in social situations in a manner that is socially acceptable despite being an introvert. at anyone who thinks just because they're introvert means it's justified for them to be an ******* at a party or walk around like they're allergic to smiling and have permanent ***** face going on.
I'm just tired of introverts using that label as a way to justify why they're socially awkward. No, you're socially awkward because you're socially awkward. You lack interpersonal skills because you have failed to develop them.
Going back to your original post, you use the word "prefer." That isn't a limitation. Just because you prefer something over another doesn't mean you should avoid it altogether. It's acceptable, but not what you'd exactly like. There in lies the problem with most introverts. People tell them to mingle and they go "well I prefer to be alone, or with smaller groups of people, why don't people understand me" and it's like, dude, that has absolutely nothing to do with me telling you to mingle.
Just because you prefer apples to oranges doesn't mean you can't eat oranges once in awhile when apples aren't available. Especially when you consider that oranges are pretty nutritious and good for you, much like how engaging others in social situations is good for your personal growth.
Stop making excuses and go do things. I don't want to hear about your introvert tendencies.
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