TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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Lol as a loan. Ive known this chick for a few years now. We grew close the last few months or so. Not like I gave it some chick I just met lol. Yeah, It was never meant to be that much. I'll admit had I not been wasted at the time it wouldn't have been that much. And if you must know the girl fell on some hard times recently. Kind of person I am. I mean the way I wrote it out on the post made it seem like I just trying to buy her off, that was my bad. Nothing like that. And, When she goes to repay me I'll just say no.. Or accept it some sort of playful matter.. I dunno. Hell, I loaned boy 10k 2 years ago after he got into some **** with the law.
"Money isn't real, George."
 
Well that's entirely different if it's a loan. I thought you just threw some extra money like you said in the post. Good luck to you two and take it very, very slow. :D
 
Yeah that's. My bad on my part. Thanks dude. I'm gonna play it cool. And laying off the whiskey. Nothing good comes from that haha


Good luck to you on that. Watch your drink all night. Make sure she don't slip something in your drink :x
 
Caught up on the last 5 pages or so. That $500 thing...yikes. A lot of people flourishing though :pimp:

Haven't been in here much cuz things are going good with my long distance relationship. Visited her a week and a half ago and my friend I wa staying with was cool enough to get ghost a bunch of times as long as I changed his sheets after lol.

She's visiting me on Wednesday and I haven't ejaculated since I saw her last. Been keegeling like a champ

She knew what she was doing with this snap lol
 
Question: do you guys prefer it when a girl delivers the yambs by:

A) outright saying she wants it

B) she implies it, perhaps by just inviting you over to "chill" or "hangout" or whatever else kids is saying these days

C) asks you to come because she needs something done (regardless of whether or not that something could easily be done by her)

I think I'm somewhere between B and C...the indirectness/mystery/small chance she may not actually want to smash makes it that much more gratifying when it happens
 
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Question: do you guys prefer it when a girl delivers the yambs by:
A) outright saying she wants it
B) she implies it, perhaps by just inviting you over to "chill" or "hangout" or whatever else kids is saying these days
C) asks you to come because she needs something done (regardless of whether or not that something could easily be done by her)

I think I'm somewhere between B and C...the indirectness/mystery/small chance she may not actually want to smash makes it that much more gratifying when it happens

Probably A and B. C lets off a cheezy pronz vibe to me.

A.) a huge turn on for me. When a girl just basically says "Alright, I'm trynna smash.. let's do it." or when you're just randomly hanging out and she just pounces. Those are the girls who make you food after cause they got what they wanted :smokin
B.) this involves a chase, cat and mouse, game playing and it's extremely fun.
 
Finally ended my drought 2 weeks ago after my L, it shouldn't have taken me as long as I did but these females and they damn subliminals be throwing me off. :smh:
 
In Dallas TX tonight on a road trip bout to hit up a bar, hope the yams are plentiful tonight, go ham tonight Yambily
 
Why is it when I try to do the right thing, it comes back to bite me in the ***? Then broads ask why they get played. :smh:
 
Why is it when I try to do the right thing, it comes back to bite me in the ***? Then broads ask why they get played. :smh:


Self perseveration is the first rule, never forget.
Word, I'm slipping and I talked to my closest boy about it yesterday. He realized how much I'm letting my feelings get in the way of my thought process. Plus I just graduated HS and shorty still in school, I'm still deciding which college I'm going to (local community college that sent me the letter of acceptance) or out of state to NYC. I'm leaning towards NYC because the opportunity for my career is much greater, and I can't let a piece of *** cloud my choice.
 
Yambily.....for the first time in my life I can say I have a "roster." (Thanks be to TAY for it's wisdom and guidance).

It may be a roster of 2, but a juggling act none the less.

I have already decided who is "side" and who is "main."

Main knows she's main so she's good for now and knows about the other girl.

Side is unaware of main and from the tone of our conversation last night seems to be catching feelings.

How does one make a side chick aware she is in fact the side chick?
 
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Yambily.....for the first time in my life I can say I have a "roster."  It may be a roster of 2, but a juggling act none the less.

I have already decided who is "side" and who is "main."

Main knows she's main so she's good for now and knows about the other girl.

Side is unaware of main and from the tone of our conversation last night seems to be catching feelings.

How does one make a side chick aware she is in fact the side chick?

They figure it out based on your actions. Just smash the side. The side is basically a FWB.

Don't confuse her by taking her on dates and stuff
 
Yambily.....for the first time in my life I can say I have a "roster." (Thanks be to TAY for it's wisdom and guidance).

