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Well every dude in a city with decent transit shouldn't have a problem talking with females.
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[COLOR=#red]Got our STD test results back and as expected we're both as clean as a whistle. Shorty already on BC so I think y'all know what that means 
Campus clinic was clutch with the fast results.[/COLOR]
Campus clinic was clutch with the fast results.[/COLOR]
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I honestly don't see how dudes are not smashing a different girl each month. I understand if u have a cold streak, busy with work or something... But these college dudes have it EASY.
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Got our STD test results back and as expected we're both as clean as a whistle. Shorty already on BC so I think y'all know what that meansCampus clinic was clutch with the fast results.
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Some just don't want to bro. Not even a question about the ability to or not. Honestly after a certain number it doesn't even matter anymore...is 100 really any different from 150 lifetime? It's like ok you know you can pull and smash pretty much at will, then what? So some like to mess with a particular shorty or two for a decent amount of time then find a new one, rinse and repeat.
Yeah true college is a great time for smashing, but real talk too many times dudes concentrated too much on that then came out with mediocre GPA and mediocre job opportunities and that's IF they even graduated. It's much smarter to have a chick or two to hold you down and concentrate on studies. Don't get me wrong some can do both, but really it doesn't really happen that often.[/COLOR]
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Not everyone is built the same
Some lack that natural confidence
Some are too much of a nice guy
Some just are relationship type guys
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Quick question, how do you guys feel about having your girl or wife do Brazilian jiu jiutsu? Grappling rolling around with a male teacher or potential classmates that are male?
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Yeah but when they come in here with the same problem monthly, it's time to change that faucet of urself.
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Got to have trust young Jedi
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sounds like you'd be mad insecure if you cared even the slightest that she was learning how to protect herself even if she had to roll with men to learn.
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Wouldn't bother me in the least. If it's an activity she loves to do, why would I want her stop an interest because men are her grappling partner. Doesn't matter what your lady does, if she is choosy, there is absolutely nothing you can do.
Forbidding someone or throwing shade or feeling some type of way will only push her further away. Maybe try a class with her and be her partner instead or just be supportive at her matches.
Grown people are going to do themselves regardless of what you say.
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My homies and I were talking about it and we got some mixed views. Some men can't fathom the idea of their chick being submissive to another man. Like some of you said it would be selfish to be emotional about it
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naw bro that's that caveman thinking. if shes attracted to them ad steps out on you then maybe you have a acase, but more than likely she's not even thinking about that as shes getting arm barred and learning how to tap out properly
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School starts in 7 days [emoji]128527[/emoji]
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Things are slowly falling into place with shorty in my class
... And I swear ex girlfriends got some type of 6th sense that activates when a new chick starts creepin in. I'm talm bout this bish cold calling me 2-3 nights a week
, asking me to move into an apartment with her , trying to reconnect , etc.
I told her to start giving up the box again and we can be "friends"
... And I swear ex girlfriends got some type of 6th sense that activates when a new chick starts creepin in. I'm talm bout this bish cold calling me 2-3 nights a week
, asking me to move into an apartment with her , trying to reconnect , etc. I told her to start giving up the box again and we can be "friends"
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Need some help on how to go about making my friend a friend with benefits.
Quick background:
I have a girl.. she has a dude that she dates long distance. Hardly ever sees him, we hang out all the time.
I smashed her before 2 summers ago but I want to have her on da team.
Any suggestions on how to go about doing this without being weird or whatever... would be appreciated.
Quick background:
I have a girl.. she has a dude that she dates long distance. Hardly ever sees him, we hang out all the time.
I smashed her before 2 summers ago but I want to have her on da team.
Any suggestions on how to go about doing this without being weird or whatever... would be appreciated.
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Repped the whole post. But THIS right here. I call them mini relationships. That R.Kelly and Jay Z (Best of Both Worlds).
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YOU HAVE TO FEEL GAME
I decided to do a post on this because a lot of people aren't going in the right direction. Being the person that I am I couldn't help but say something. A lot of mf's think that all they got to do is have a thought and action about something then the lifestyle they want will come to them. I always hear people talk about thought and action, but neglecting feeling which is the key. Thought and action are good, but if your feeling the total opposite about them then that's why you keep failing. I say this to say that the way you feel is stronger than thought and action. Although you do need to have those as well.
Don't believe me when I say feeling is more important? If a ***** caught you cheating and she say, "I love you" in a psycho type of way what will you respond to stronger? If your a smart mf you'll know to get the **** away from her. Now if you want to be stuck on stupid and remain lost then got dammit you have the free will to do so.
You can call yourself a playa or whatever all day long if you want to. If you still feel like that lil kid who got picked on in high school then no wonder quality women don't want you. They see you acting nervous, shy, or intimidated . That goes back to how you feel about yourself. Like attracts like. If a confident female you approach see some insecure *** dude trying to get with her why in the hell would she want that. People get attracted with one another by vibration which has nothing to do with looks, but how you feel. Someone who feels confident won't vibe with a insecure mf and vice versa. Everything vibrates, even a rock. Being down about yourself is some low vibration ****. Those females you want got guys sweating them all the time. They're not feeling down about themselves so it wouldn't be possible for you to be with someone that's not on the same vibration as you. So no, you can't think about then decide to approach a quality woman (thought and action) feeling like your hopeless because it will show. Life don't work like that. No matter how much you try to hide it.
