TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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This may be a weird question in this thread but since it's yamb related I'll ask it anyways.


So I've been with my girl for over 6 or 7 we don't keep track. Since she basically was my friends with benefits that morphed into my girl. But any who so for those 6/7 years I've been going raw and luckly no pregnancy but the longer we are together the more I see my future being with her and I am starting to wonder if She or I can have kids. She's brought it up more so in the last year and I told her I wondered the same. Would we be jinxing it if we went to test for it? Or should I go ahead and take the test in order to prepare for possibly not ever having kids?
 
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So she was your FWB first and then your girl....sounds like a keeper......::



Justgo to the doc if yall are both prepare and want kids.
 
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So she was your FWB first and then your girl....sounds like a keeper......::



Justgo to the doc if yall are both prepare and want kids.

I always make fun of her for that(but didn't smash until like a year of knowing her she gave me enough to keep me around dam high school days I tolarated to much lol). I remember kissing her and her friend one right after the other and yes the both saw lol. She just tells me when you weren't my bf, but she said she was still furious just didn't want to bring it up. But she's held me down thru all the crap I've done.

Oh by the way not planning on kids anything soon I am only 24 just want to idk prepare mentally Incase i get hit with the no chance of having kids. Since her side of the fam has had trouble with pregnancy.
 
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I gave a chick some flying dog IPA one day. It was what I was drinking so I shared and told her take one. We driving to a restuarant and go eat and chill. Take her home. Have some fun. She leaves and I go to grab some rillos. Ol girl had taken one sip and left it in the cup holder. I was heated lol

I hate when ANYONE does that :rofl:

It's the worst. Don't ask for a beer if you know you're not gonna come close to finishing it
 
Any of you dudes believe there's cheating caused by insecurity? Where a guy or girl needs the "approval" of someone other than their S/O to feel better about themselves?
 
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Any of you dudes believe there's cheating caused by insecurity? Where a guy or girl needs the "approval" of someone other than their S/O to feel better about themselves?

Yeah because a lot of people are in relationships where they don't feel desired or wanted by their S/O anymore they're just there out of comfort.
 
Think I might have ended things w my girl today. Had a big argument earlier today over some "friend" that turned out to be her ex from two yrs ago. Not that I have a problem w her tlkng to him but long story short she's been talking to him since the beginning of this year and tried to hide their communication from me. We've had history since 09 and broke it off in 11. We recently hooked back up the end of last year and then she went back off to college. Really wasnt ready for the long distance relationship (was under the impression she'll be finishing school in May) and we've both got trust issues. Fell kind of bad for leaving her but I think it might be time for me to move on.
 
Move on bro , theres no explanation that she can think of that would make this situation any better .
 
Think I might have ended things w my girl today. Had a big argument earlier today over some "friend" that turned out to be her ex from two yrs ago. Not that I have a problem w her tlkng to him but long story short she's been talking to him since the beginning of this year and tried to hide their communication from me. We've had history since 09 and broke it off in 11. We recently hooked back up the end of last year and then she went back off to college. Really wasnt ready for the long distance relationship (was under the impression she'll be finishing school in May) and we've both got trust issues. Fell kind of bad for leaving her but I think it might be time for me to move on.
That concealing **** is foul.

Good decision
 
Any decent date spots in Houston area? New to the city and wanna show someone a good time. Open to whatever. 25 yr old crowd. Nothing ratchet plz lol
 
How does one get over being insecure and trust issues? I think thats the main thing holding me back from letting any woman get emotionally attached to me.
 
How does one get over being insecure and trust issues? I think thats the main thing holding me back from letting any woman get emotionally attached to me.

Time.

As a man, in this era, we're skeptical with woman from what we see on television, to what we read on the internet... ect.
 
Any decent date spots in Houston area? New to the city and wanna show someone a good time. Open to whatever. 25 yr old crowd. Nothing ratchet plz lol
Discovery Green..
Kemah boardwalk..
Various restaurants in midtown-montrose-rice village..
Hermann Park..
Can't think of the name right now but there is a dope little go cart racetrack going towards Hobby Airport, that's fun..
Lucky strike is downtown but there is another bowling alley I go to that's cheap, I'll have too look it up I forgot it.
Pearland/ north beach( stay on 288 you will drive right up onto it)...
But for "young/non ratchet" it's best to just explore montrose-rice-downtown-midtown area until you get the full swing of Houston and know your whole way around. Lived here off and on my whole life and still finding new ****...
Lol
 
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How does one get over being insecure and trust issues? I think thats the main thing holding me back from letting any woman get emotionally attached to me.

The realization it's not the end of the world if you end up with strong feelings for someone and it doesn't work out. You learn from the relationship and experience and even if you didn't do anything wrong it still makes you stronger/better/wiser
 
After reading what you guys say in here I jumped in. Talked to a chick at the bar and asked for her number. She gives it to me but my friend out of nowhere recognizes her so im left there while he pursues . Turn around and her friend is behind me. Talked to her she was a though nut to crack but I got her number. Meeting up for drinks if she don't fake. Shes South African so this is going to be a first.
 
Discovery Green..
Kemah boardwalk..
Various restaurants in midtown-montrose-rice village..
Hermann Park..
Can't think of the name right now but there is a dope little go cart racetrack going towards Hobby Airport, that's fun..
Lucky strike is downtown but there is another bowling alley I go to that's cheap, I'll have too look it up I forgot it.
Pearland/ north beach( stay on 288 you will drive right up onto it)...
But for "young/non ratchet" it's best to just explore montrose-rice-downtown-midtown area until you get the full swing of Houston and know your whole way around. Lived here off and on my whole life and still finding new ****...
Lol

You might want to go on Yelp and get some ideas for what you want to do based on the situation and how long you've been taking to the chick.

For example, there's a Korean-Asian joint called Fat Bao off Richmond & Kirby. My girl and I go often cause it's really good but I wouldn't go for a first date. Top Golf is a great date night but that **** is way too pricey for a 1st IMO.

A few recent outings include Max's Wine and Dive, Ra Sushi / Studio Movie Grill @ City Centre, rock climbing/ leisure pool @ U of H, watch the game @ the Texans Gtille @ City Centre, games @ Main Event & live music @ Red Cat Jazz Cafe.

One of the benefits if Houston being so flipping spread out is the variety of things available to do.
 
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Tay fam i need opinions...

Im talking to this one chick, cool down to earth chick and the feelings mutual.

So this morning im at the gym and she texts me saying that her babydaddy came to her crib drunk, broke her window to get in cuz she wasnt letting him in and starts smacking her nd kicking her cause he sees that shes moving on.

Im here at the gym sick to my stomach wishing i was there for her so i could beat this kid up...but at the same time i feel like its none of my business....stay out of it?
 
Tay fam i need opinions...

Im talking to this one chick, cool down to earth chick and the feelings mutual.

So this morning im at the gym and she texts me saying that her babydaddy came to her crib drunk, broke her window to get in cuz she wasnt letting him in and starts smacking her nd kicking her cause he sees that shes moving on.

Im here at the gym sick to my stomach wishing i was there for her so i could beat this kid up...but at the same time i feel like its none of my business....stay out of it?

This could get really ugly fast. Don't get involved
 
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