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Well, I've always been a creep. I've cheated on men for a number of reasons
1. didn't want to smash so I got it elsewhere
2. the guy was emotionally unavailable so I found solace elsewhere
3. guy was cheating/continued cheating
That just about sums it up, really. I've cheated for many different reasons but those are my top three. If I felt like there was a void in any place of my relationship, and I've talked about it at LENGTH, I'll step out after a while. I won't have the heart to break up right away. I'll creep on the side and wait for you to switch it up. AND if things don't get better, if the guy has better D and a set-up going..I'll bounce. :smh:


At heart I'd like to believe I'm a good girl. ..but I can't let Drake and his rhymes fool me. I do some terrible things. It takes a lot to hold me down. That, or I have no self control.
I've recently acquired that lol
 
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So this girl i'm talking to, she recently confessed that she likes me but she hella boring always saying yeah lol and before, we used to talk and she would always bring up the busy card, so now how do i do this approach.
 
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Pepper said:
Well, I've always been a creep. I've cheated on men for a number of reasons
1. didn't want to smash so I got it elsewhere
2. the guy was emotionally unavailable so I found solace elsewhere
3. guy was cheating/continued cheating
That just about sums it up, really. I've cheated for many different reasons but those are my top three. If I felt like there was a void in any place of my relationship, and I've talked about it at LENGTH, I'll step out after a while. I won't have the heart to break up right away. I'll creep on the side and wait for you to switch it up. AND if things don't get better, if the guy has better D and a set-up going..I'll bounce. :smh:


At heart I'd like to believe I'm a good girl. ..but I can't let Drake and his rhymes fool me. I do some terrible things. It takes a lot to hold me down. That, or I have no self control.
I've recently acquired that lol
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I applaud your self awareness
 
I need to clarify myself(I wrote that response in haste do to work)...
NOBODY, I MEAN NOBODY CAN HELP YOU GET MORE WOMEN...
No matter how much I try to drop dimes on y'all young ****** ear lopes, if you don't go out, open your mouth, get out of your own head/way, then you will never get anywhere in life. A good woman will give you insight, will nurture you, give you encouragement and above all else will give you a different insight to the "females" mind but that doesn't mean that will translate with the next female because even though ALL women say that they want one thing, eventually they will go an do something totally different.
What you choose to do with anybodies advice is up to you. I keep trying to tell people(like my little brother) I can only give you the tools to implement what you want in life, there is no cheat codes, no right or wrong, the only thing you can do in life is to be completely open and honest with anybody in your life and enjoy and feel all the emotions so you know what do the next time this situation comes around. Experience is the greatest life teacher.
I will admit I am not always right but I know one thing for damn sure, only you can make yourself great.
You can ask a homegirl to hook you up with somebody. Everything is going good with your companion,FWB or whatever you want to call them. Information gets translated back to the original source. Your "friend", "homegirl" gets said information and starts to become jealous because she may not be generating the same attention from her significant other or she is single or is now curious as to why you didnt do those things for her. The green eyed monster comes out and trys to sabotage what you have with said girl and **** gets real.
We all have a difference of opinion and that's what's great about debate. If you feel that your homegirl, sister or mother can give you good advice on women, then by all means keep living that life and god bless, that **** never worked for me and I will gladly disagree and keep living my life that I am leading..
Once again no matter what gender, if you can't learn to live, speak or say what's on your mind, all the advice in the world can't save your soul...
Love-Live-Speak your Truth-Happiness
Is all you can do in this journey, all that other **** means nothing...
One..
 
