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Nothing wrong with giving out your number or business cards. I commend the homie for doing that at least instead of working up a frenzy in his mind and letting chances pass him by,lol...
The whole trick to the business card is in the details. Card Stock, imagery, font, etc.., women are very fond of details and that gives them an impression of who you are. If you want to be candid, it's more "alpha" giving out your number because it shows you are not scared of getting shut down. If she calls, she calls, if she doesn't then you move on and continue batting. Giving out your number weeds out the bs, meaning the ones who are actually down vs the ones that even if you got their number they can just simply push ignore on their phone and ignore. This dating/yamb thing is all about numbers, it's always going to be 50/50, so taking initiative triumphs sitting with idle hands...
Also(sorry for incomplete thought, wife is home), like The Don said sometimes guys rush to thoughts and judgements if a girl doesn't reply fast enough. Just chill, always keep a cool demeanor about situations, never let a female take you out of your character, never react hastily. If she starts acting with the funny business, just hit her with "It's all good, no worries." Hit her *** with the Pharrell "Happy" dance and proceed to the next young lady(Yamb). Too much ***** in this world to be stressed by one...
 
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mugen81 said:
This dating/yamb thing is all about numbers, it's always going to be 50/50, so taking initiative triumphs sitting with idle hands like this
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EXACTLY. I always say this. I'm not a 1.000 hitter, no one in the world is.If ur smashing 3/10 ur still smashing 3 girls lol.
 
Who's ever fell in lust?

What happen and how long did it take you to realize it wasn't what you thought it was?
 
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Yo Ecook....

Help me out with some openers. You remind me of a friend I knew that would always approach every group and throw oops. I'm amazing at middle game and my closing got better over time, but I rarely try opening. Now since I'm the only one on campus and most of my boys left I need to sharpen that part up and I see you're pretty good at that.

Preferably for bar/club settings (I find it easier to open during the day randomly than a bar) and for a girl by herself or in a group of no more than 2.
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Would these be openers just for you or when ur with a buddy? I'm mostly out with a buddy or two so I put them in the game at the same time, with something like, "Hey my buddy and I were having a debate about _____..." and then ask for their opinion on the topic.

When I'm truly solo I will notice something about them. I like to comment on the drink they have. Or ask them for their advice on a drink.

Me: Excuse me, what is THAT in ur drink?
Her: Oh it's just a Jack and Coke.
Me: Damn, I thought u were more adventurous than that...
Her: Lol what are u drinking?
Me: AND UR IN


Another thing I focus on is what they are wearing. Shoes are easy.

I find opening to be all about confidence, are u looking more so for lines or just tips?
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Mainly when I'm going to a bar with a friend or two. I'm more of a dancer, so my opening needs sharpening. Exactly what i was looking for btw, just simple lines. Definitely using that "thought you were more adventurous drink line" this weekend. That **** is golden :smokin

And i'm gonna tweak complimenting them about their shoes. Something like "that dress looks good on you, but i'm not a fan of the shoes" (jokingly).

My go2 line at a bar is "stop texting its time to be social" then a smile ( it actually works most of the times :lol:).
 
Married chick at work...

She's made some jokes about divorce. She never talks about her husband. She says she didn't do anything on Valentines day, despite being hyped up for it all week. There is a chemistry there, but I've never tried to hangout or anything because she has a bf. Today, she gave me, what I thought was, the "look" I smiled, acted like I didn't notice and kept it moving. She stays coming in without her ring. She'll go three days, no ring, one day with ring, two days no ring, two days ring etc.

I'm wondering if I should try, we're the same age and she doesn't seem to want to be married...
 
Ballinsam23 said:
Mainly when I'm going to a bar with a friend or two. I'm more of a dancer, so my opening needs sharpening. Exactly what i was looking for btw, just simple lines. Definitely using that "thought you were more adventurous drink line" this weekend. That **** is golden :smokin

And i'm gonna tweak complimenting them about their shoes. Something like "that dress looks good on you, but i'm not a fan of the shoes" (jokingly).

My go2 line at a bar is "stop texting its time to be social" then a smile ( it actually works most of the times :lol:).
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Yeah the backhanded compliment is always money. Another good thing I do is start the convo like I posted above and then maybe 2 minutes into it I say, "I'm so impolite, I'm Ecook btw."

Shows confidence and that ur a gentleman. When u get the digits, one of my favorite things to do is tell them u will text them something witty. I go with, "Insert witty text here :wink:"

Let me know how it goes.

My line for the summer was $$$$$

I walked up to girls and would say, "Excuse me, my buddy and I were having a debate about what's the song of the summer, and the loser is buying the next drink so we need ur input!"

Girls would EAT that up. Could do something simple like, "I think Drake is WHACK and my boy thinks he's awesome, loser is buying the next round so it's SUPER important..."
 
