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kickstart said:
7+ your senior how do you play it?

First thing out her mouth after I told her my age was I'm young/ just a baby. :smh:
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Ask her" Why should that matter if we enjoy each others company. What are you trying to do, rush a relationship?" And laugh at the end of the comment.
Most older women( dealt with a couple in my life time) like to show their " dominance" because of age, but you quickly have to end that contrite thinking with them. Also that's a form of insecurity with some older women, as well.
Like I always say "Keep it 100" and tell them how you feel. Don't ***** foot with any woman, regardless of age. When you show that you have a back bone and not down for the silly ****, women react totally different then when you play Mr. Passive -Aggressive. That's why you have to maintain the thin line between ******* and gentlemen. As sad as that sounds even the coolest chick try's "to test you when your heat goes warm". It's a weird woman logic they use as a gauge for you caring for them( call my wife on that behavior all the time, lol and she does vice versa).
Just be honest" look my age has nothing to do with our relationship/smash session. It's all about ones mentality and vision of life that should be the measuring stick of my character. If we are going to continue this thing, judge me off my actions and not my age. If its that big of a problem, then i have thoroughly enjoyed your company but I must move around until I meet a woman without such flawed thinking."
I know that sounds harsh but trust she will eat that up because young men live for *****, grown men live for themselves and follow their own heart and that truly is a woman's worst enemy when she knows she can't control or tame you and when she knows you can live without her, tryin to told you, things become a whole lot easier...
 
YeezusDisciple said:
is it a bad move to tell a chick u miss her? too simpish right?
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[COLOR=#red]My dude it all depends...if she's the sentimental type that likes stuff like that then you're good. If she's the detached type OR if she doesn't want a relationship then it could push her away. I'd say as a precaution unless it's your real girl to be careful saying things like that these days...some chicks can't handle a dude being real with them especially if they're not accustomed to it.

Let the chick be the one who signals when it's ok to be sentimental. That's just my advice based off of experience. [/COLOR]
 
yeah thats what i was thinking too.

i dont think itll do much good but it has more potential to do damage.

good advice :smokin
 
kickstart said:
7+ your senior how do you play it?

First thing out her mouth after I told her my age was I'm young/ just a baby. :smh:
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[COLOR=#red]Mugen's advice is golden and precise. A more abridged version of the answer is to be as mature as you can be without totally changing yourself into someone you aren't. The "you're a youngin" response is par the course...they want to see how you respond to it. Good luck my dude. [/COLOR]
 
YeezusDisciple said:
yeah thats what i was thinking too.

i dont think itll do much good but it has more potential to do damage.

good advice :smokin
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[COLOR=#red]Hey no problem...I've been there before my dude. Sometimes there will be a chick that you genuinely feel for even when it's not a serious relationship...a lot of dudes go through this though many will not admit it. What's even crazier is when you catch yourself feeling for a chick who's not your usual preference...like a big chick or one who's not all that attractive :rofl: :rofl: You haven't lived yet until that has happened to you hahahaha.[/COLOR]
 
mugen81 said:
Ask her" Why should that matter if we enjoy each others company. What are you trying to do, rush a relationship?" And laugh at the end of the comment.
Most older women( dealt with a couple in my life time) like to show their " dominance" because of age, but you quickly have to end that contrite thinking with them. Also that's a form of insecurity with some older women, as well.
Like I always say "Keep it 100" and tell them how you feel. Don't ***** foot with any woman, regardless of age. When you show that you have a back bone and not down for the silly ****, women react totally different then when you play Mr. Passive -Aggressive. That's why you have to maintain the thin line between ******* and gentlemen. As sad as that sounds even the coolest chick try's "to test you when your heat goes warm". It's a weird woman logic they use as a gauge for you caring for them( call my wife on that behavior all the time, lol and she does vice versa).
Just be honest" look my age has nothing to do with our relationship/smash session. It's all about ones mentality and vision of life that should be the measuring stick of my character. If we are going to continue this thing, judge me off my actions and not my age. If its that big of a problem, then i have thoroughly enjoyed your company but I must move around until I meet a woman without such flawed thinking."
I know that sounds harsh but trust she will eat that up because young men live for *****, grown men live for themselves and follow their own heart and that truly is a woman's worst enemy when she knows she can't control or tame you and when she knows you can live without her, tryin to told you, things become a whole lot easier...
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ElderWatsonDiggs said:
[COLOR=#red]Mugen's advice is golden and precise. A more abridged version of the answer is to be as mature as you can be without totally changing yourself into someone you aren't. The "you're a youngin" response is par the course...they want to see how you respond to it. Good luck my dude. [/COLOR]
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Preciated. She scooped me yesterday. I thought she was just drunk :lol: but she kept initiating convo so I went along. Won without trying. :smokin
 