mugen81 said:
I need to clarify myself(I wrote that response in haste do to work)...
NOBODY, I MEAN NOBODY CAN HELP YOU GET MORE WOMEN...
No matter how much I try to drop dimes on y'all young ****** ear lopes, if you don't go out, open your mouth, get out of your own head/way, then you will never get anywhere in life. A good woman will give you insight, will nurture you, give you encouragement and above all else will give you a different insight to the "females" mind but that doesn't mean that will translate with the next female because even though ALL women say that they want one thing, eventually they will go an do something totally different.
What you choose to do with anybodies advice is up to you. I keep trying to tell people(like my little brother) I can only give you the tools to implement what you want in life, there is no cheat codes, no right or wrong, the only thing you can do in life is to be completely open and honest with anybody in your life and enjoy and feel all the emotions so you know what do the next time this situation comes around. Experience is the greatest life teacher.
I will admit I am not always right but I know one thing for damn sure, only you can make yourself great.
You can ask a homegirl to hook you up with somebody. Everything is going good with your companion,FWB or whatever you want to call them. Information gets translated back to the original source. Your "friend", "homegirl" gets said information and starts to become jealous because she may not be generating the same attention from her significant other or she is single or is now curious as to why you didnt do those things for her. The green eyed monster comes out and trys to sabotage what you have with said girl and **** gets real.
We all have a difference of opinion and that's what's great about debate. If you feel that your homegirl, sister or mother can give you good advice on women, then by all means keep living that life and god bless, that **** never worked for me and I will gladly disagree and keep living my life that I am leading..
Once again no matter what gender, if you can't learn to live, speak or say what's on your mind, all the advice in the world can't save your soul...
Love-Live-Speak your Truth-Happiness
Is all you can do in this journey, all that other **** means nothing...
One..
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leemelone said:
Mugen you know what I meant :lol:. Stop over complicating it
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No over complicating to it breh...
People go through different journies, different ways to get to where they are..
Who am I to say what "works" for you isn't applicable to someone else's life and vice versa.
I've been through all types of personality yambs( not as much but never cared about my body count) and the one consistent thing in my experience is that I had to learn through observations, life experience and my old heads. My mom, "friends" that were girls only gave me so much information, which in my experience was the complete opposite of what I should have been doing. So I had to open my mouth, sack up and experience life the best way I knew how..
Once again no amount of advice from any gender can teach you about life and following your own heart. Just because we don't agree about our experiences doesn't mean what you feel or stated is invalid to you or someone else. Just personally, advice from a woman on other women never worked for me...
That simple...
Once again I agree to disagree, if you feel thats "complicated",then all I can do is hit you with the "kanye shrug"...
Peace
 
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011781 said:
y'all BOTH missed the point completely

what I said was 

****** be screaming "******* ain't ****" ...."can't trust these hos..." from the jump, based on the general assumption that all females aint **** 

so you're basically calling every female you know, as well as the one that birthed you, a no good ***** by default? 

you cool with your daughter being a ho until proven not a ho? 

your mom cheating makes it ok to call her whatever name you wanna call her.... but yall throwing chicks u dont even know into the same boat automatically 
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I didn't have enough reps to give you for both your post but when I do yes you will get them.
Thank you

Ballinsam23 said:
With that mindset you're gonna "cheat" on every single man you're with :lol:
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smh.

leemelone said:
tdogg2k tdogg2k I'm not glorifying it, just trying to shed some light for those in the shadows. If you think it's foul to have an open an honest relationship with a chick so be it but for me it has been more beneficial than anything. It helps you get over yourself and also improve. All it is is facing the truth and I chose to learn how to handle it rather than shy from it.

I'm curious tho what makes it so insane to you? Is it because you just don't wanna hear it/think she doesn't wanna hear it?
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I think once again you're picking and choosing the words I wrote and putting them together in your own mind and not comprehending what I said.
Open and honest relationships are cool again I have no problem with you having a f buddy that you kick it with and get game from.
I just still can't understand why you would have one and tell her about your sexcapades with other women.

and you're on this women aint _______but ________ and tricks tricks thing.
have you ever thought it's because that's the women you're aligning yourself up with.
Like are you only going after these scumbag women because you're sort of letting them be a scumbag also some what making you a scumbag dude yourself.?
is that easier for you then going out and finding yourself a few honest girls?
or are you that concerned with getting the P so you can get an easy nut in?

I do apologize for sounding so harsh and using the words I used but You're really not getting it.

did something happen to make you want to be with these women or (like i just said) is it because it's easier to get a cheating chick since they crave solace else where and you just happen to swoop in
 
I just still can't understand why you would have one and tell her about your sexcapades with other women.
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because they ASK. And you still haven't answered why it's so crazy to talk/hear about other relationships. I'm not so insecure that I can't stand to hear women talk about other men. I got over that a long time ago

And I'm not on some all women ain't **** wave. Talk about picking and choosing :lol: . Again, jay z ******* and sisters sums it up well. Everybody is shaking their head but I completely understand where pepper is coming from and don't judge her one lil bit. It wasn't always like that but some years back I finally started to get it.

