TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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Where are you guys meeting girls besides bars and clubs?

Yoga, Trader Joes, Art Galleries, Concerts, Gym, Restaurants, Shopping.

If you have no filter/good mouthpiece and are well rounded you can pull anywhere.

Bars and Clubs are the easiest but nothing truly great comes easy, sometimes you gotta step outside the box.
 
Bruhs, I legit need some advice here.

I've got two chicks on my hand and I need to make a decision sooner than I thought on who to make it official with. I'll give you a quick rundown and let me know your thoughts:

Girl 1:
- My ex of a good amount of time
- College educated
- No kids
- Down for me like no other
- Trust her, even with my financials
- Great Convo
- Equal financial provider (so financially I could live a better life)
- Know she would be a great mom
- Sometimes a little emotinaly unstable (nothing crazy, but not to the point I would like. but she has grown)
- Sex not great (and this is the biggest downfall, she was a virgin before me)

Girl 2:
- Amazing sex (best I ever had)
- Lookswise she is close to what I've always wanted
- Down for me as well, and I believe would continue to do so
- More emotionally stable, but a little clingier
- Decent convo
- No college degree (and can't currently get one because she's not a citizen)
- 5 years Older
- Has a child, but is a good mom and would continue to be
- I would be the main financial provider (Can't live the life I dream of probably, and this is the biggest downfall)

Both cook, are caring, and have great personalities. What it pretty much boils down to is do I want a great life of financial security and a best friend but mediocre sex. Or do I want a life that may not be as great financially, but with amazing sex. Which would yall choose?
stopped reading right there...

Option 3: the other 2+ billion legal aged yambs in the world.

Why get into a relationship if you have to ask which one to choose?
 
Mark Antony bout the only one that agreed with homie :lol:

You missing that X-Box too huh?
 
You permanently scarred by the Xbox? Naw I just look at the world objectively. I'm nowhere close to the point of settling down with one, but that case only person I'm listening to is myself, least of all NT. Old TAY regulars would maybe get a listen.
 
I'm just ******g with you bruh :lol:

The Xbox has been nice to me but only for a one night stand, wouldn't go back into a relationship with em. He asked for advice and in my opinion it's late for going back to something that didn't work, different strokes for different folks though
 
You permanently scarred by the Xbox? Naw I just look at the world objectively. I'm nowhere close to the point of settling down with one, but that case only person I'm listening to is myself, least of all NT. Old TAY regulars would maybe get a listen.

The problem is dude didn't even say why he broke up with her in the first place...
 
Yoga, Trader Joes, Art Galleries, Concerts, Gym, Restaurants, Shopping.

If you have no filter/good mouthpiece and are well rounded you can pull anywhere.

Bars and Clubs are the easiest but nothing truly great comes easy, sometimes you gotta step outside the box.

Exactly idc care for the club life too much. I guess I could try the gym since im always there, it wont hurt to try.
 
True. But I agree with Ricky though, neither since you're conflicted. If you're gonna be in a relationship it should be obvious.


Naw i get jokes, I do have exes I only get the box from no feelings, but i cant lie there's always that one that meant more. If the timing were ever right and we both grew and are still compatible I'd give it a shot.


That said too, TAY tip number in OP should be take everything said with a grain of salt.
 
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Broke up with the ex cause I needed to grow as a man and experience the single life. The next step was marriage and I wasn't ready. We've remained in good contact, see each other frequently, but no sex, my choosing.

I know there are other girls, and I've ran through the yambs as of late. I'm just tired of it and most girls aren't worth more than the D to me. Like I get numbers, go out on dates, smash chicks, but 99% of the chicks I come into contact with can't keep my attention for more than like 3 days. Chicks feel me way more than I feel them and so it's hard for me to legit build with them.
 
You make solid points but if either chick was the one then you wouldn't have trouble deciding

Maybe the reason other girls can't keep your attention is that you don't want them to bc you know you can just fall back to your ex
 
 
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aye...

you've been repped.
 
posting just for the new TAY to keep up with it, may not have as many stories and successes as some of the regs here but love the knowledge dropped here always.
 
posting just for the new TAY to keep up with it, may not have as many stories and successes as some of the regs here but love the knowledge dropped here always.
I said fhis last thread and I'll say it again...

Cats only posts success makes it seem like every time they approach a chick, its 90% money.

That is NOT the case broseph... Trust me...

I try to share as many L's as I can... I learn from those...
 
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Girl 2:
- Amazing sex (best I ever had)
- Lookswise she is close to what I've always wanted
- Down for me as well, and I believe would continue to do so
- More emotionally stable, but a little clingier
- Decent convo
- No college degree (and can't currently get one because she's not a citizen)
- 5 years Older
- Has a child, but is a good mom and would continue to be
- I would be the main financial provider (Can't live the life I dream of probably, and this is the biggest downfall)

Both cook, are caring, and have great personalities. What it pretty much boils down to is do I want a great life of financial security and a best friend but mediocre sex. Or do I want a life that may not be as great financially, but with amazing sex. Which would yall choose?
thats a trap right there.i done that one already. dont be a sucker. 

 girl number one all the way . 
 
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Broke up with the ex cause I needed to grow as a man and experience the single life. The next step was marriage and I wasn't ready. We've remained in good contact, see each other frequently, but no sex, my choosing.

I know there are other girls, and I've ran through the yambs as of late. I'm just tired of it and most girls aren't worth more than the D to me. Like I get numbers, go out on dates, smash chicks, but 99% of the chicks I come into contact with can't keep my attention for more than like 3 days. Chicks feel me way more than I feel them and so it's hard for me to legit build with them.
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I feel you and a main reason for me wanting to move out the south. But there always that grass isn't greener on the over side theory.
 
This is true also because my grass stay watered. Everything is just an excuse after that.
 
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posting just for the new TAY to keep up with it, may not have as many stories and successes as some of the regs here but love the knowledge dropped here always.
I said fhis last thread and I'll say it again...

Cats only posts success makes it seem like every time they approach a chick, its 90% money.

That is NOT the case broseph... Trust me...

I try to share as many L's as I can... I learn from those...
This.

I always let my boys know more about my L's than my W's. It is always a learning experience. Why you think some cats can break break it down more than others? Experience is the true teacher in life. Which is why coaches are always finding things to improve on.
 
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