How many guys is too many for a girl?

Honestly it doesn't really matter.


If she's a faithful chick then I'm cool. As long as she carry herself with high standards and respect.
 
dont have a specific number and the only time i've known it was 9. Otherwise, every other girl I've dated/slept with i've never cared to ask.
I have never been asked myself, besides the one time with the girl that we told each other
 
just to clarify, I've dated chicks that have had over 3 in a single year and not given a ****.

there was a cultural/religious element to this that initially bothered me, (which most of you guys wouldn't understand.) Even though I knew it shouldn't bother me because she grew up the same way I did. having the culture and religion deep in her, but also growing up Americanized/westernized.

reason I came here is because I knew I was wrong for feeling any type of way over that and needed some reinforcement without speaking to people in my life about it and airing out things she would want to keep private and between us to people that know us.
 
4 @ 22
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girl told me her body count

she's perfect in every way

told me 3 (she's 25.)

i reacted like an insecure *****. I guess even though I've been with girls that have higher counts that I know I'm going to marry this chick. And I come from a culture that more or less expects virginity. And she's of that culture too. But we both grew up very Americanized.

happy I searched this thread. made me realize to stop being an insecure *****. 
I knew I was wrong for thinking like that. It's nice that I didn't have to seek the advice of people I know and put her private business out there like that. Thx NT brahs.

Edit: and if it matters I didn't ask. She wanted to be honest and open with everything and I told her I don't care to know and she still insisted on telling me.

I'd be ecstatic if my girl had 3 :lol:
 
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I mean my girl SAYS she can count them on two hands, but honestly I can't say ****. I'm at 50+
 
You're phrasing the question wrong. What you really mean is "How many bodies can you handle your girl having before you become insecure?"

To answer what you're really asking I would say it depends on several factors:

Assume for this list that we live in the same city:

List in no particular order

1. How many of those bodies were outside a relationship?

2. How many of those bodies outside relationships did she go raw?

3. How many of those bodies outside of a relationship (raw or not) lives in close proximity (same city/town/borough)?

4. How many of those bodies outside of a relationship (raw or not) does she still talk to/associate with/still know?

5. How many STD/STIs/abortions she's had?

I understand we live in more socially lax times so a girl is going to have fun. I can accept that so what I pay attention to more is how she handles relationships and how responsible she is with her "random" bodies as well as her own body.
 
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The same amount as a guy.
Nah that's BS. Guys do the approaching 90% of the time. So for guys, it's like a success rate. For girls, it's like an acceptance rate. I'm not trying to commit to the community college of girls.
 
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Nah that's BS. Guys do the approaching 90% of the time. So for guys, it's like a success rate. For girls, it's like an acceptance rate. I'm not trying to commit to the community college of girls.

No they don't. If you think that then you have some ugly *** friends or be ugly yourself (no offense but this is sex and its ALL about looks and attraction). If a girl sees a hot guy she won't just let him get away.
 
Nah that's BS. Guys do the approaching 90% of the time. So for guys, it's like a success rate. For girls, it's like an acceptance rate. I'm not trying to commit to the community college of girls.
No they don't. If you think that then you have some ugly *** friends or be ugly yourself (no offense but this is sex and its ALL about looks and attraction). If a girl sees a hot guy she won't just let him get away.
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 You sound mad beta right now. You scared to approach women fam? Women want a man who has the nuts to approach them. Period. 
 
 
Nah that's BS. Guys do the approaching 90% of the time. So for guys, it's like a success rate. For girls, it's like an acceptance rate. I'm not trying to commit to the community college of girls.
No they don't. If you think that then you have some ugly *** friends or be ugly yourself (no offense but this is sex and its ALL about looks and attraction). If a girl sees a hot guy she won't just let him get away.
What parallel universe do you live in where guys are sitting around waiting for girls to approach them
 
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