YeezusDisciple said:
one time this older woman told me she had bad experience with younger guys.
what would be ur response to that?
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[COLOR=#red]Use the technique called Acknowledge then Reassure. You acknowledge the problems or issues they tell you about, then you reassure that you are the solution or answer. It takes a little mouthpiece but not much, then back it up with actions. More times than not you'll win. BTW this works in many situations in life.[/COLOR]
 
ElderWatsonDiggs said:
YeezusDisciple said:
yeah thats what i was thinking too.

i dont think itll do much good but it has more potential to do damage.

good advice :smokin
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[COLOR=#red]Hey no problem...I've been there before my dude. Sometimes there will be a chick that you genuinely feel for even when it's not a serious relationship...a lot of dudes go through this though many will not admit it. What's even crazier is when you catch yourself feeling for a chick who's not your usual preference...like a big chick or one who's not all that attractive :rofl: :rofl: You haven't lived yet until that has happened to you hahahaha.[/COLOR]
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big chicks :x hate them


ElderWatsonDiggs said:
YeezusDisciple said:
one time this older woman told me she had bad experience with younger guys.
what would be ur response to that?
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[COLOR=#red]Use the technique called Acknowledge then Reassure. You acknowledge the problems or issues they tell you about, then you reassure that you are the solution or answer. It takes a little mouthpiece but not much, then back it up with actions. More times than not you'll win. BTW this works in many situations in life.[/COLOR]
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hmm good strategy :smokin
 
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need some insight fellas

so talking to One girl
been going out for couple of months.
this weekend i was on call...so i couldnt go out
she goes out with her friends to some zombie hotel party.
calls me at 130am crying and asking for a ride ( acting weird too)
i wake up..annoyed as hell and pick her up.
she just kept panting and sobbing/ and saying im so sorry to wake u up..blah blah blah
so i dont say anything
when i arrive at her house, i ask her did you take something..molly
she denies and said she only drank and smoked up.
me: then why are u acting like this..all crying and ****
her: i dont know i had a panic attack, their was alot of guys their, and idk where everyone went.
her: i think someone drugged me
her: dudes kept trying to talk to me and stuff
me:smh:
me: still smoking my cigg.
i drop her off and dip;
today morning she text me all sorry and stuff
all i said is that i was disappointed about her decision making skills.
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i annoyed of ppls like this
and i do not wanna babysit no baby
insight; requested
 
That should be enough of a "Red" flag for you to proceed on with your life and let her be..
A person with a lack of "judgement" can not only get you hurt but more then likely put you or themselves in a precarious situation..
This goes all the way back to trusting a person for me. Plus if a grown *** woman doesn't know how to conduct herself outside of her home or doesn't know her threshold for alcohol or drugs or is easily influenced by others to do things she knows she is not capable of handling, it's time to bounce homie. Sounds like you have too much potential and good things going on in your life to deal with the foolishness.
But if you are really feeling her, then you need to sit down and have a candid conversation on how you feel and be real with her. If you shrug this off and continue down this path, it's only going to breed resentment and contempt in you and by that time you maybe to invested to just " walk away"....
 
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ElderWatsonDiggs said:
[COLOR=#red]Hey no problem...I've been there before my dude. Sometimes there will be a chick that you genuinely feel for even when it's not a serious relationship...a lot of dudes go through this though many will not admit it. What's even crazier is when you catch yourself feeling for a chick who's not your usual preference...like a big chick or one who's not all that attractive :rofl: :rofl: You haven't lived yet until that has happened to you hahahaha.[/COLOR]
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That some of the realest words ever typed in this thread. It happened to me recently this chick is like the complete opposite of what I usual go for. We both admitted that we weren't really feeling each other at first. But somehow she became the coolest chick I've ever met.
 
bendover bendover Everyone feels that way now again. If you have read this thread, you would know my ex reads everything I post :smh:

I remember everything
The words we spoke on freezing South Street







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Mark Antony said:
I don't really hide my NTing though I never share my sn. I wonder if anyone knows.
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I do papi, I do. 8)

When ur with someone for 3 years it definitely will come out.

Didn't think she would stalk it.

Literally 11 minutes after I posted something she hit her friend up asking if we smashed or not :rofl:
 
I'm pretty sure mine stalks my page. But she probably stalks on all her exs.

I like posting on here, it feels like locker room talk with the guys. At times things I don't even wanna share with friends are told on here
 
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