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Married chick at work...

She's made some jokes about divorce. She never talks about her husband. She says she didn't do anything on Valentines day, despite being hyped up for it all week. There is a chemistry there, but I've never tried to hangout or anything because she has a bf. Today, she gave me, what I thought was, the "look" I smiled, acted like I didn't notice and kept it moving. She stays coming in without her ring. She'll go three days, no ring, one day with ring, two days no ring, two days ring etc.

I'm wondering if I should try, we're the same age and she doesn't seem to want to be married...
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She is straight looking for ATTENTION..
Nothing more, nothing less...
Don't be about that life breh, too much drama and stress will come your way, especially if this is your primary grind and if you love your career..
Can't reiterate this enough
Family>Friends>Paper>Hobbies>Yambs..
Just that easy and too many top notch women out here that need love and sex instead of these birds, side chicks and drama queens...
 
keeL252 said:
Who's ever fell in lust?

What happen and how long did it take you to realize it wasn't what you thought it was?
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I falls in lust all day, nun wrong wit it as long as U KNOW that its lust. Confuse it and die brodie, trust. Sexing is one thing but it can get sour real quick if L bombs are dropped
 
am1x90xnike said:
 
Married chick at work...

She's made some jokes about divorce. She never talks about her husband. She says she didn't do anything on Valentines day, despite being hyped up for it all week. There is a chemistry there, but I've never tried to hangout or anything because she has a bf. Today, she gave me, what I thought was, the "look" I smiled, acted like I didn't notice and kept it moving. She stays coming in without her ring. She'll go three days, no ring, one day with ring, two days no ring, two days ring etc.

I'm wondering if I should try, we're the same age and she doesn't seem to want to be married...
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the thing about married chicks is that they like to c if they can get another man. things might could b good at her house but she jus need an "outlet". if she say nothing to you after v day... dont believe her. you never kno. she may have had a Great time  w her guy. bottom line is, WOMEN LIE.
 
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act like it didn't happen and stop pursuing her, while remaining friendly. if she's interested, she'll act. you've done enough to express interest and anything more will be in vain.
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And this ladies and gentlemen, is the way to handle 95% of "is she feeling me" situations.
 
soggypotatochip said:
I falls in lust all day, nun wrong wit it as long as U KNOW that its lust. Confuse it and die brodie, trust. Sexing is one thing but it can get sour real quick if L bombs are dropped
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It's a thin line bruh, just seen my bf go through it. Seem to left the kid a little scared.
 
Based on y'all's experiences, what was the best way you've gotten a number from a cashier at a fast food restaurant or a shopping store? Y'all just go straight to the point or just game them up with some light jokes? Anyone got experiences with that?
 
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Based on y'all's experiences, what was the best way you've gotten a number from a cashier at a fast food restaurant or a shopping store? Y'all just go straight to the point or just game them up with some light jokes? Anyone got experiences with that?
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I don't think it would be possible to game them up in one visit.

I'd make it seem like a regular and keep her laughing every time I visit and do this about 3-5x before I would make the next move.

Chick at the Taco Hell by my University chats me up every time I stop by because she likes my car.. Easy pass though, obv bird.

My 2c
 
Jay Patt said:
 
I don't think it would be possible to game them up in one visit.

I'd make it seem like a regular and keep her laughing every time I visit and do this about 3-5x before I would make the next move.

Chick at the Taco Hell by my University chats me up every time I stop by because she likes my car.. Easy pass though, obv bird.

My 2c
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Sorta been peeping this one shorty out - talked to her very briefly twice and I'm planning to cop the digits next time I go by there. Should've been attempted but yeah.. Got nothing to lose though. 
 
ddh1122 said:
 
Jay Patt said:
 
I don't think it would be possible to game them up in one visit.

I'd make it seem like a regular and keep her laughing every time I visit and do this about 3-5x before I would make the next move.

Chick at the Taco Hell by my University chats me up every time I stop by because she likes my car.. Easy pass though, obv bird.

My 2c
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Sorta been peeping this one shorty out - talked to her very briefly twice and I'm planning to cop the digits next time I go by there. Should've been attempted but yeah.. Got nothing to lose though. 
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Fasho hit her with the friendly smile, make her laugh, then spring the question.

The most famous jump off in America said it best, "'If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything." -Marilyn Monroe
 
I pulled a chick from the drive thru at el pollo loco one time. We were just vibing and when she handed me my food I asked her for an extra salsa. When she gave it to me she said "is there anything else you would like" and I said can I get a piece of paper with your number on it? Only time I pulled a working girl tho
 
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got a queestion.

told this chick i cant do anything till wednesday next week cuz i needa study for some tests. she told me she can keep me company while i study. so what are some places where u can talk and still study good? the library is too quiet and u cant really have a conversation there.
 
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