When Are You Too Old/Mature To Be Fighting?

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Short story is I'm 20 years old and make no mistake I have fought before but it has been a long while.

I feel like, better yet I know I let a lot of disrespectful **** slide in my life on some punk ****. :smh:

For some reason this year I'm starting to get really tired of all the BS and about to start going back to my old ways.
My temper has been growing and I'm gonna starting snapping on anybody that comes at me sideways.

But the thing is I feel like I'm to old to go back to fighting. That it would make me look immature and stupid for my age.

But like I said, I'm done with taking B.S. from people and trying to be a nice guy! From now on N's is gonna have to respect my ****!

Your thoughts?
 
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i always avoid fighting.

but some days i feel like snapping and get into fights.

it's a double feeling |I

fighting is not worth it but It would feel so damn good.
 
There is no specific age or maturity level to stop fighting if someone puts their hands on you.


By the age of 18-19 you're too old to be looking for fights or starting them imo
 
Some stuff just isn't worth it, though.

Don't go looking for trouble and it wont find you, that's whats always worked for me. 

FALSE! Trust me, at least living in New York it is.

N's wanna test you and I been getting tested for too long! :smh:
 
Just always say to yourself as long as nobody gets in my face or touches me, let them say what they want its just all talk, they didnt wanna fight in the first place
 
You too pretty to be fightin papi.

Dont want to slash that face.










Maybe you are surrounding yourself around people and bad situations maybe you should remove yourself from that hostile environment
 
Someone I know just got into a fight after a night at the bars and almost killed dude. He's most likely going to jail. Not worth it.
 
FALSE! Trust me, at least living in New York it is.

N's wanna test you and I been getting tested for too long! :smh:

Yes.

I told some kid straight "Look son I don't want to fight you. No ones scared I got better **** to do"

Of course son calls me a P after I'm walking away. I'm a very prideful person and I don't know how I walked away from that when I've gotten into it a lot worse for less than that.

Undefeated btw. None of em were close. :smokin
 
All I'm saying is I want my respect.

I never knew how important respect was until I started self reflecting this year and realized all the **** I let slide.

People most likely think I'm some punk. :smh:
 
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All I'm saying is I want my respect.

I never knew how important respect was until I started self reflecting this year and realized all the **** I let slide.

People most likely think I'm some *****. :smh:

Elaborate on what you let slide
 
Haven't been in a fight in almost 20 yrs..I've learned to walk away or avoid bad situations all together..But if you do something to my wife or kids all that goes out the window..There are just certain things that require civility to get thrown to the side, and those are the 2 things I'm not willing to let slide..Other than that I'm letting pretty much everything roll off my back..
 
 
When you turn 18.. because you can get an assault charge on your adult record
Smartest NTer response I've read in quite some time. Assault charges are real. Was that right cross worth it? You can seriously eff your life up completely over one punch over some idiot. Spewing words at you is not a reason to hit him in the eyes of the law. It's not even about jailtime...it's that adult criminal record. That ish can and will cost you employment opportunities. Be smart, don't be a ******....word to Eminem.
 
when you know without a doubt that the other person is not ***** made, then you gotta do what you gotta do...
 
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18, I ain't ******g up my future over non sense, it pains me to see grown *** people still "beefing"


It's a lot of people spending the rest of their life is prison because they got TRIED
 
Prolly 18 like that dude said above. I've honestly never been in a fight though, just a very passive person.
 
Only in cases of self defense where death or serious bodily harm is imminent. There's too much money to be made, coochie to slay, places to visit, and life to enjoy on this planet. No need to spoil that over some lowlife that you want "respect" from. You can't let another fool control or put your future at risk.

p.s. Studies show males don't fully mature until about 25. So its understandable that certain frustrations upset you. Just try to be the bigger man and control your temper.
 
Been in drunken incidents and have a record cuz of it

Even when I win my hands/wrists are a mess after.

Between legal ****, and it physically being a lose/lose for me, it's personally not worth it for me at all.

I can't imagine living in a hood where people constantly try testing you, and your rep matters.

Personally though, I realized I don't give a F what the trash I live around thinks of me. If people wanna test me, they and the people who care about that stuff are probably trash, so F em.
 
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