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Married NTers, do you find it alright for a man to not let his wife go to her SISTERS birthday party without him? Say he doesn't want to go, and basically says "It's not im not going, it's WERE not going" Proceeded by arguing and starting with "Dont start with your s_". Basically controlling whether she can go anywhere without him, is it right?
 
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Married NTers, do you find it alright for a man to not let his wife go to her SISTERS birthday party without him? Say he doesn't want to go, and basically says "It's not im not going, it's WERE not going" Proceeded by arguing and starting with "Dont start with your s_". Basically controlling whether she can go anywhere without him, is it right?

Not married but ive been with my girl 5 years

That is crazy. They have serious trust issues and i couldnt personally live like that. Way too much stress
 
Just had a crazy break up from what I consider my only serious relationship (2 years.) Still aint turned 20 years so its time to get back on track & pull some yambs... just gotta break out this funk first...
Any advice on how to get back in the game fellas? You get kind of complacent when your doing everything w/ the same person...
U can read some of the old thread. But since u are 20 then talk to the chicks around your campus (if u are in school), go out more,and talk with the chicks on transit. Not sure what your situation is or where u live.
 
I'm not married but that sounds very unreasonable.

It's her damn sister


Married NTers, do you find it alright for a man to not let his wife go to her SISTERS birthday party without him? Say he doesn't want to go, and basically says "It's not im not going, it's WERE not going" Proceeded by arguing and starting with "Dont start with your s_". Basically controlling whether she can go anywhere without him, is it right?

Not married but ive been with my girl 5 years

That is crazy. They have serious trust issues and i couldnt personally live like that. Way too much stress
Today was the first time I ever spoke out against him, and he got super pissed. I asked "Why? It's Tia's birthday", and he responded by "Mind your damn business, don't include yourself in the conversation". Dude has some serious trust issues, which I've talked to him before. He expects me to have the same mentality when he asked me "You would let your wife go out with her friends to a club?" & I said "Yeah, why not? I trust her enough to have her as my wife, there's no reason why I should dictate her life". She had to sneak out to the mall once with my cousin when he didn't even know. :smh:
 
A grown *** woman having to sneak? That's nuts. You do gotta know your place though youngin.
I understand I gotta know my place, but it's like he's her second father... I always felt like there was friction between me and him (he's my step father, met him when I was 4), but recently there's been more since I've started to question him on why he does things that are controlling. She's a woman (my mom at that), not a child, you feel me? It seems like I'm the only one within the house that challenges him since my brothers (im the oldest) are to scared for whatever reason on how he treats her sometimes. I just know our mindsets on how we view women are completely opposite.
 
I understand I gotta know my place, but it's like he's her second father... I always felt like there was friction between me and him (he's my step father, met him when I was 4), but recently there's been more since I've started to question him on why he does things that are controlling. She's a woman (my mom at that), not a child, you feel me? It seems like I'm the only one within the house that challenges him since my brothers (im the oldest) are to scared for whatever reason on how he treats her sometimes. I just know our mindsets on how we view women are completely opposite.

Nah bro, that's your mom? That's YOUR woman fam. Srs. Your input counts as well. Whether you feel like you're too young or it's "not your business"

I thank the man above my mom never re-married after my parents divorced. I just couldn't have a step-dad personally. Me and him would've come to blows way too many times to count.
 
Give us the story bro.

1200 th poster gimmie a prize

Not that much to tell honestly, met her a minute ago and she got some free time before she heads to LA (she's a makeup artist) She took me out to dinner/drinks and paid for everything (always nice) We got a hotel with a nice view and a bottle of vodka and didn't stop smashing until check out. Sex was A1, she's one of those who can have multiple orgasms/squirt and it wasn't my place so I took full advantage :lol:


I'm more of a city dude, but I heard BK girls are easier. What are some spots you frequent :nerd:

Everything is easy in NYC :lol:

Manhattan/BK/Queens, all flourish.

In Brooklyn I'm mostly in Williamsburg/Bushwick/Park Slope. It's like the 60's in Williamsburg though, women have left all their damns in their hometowns. Hit me on the PM if you wanna know some specific areas/spots, there's a lot.
 
I understand I gotta know my place, but it's like he's her second father... I always felt like there was friction between me and him (he's my step father, met him when I was 4), but recently there's been more since I've started to question him on why he does things that are controlling. She's a woman (my mom at that), not a child, you feel me? It seems like I'm the only one within the house that challenges him since my brothers (im the oldest) are to scared for whatever reason on how he treats her sometimes. I just know our mindsets on how we view women are completely opposite.

Nah bro, that's your mom? That's YOUR woman fam. Srs. Your input counts as well. Whether you feel like you're too young or it's "not your business"

I thank the man above my mom never re-married after my parents divorced. I just couldn't have a step-dad personally. Me and him would've come to blows way too many times to count.
Never had a real father, so he's the closest thing to a father figure I've had. But I feel in my right mind that I should defend my mom against her husband, it's like second nature... I doubt me and him would get into any altercation, because I honestly can't see it happening, but we have our disagreements.
 
Not that much to tell honestly, met her a minute ago and she got some free time before she heads to LA (she's a makeup artist) She took me out to dinner/drinks and paid for everything (always nice) We got a hotel with a nice view and a bottle of vodka and didn't stop smashing until check out. Sex was A1, she's one of those who can have multiple orgasms/squirt and it wasn't my place so I took full advantage
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Everything is easy in NYC
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Manhattan/BK/Queens, all flourish.

In Brooklyn I'm mostly in Williamsburg/Bushwick/Park Slope. It's like the 60's in Williamsburg though, women have left all their damns in their hometowns. Hit me on the PM if you wanna know some specific areas/spots, there's a lot.
Ill hit you up next time I am in NYC
 
The Don is back and going ham tonight. These spoiled lil LA girls should be on the lookout. :smokin

Stockton to Malone in full effect!

how dare you come back in here like we didn't have your face and name on milk cartons.
Spill the beans homie
 
Never had a real father, so he's the closest thing to a father figure I've had. But I feel in my right mind that I should defend my mom against her husband, it's like second nature... I doubt me and him would get into any altercation, because I honestly can't see it happening, but we have our disagreements.

no diss but your mom older too :lol: I doubt she finna hit the club on the "prowl" tryna look for somebody. At the end of the day nothing will change until your mom stands up to him. Spend less time talking to him and more to your mom---if she don't mind then you can't really do anything about it. You def don't want to confront him when in the end she's just going to tell you to sit down and shut up/mind your business. Then you got a riff between you and your mom AND you and your step-dad

*kanye shrug*
 
Brash just went out wit dis chick and I realized I needs improve my conversation skills asap

Gimme pointers please
 
Brash just went out wit dis chick and I realized I needs improve my conversation skills asap

Gimme pointers please

Basically what Jay Are said, but as far as going about doing that, avoid a whole lotta yes/no questions if you can. Also, when a chick's talking, she'll usually say something that you can then use as the next topic or subject of a convo, that way she's talking (as she probably already likes to do), && it gives her the impression that you're pretty into her, as you'd be able to continue to interact just off the strength of dissecting her stories, playing off what she says, etc.
 
Is it possible to get banned from a specific thread?

I can't get in the IR thread anymore. I can only view it if I'm logged out and I didn't receive a notification when I got quoted

Gator, I'm not white. Light bright black dude.

I said I've been in IR and I've dated black chicks. Meaning I've dated inside and outside my race. The only times I noticed looks was when I dated a chocolate black chick in college.
 
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