Lets be real..... Nobody give a damn about how short, out of shape, or how ****** up life been to you. Your the one who got to deal with the **** for the rest of your life. So what are you going to do about it? Being a ***** certainly won't fix it. You will just be that angry *** old man wishing you can start over one last time. The biggest risk is not taking any. When its a problem it will always be a solution. Always!
Solution
You got balls so you need to literally act like it. Knowledge (game) is power. Meaning you have power and shouldn't be walking around feeling all insecure like a *****. That's just setting yourself up for failure by giving off some weak *** energy. Its a damn shame when dudes got to pay for a date just to get some *** now. That's not power. You shouldn't give a **** what people think. Nobody with power gives a **** about an opinion from a powerless person. Knowing this game separates you from the m(*****) ~ like Dhjeuty would say. People will feel the presence of a powerful person. You need to feel like you have that power then put thought and action into it. Then the **** will work.
You didn't stumble upon a forum with game or hear about Tariq on accident. Simply because accidents don't exist. Everything happens for a reason. Its up to you if you will take this seriously to better your life the way you want to live it. Remember you got to feel Game. If a ***** every play you, you better look at her like she the dumbest ***** on earth and keep moving. Until you start feeling Game you'll never understand what having it is like no matter how much you learned. If you don't want to feel it then just stop learning about it now because you're wasting your time. Time is money and you will need that to trick in the direction your walking towards.
I decided to do a post on this because a lot of people aren't going in the right direction. Being the person that I am I couldn't help but say something. A lot of mf's think that all they got to do is have a thought and action about something then the lifestyle they want will come to them. I always hear people talk about thought and action, but neglecting feeling which is the key. Thought and action are good, but if your feeling the total opposite about them then that's why you keep failing. I say this to say that the way you feel is stronger than thought and action. Although you do need to have those as well.
Don't believe me when I say feeling is more important? If a ***** caught you cheating and she say, "I love you" in a psycho type of way what will you respond to stronger? If your a smart mf you'll know to get the **** away from her. Now if you want to be stuck on stupid and remain lost then got dammit you have the free will to do so.
You can call yourself a playa or whatever all day long if you want to. If you still feel like that lil kid who got picked on in high school then no wonder quality women don't want you. They see you acting nervous, shy, or intimidated . That goes back to how you feel about yourself. Like attracts like. If a confident female you approach see some insecure *** dude trying to get with her why in the hell would she want that. People get attracted with one another by vibration which has nothing to do with looks, but how you feel. Someone who feels confident won't vibe with a insecure mf and vice versa. Everything vibrates, even a rock. Being down about yourself is some low vibration ****. Those females you want got guys sweating them all the time. They're not feeling down about themselves so it wouldn't be possible for you to be with someone that's not on the same vibration as you. So no, you can't think about then decide to approach a quality woman (thought and action) feeling like your hopeless because it will show. Life don't work like that. No matter how much you try to hide it.
Lets be real..... Nobody give a damn about how short, out of shape, or how ****** up life been to you. Your the one who got to deal with the **** for the rest of your life. So what are you going to do about it? Being a ***** certainly won't fix it. You will just be that angry *** old man wishing you can start over one last time. The biggest risk is not taking any. When its a problem it will always be a solution. Always!
Solution
You got balls so you need to literally act like it. Knowledge (game) is power. Meaning you have power and shouldn't be walking around feeling all insecure like a *****. That's just setting yourself up for failure by giving off some weak *** energy. Its a damn shame when dudes got to pay for a date just to get some *** now. That's not power. You shouldn't give a **** what people think. Nobody with power gives a **** about an opinion from a powerless person. Knowing this game separates you from the m(*****) ~ like Dhjeuty would say. People will feel the presence of a powerful person. You need to feel like you have that power then put thought and action into it. Then the **** will work.
You didn't stumble upon a forum with game or hear about Tariq on accident. Simply because accidents don't exist. Everything happens for a reason. Its up to you if you will take this seriously to better your life the way you want to live it. Remember you got to feel Game. If a ***** every play you, you better look at her like she the dumbest ***** on earth and keep moving. Until you start feeling Game you'll never understand what having it is like no matter how much you learned. If you don't want to feel it then just stop learning about it now because you're wasting your time. Time is money and you will need that to trick in the direction your walking towards.
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It's really called dating... Ur dating a girl and then just drift apart cuz u still want to be single. That's all I've done the last 3 years.
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-Had a wild weekend partying with my ex
-Bunch Of Tequila
-New Party Venue
-Spontaneous trip to SD
- Hot Air Ballon (got canceled cuz weather)
-BUUUUUUUT
Then I was reminded why she was my ex
-I lost my wallet
-She was checking up on my phone
-I got super hungover and puked 24 hours
-She started E-Thoting
-I messed up my sweater
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Let's just say it all went downhill
-Bunch Of Tequila
-New Party Venue
-Spontaneous trip to SD
- Hot Air Ballon (got canceled cuz weather)
-BUUUUUUUT
Then I was reminded why she was my ex
-I lost my wallet
-She was checking up on my phone
-I got super hungover and puked 24 hours
-She started E-Thoting
-I messed up my sweater
....
Let's just say it all went downhill
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I feel the intent is different, in that a mini relationship you KNOW at the beginning it will only be a few weeks/months until your single again.
Dating is on that journey to a full fledged relationship ( boyfriend / girlfriend).
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Out here (Cali) everyone I know that's seeing a girl/ hanging out says they are dating that person.
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