It may be a roster of 2, but a juggling act none the less.

I have already decided who is "side" and who is "main."

Main knows she's main so she's good for now and knows about the other girl.

Side is unaware of main and from the tone of our conversation last night seems to be catching feelings.

How does one make a side chick aware she is in fact the side chick?

lmao this got me rolling about how to let them know but congrats im thinkin about putting together a roster but im more of a one woman type of guy which is not good the way these females are lol
 
Chalk up another W for ya mans out here in Germany. Just got it in with a Luxembourgian? Luxembouger? Idk all I know was that womb was in my top 5 lifetime wise.
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Yambily.....for the first time in my life I can say I have a "roster." (Thanks be to TAY for it's wisdom and guidance).

It may be a roster of 2, but a juggling act none the less.

I have already decided who is "side" and who is "main."

Main knows she's main so she's good for now and knows about the other girl.

Side is unaware of main and from the tone of our conversation last night seems to be catching feelings.

How does one make a side chick aware she is in fact the side chick?
congratulations young Don... You've made great strides...

Now... When it comes to deciphering the side, like ol boy said... Your actions will decide.

Be careful because the side WILL try to flex on you... Complaining for time... Saying that you're not giving her enough whatever.

Don't let her flex on you.

Gotta maintain that she can easily be cut off. Can't be afraid to lose her... And I mean like not talking to her for a few weeks.

Now, once you establish this gangsta *** attitude... You're good.

Main comes first... Never lose sight of that. But at the same time , yiu can't be her stepping stool.



One thing that will keep you sane... Is the ability to say "eff this... I'm staying at home and rubbing it out"

Sounds lame... But those nights where they're clamoring for your time and you don't give it to them when they want it raises your value exponentially...

And from there... You can go more than a few days without kicking it...

And this will lead to more open time on your schedule...

Open time in which you can fill up with more side pieces...



You'll find your comfort level... I try to have 2 chicks I spend time with... A couple out of towners... And 3-4 chicks I can hit up for the yambs...

Seems like a lot... But those out of towners might come every other month for a weekend... And the smash buddies might get the d once or twice a month.
 
 
Yambily.....for the first time in my life I can say I have a "roster." (Thanks be to TAY for it's wisdom and guidance).

It may be a roster of 2, but a juggling act none the less.

I have already decided who is "side" and who is "main."

Main knows she's main so she's good for now and knows about the other girl.

Side is unaware of main and from the tone of our conversation last night seems to be catching feelings.

How does one make a side chick aware she is in fact the side chick?
lmao this got me rolling about how to let them know but congrats im thinkin about putting together a roster but im more of a one woman type of guy which is not good the way these females are lol
 
Chalk up another W for ya mans out here in Germany. Just got it in with a Luxembourgian? Luxembouger? Idk all I know was that womb was in my top 5 lifetime wise.
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Yambily.....for the first time in my life I can say I have a "roster." (Thanks be to TAY for it's wisdom and guidance).

It may be a roster of 2, but a juggling act none the less.

I have already decided who is "side" and who is "main."

Main knows she's main so she's good for now and knows about the other girl.

Side is unaware of main and from the tone of our conversation last night seems to be catching feelings.

How does one make a side chick aware she is in fact the side chick?
congratulations young Don... You've made great strides...

Now... When it comes to deciphering the side, like ol boy said... Your actions will decide.

Be careful because the side WILL try to flex on you... Complaining for time... Saying that you're not giving her enough whatever.

Don't let her flex on you.

Gotta maintain that she can easily be cut off. Can't be afraid to lose her... And I mean like not talking to her for a few weeks.

Now, once you establish this gangsta *** attitude... You're good.

Main comes first... Never lose sight of that. But at the same time , yiu can't be her stepping stool.



One thing that will keep you sane... Is the ability to say "eff this... I'm staying at home and rubbing it out"

Sounds lame... But those nights where they're clamoring for your time and you don't give it to them when they want it raises your value exponentially...

And from there... You can go more than a few days without kicking it...

And this will lead to more open time on your schedule...

Open time in which you can fill up with more side pieces...



You'll find your comfort level... I try to have 2 chicks I spend time with... A couple out of towners... And 3-4 chicks I can hit up for the yambs...

Seems like a lot... But those out of towners might come every other month for a weekend... And the smash buddies might get the d once or twice a month.
Thanks guys!  

Jeez fontaine that sounds like a lot of work...though I'm sure the benefits are great I think for now I'm satisfied with my two.

Or will I eventually want more?
 
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