You answered your own question. She's gonna get trained again. (Very serious)
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You answered your own question. She's gonna get trained again. (Very serious)
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Man if iwas you i would straight up either organize the biggest snitchin session and roast both of him, or pay for a prostitute to give him a lil itch (not da herp) to eli manning shovel pass it to yo ex
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Im just spiteful af by the way, she gon get all thotty on me and then get thotted on imma just wild out
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i know that all women are crazy, but i still cant get over how my ex literally told me she wanted to marry me and loved me adn then the next day was with another dude. Its driving me crazy.
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wasted 3 years of my life
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honestly I'm with this mentality usually but it was thousands of miles away and I don't actually know the guy. As a real solution, I'm thinking I just straight up tell her that we should take a vacation instead and if she doesn't get down with that then to next her. Can't let myself get played like that smh
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Not wasted bruh you probably enjoyed two of those years, the other one is just lessons learned about working with these concubines
You're already letting yourself get played by trying to compromise with her...
You're not gonna be able to keep up with the ultimatums... eventually she'll do the opposite of what you want her to do.
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To my dude with the ex going to Austin, Let That Go..
Put it to you this way, she will not be leaving Austin without loving the crew..
Second, no time is ever wasted in a failed relationship. The time you had with the person was just that. What you need to do is better yourself from this point forward. Cut all ties with them and get your life in order. Yeah you can go out and smash yambs all season but until you heal yourself and actually look for the lessons it taught you, promise history will repeat itself. Stop giving these ladies so much power over you. I know it's hard after the fact but sometimes things fall apart for you to become great. If you have to mourn, that is fine and acceptable but at a certain point your going to have to work towards a goal of loving yourself again and empowering yourself as an individual.
Plus for the love of god, stop going back to your ex girl if she got her back blown out by the next dude. She is looking at you as the back up plan for when the next dude eventually dogs her out. You got to have more pride and love for yourself. I did that stuff and it was a hard lesson/wake up call but I just don't want to see other cats delay their greatness by putting up with non-sense that could be detrimental to them in the end.
Put it to you this way, she will not be leaving Austin without loving the crew..
Second, no time is ever wasted in a failed relationship. The time you had with the person was just that. What you need to do is better yourself from this point forward. Cut all ties with them and get your life in order. Yeah you can go out and smash yambs all season but until you heal yourself and actually look for the lessons it taught you, promise history will repeat itself. Stop giving these ladies so much power over you. I know it's hard after the fact but sometimes things fall apart for you to become great. If you have to mourn, that is fine and acceptable but at a certain point your going to have to work towards a goal of loving yourself again and empowering yourself as an individual.
Plus for the love of god, stop going back to your ex girl if she got her back blown out by the next dude. She is looking at you as the back up plan for when the next dude eventually dogs her out. You got to have more pride and love for yourself. I did that stuff and it was a hard lesson/wake up call but I just don't want to see other cats delay their greatness by putting up with non-sense that could be detrimental to them in the end.
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You need to let her go. Reality is you will keep smashing. Try to date other chicks too. Think of it as friends with benefits.
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Update: so I told her to consider going on vacay with me instead and she said yea without any hesitation. I think she realizes it's not a good look for our relationship. Tay famb were right that the trip is bad news.
So when her friend makes plan for another vacation... you gonna ask her to go with you instead, again?
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I mean if she had any hesitation I could've told her what my hang up is...that it crosses a line for me to be in a relationship with someone who's pretty much acting single but that opportunity didn't arise when I brought it up. Like no questions asked so I'm assuming she gets it without me saying it. If she asked she's just **** testing me the important thing to me is whether she'd actually go
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Trying the LDR thing. Dunno why but no other female is doing it for me right now.
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Dude you are setting yourself up for failure. Why would you want to be with someone you have to baby sit? You need to get with a female you can trust.
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She gon behave in your face and hop on the next available pop when you gone and hit you with, "you were okay with it last time"
She deserves no more than a FWB title
She deserves no more than a FWB title
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Your making yourself believe what you want to believe. Relationships/love will do that. If you treat this like a relationship this might end badly. Treat it like a fwb situation and you can flourish.
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Got a new coworker we started to flirting a week later I ask her out to go out Sunday she agreed come Saturday my boys came in town I ask her if she wants to hang out to dance and she hits me with the boyfriend line ......explain please
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^^^^ smh females be like that
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Dipping your pen in company ink. When y'all gonna learn?
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Periods are your friend.
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Things have gotten super serious with my new gf
We've talked about marriage and kids, like specifics like when
She's meeting my mom tonight
We've talked about marriage and kids, like specifics like when
She's meeting my mom tonight
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Congrats Doc. She's sounding like a keeper right now
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