It seems like you are in a little bit of denial that women cheat. Like only the most scumbag of women do it when I clearly gave examples about churchgoing, wholesome chicks being guilty. I'm just trying to open eyes, you are coming at me like I dishonored everything you stand for. Not once did I insult you so just chill bruh.

The whole concept of being exclusive to one person is not natural, it goes against human nature. There is a short period when a woman first falls in love where her brain is flooded with oxytocin and these chemicals that bond her to you so close that she won't even think about other men but that's only temporary. So when I talk about women doing dirt I'm not implying they are dirty skanks it just is what it is. Hoping it will wake some heads up so they don't suffer with their hearts
 
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leemelone said:
because they ASK. And you still haven't answered why it's so crazy to talk/hear about other relationships. I'm not so insecure that I can't stand to hear women talk about other men. I got over that a long time ago

And I'm not on some all women ain't **** wave. Talk about picking and choosing :lol: . Again, jay z ******* and sisters sums it up well. Everybody is shaking their head but I completely understand where pepper is coming from and don't judge her one lil bit. It wasn't always like that but some years back I finally started to get it.

It seems like you are in a little bit of denial that women cheat. Like only the most scumbag of women do it when I clearly gave examples about churchgoing, wholesome chicks being guilty. I'm just trying to open eyes, you are coming at me like I dishonored everything you stand for. Not once did I insult you so just chill bruh.

The whole concept of being exclusive to one person is not natural, it goes against human nature. There is a short period when a woman first falls in love where her brain is flooded with oxytocin and these chemicals that bond her to you so close that she won't even think about other men but that's only temporary. So when I talk about women doing dirt I'm not implying they are dirty skanks it just is what it is. Hoping it will wake some heads up so they don't suffer with their hearts
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Dude I don't think you are explaining yourself well.

No one saying if a chick ask about other females for you not to say anything about them. You made it seem from eailer post that you were just got finish smashing and telling fwb about how her sloppy top is just like Nicole's
 
Nah bro that was what tdogg said in his post. All I said was I have **** buddies where we openly talk about other relationships. Where any other interpretation came from, I have no idea. And yea bro read a lil closer, that's exactly what people are saying. Don't talk about other females to a chick, PERIOD, if I may paraphrase.

It's just the type of thing some people either refuse to or just can't understand no matter how many times you explain. Basically what I'm saying is that a lot, not all, but a lot of women aren't faithful because they were never meant to be in the first place. The divorce rate is 50% and you will hardly find any monogamous animals not even in the mighty jungle. Again that doesn't mean I think less of them it just is what it is.
 
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Nt fam help me out I just ended a 5 year relationship I approached 3 yamb prospects denied by all. I usually go up to them intro myself ask their name and say they look nice today or whatever and ask for their number. Anything I'm doing wrong?
 
Here is something that helped me out when I was going through a rough patch with my ex. Very thought provoking.



*you know that and I know that* :rofl:
 
Openly talking about your other relationships only goes a long way. Someone will eventually drop the other. Its a never ending cycle.

Personally, I dont kiss and tell. If she asks, I'll let her know she's not exclusive. Thats about it.
 
Velle23 said:
Nt fam help me out I just ended a 5 year relationship I approached 3 yamb prospects denied by all. I usually go up to them intro myself ask their name and say they look nice today or whatever and ask for their number. Anything I'm doing wrong?
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leemelone said:
Bruh they are **** buddies tho...I have had **** buddies where we explicitly talk about other people we are *******. There is no need for the saltiness
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This is your post that started me saying what I said. How do you expect us to interpret that. Right there you basically said me and my sex partbers talk about other sex partners.
This is what I dont see the point to doing.
 
Velle23 said:
Nt fam help me out I just ended a 5 year relationship I approached 3 yamb prospects denied by all. I usually go up to them intro myself ask their name and say they look nice today or whatever and ask for their number. Anything I'm doing wrong?
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If its randomly in public or at a bar, that approach is too formal. Try commenting on something she's wearing, doing, or the surroundings.
 
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How is the concept of being with one person "not natural"???
Thats more of a era thing than anything else. The feel good era. Where you put peoples emotions aside for your own selfish desires and lust.
 
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