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Ok so you vibe from the jump, get the girls number, text for a few days, then all of a sudden she doesn't text you anymore, doesn't return calls, nada. Simply move on?
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Precisely.
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Her old dude/new challenger has entered the tournament.
You have two options:
Cut that ***** off(which should be your first thought)..
Play aloof WHEN she eventually hits you with the MASS text of "Hey You"...
Then you hit her with that:
"Whose this" text
And play from there..
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Roger that. Good lookin @mugen81
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That "heeeeeeeyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!" after a period gives you that mean smirk though.
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or that "where you been stranger" , these ho's think we dont know whats up
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First thought that comes to mind in these type of situations..too much *** out here to buggin about one
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or that "where you been stranger" , these ho's think we dont know whats up
******* is so corny sometimes.
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Read that andor that "where you been stranger" , these ho's think we dont know whats up
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So I guess word spread around work that I play guitar / sing / country music and whatnot, so some chick randomly came up to me a week ago and asked if it was true. I said yeah I'm looking to book some open mic nights around town to build my stage experience and whatnot. I told her I'd let her know and I asked if she'd show up to support. She said "Hell yeah I would" and came off as flirty the whole convo. Hella smiley and hella interested like we knew each other. I had never met that chick before
I emailed her today after she left for work (I was gonna ask in person, but my boss was talking to me so I got blocked
) basically saying I was getting close to booking some spots to play, and if she was interested in seeing me play still. I asked her if I should email her about it.. hoping she slips me the number instead so we can see where it goes.
Tomorrow we shall see, famb. Soon.
I emailed her today after she left for work (I was gonna ask in person, but my boss was talking to me so I got blocked
) basically saying I was getting close to booking some spots to play, and if she was interested in seeing me play still. I asked her if I should email her about it.. hoping she slips me the number instead so we can see where it goes. Tomorrow we shall see, famb. Soon.
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What up TAY fam
Serious opinion needed
Been chillin with this chick for most of the summer and everything's been solid. Of course, she hit me with the "what are we" question. And I was completely with it UNTIL I got laid off of my job :/
This happened earlier this week and it's had me down. Now I'm questioning if I can invest in a relationship while dealing with my personal employment situation. I'm rely considering putting her on pause until I get myself together. At the same time, I don't wanna pass up on a good girl...balancing a new relationship and being stressed with a job search period will be a headache.
Focus on myself or try to maintain a good relationship that I've been working on for the past couple months?
I'm 23 and still live at home with my parents and she's 20 still at a local college.
Serious opinion needed
Been chillin with this chick for most of the summer and everything's been solid. Of course, she hit me with the "what are we" question. And I was completely with it UNTIL I got laid off of my job :/
This happened earlier this week and it's had me down. Now I'm questioning if I can invest in a relationship while dealing with my personal employment situation. I'm rely considering putting her on pause until I get myself together. At the same time, I don't wanna pass up on a good girl...balancing a new relationship and being stressed with a job search period will be a headache.
Focus on myself or try to maintain a good relationship that I've been working on for the past couple months?
I'm 23 and still live at home with my parents and she's 20 still at a local college.
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Struggles often begin and end with the truth. Be honest with her, and more importantly with yourself, about how you feel about this... You said you were completely with it UNTIL you got laid off, now you seem to be questioning that a bit. It seems early in the relationship to sacrifice yourself to balance this relationship. If she really cares about you and wants to make it work, she will understand what you're going through and not expect or demand anything from you until you get yourself together. With that said, she's going to need some of you, or there is no real relationship. So if you don't think you can be there for her at all because the job search is that stressful and things are that tough than be honest and tell her that. Choose what is right, not what is easy. She might not stick around though. Remember, you hold on to friends by keeping your heart a little softer then your head.
Hope things turn up and you can find a job and keep the relationship going if that's what you choose.
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Super strong post to username ratio
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Focus on yourself
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You can't truly be in a productive relationship until you're in a good place internally. If its real, she'll understand maybe y'all can make it work down the line, if not, there's always more women.
truballa101
.You can't truly be in a productive relationship until you're in a good place internally. If its real, she'll understand maybe y'all can make it work down the line, if not, there's always more women.
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truballa101
This might sound selfish but you need to take care of home first before you can really invest in a relationship. Plus you two guys are very young.
Can young love make it???
Yes, but it is very, very rare.
Don't start something too serious until you figure out this transitional period in your life.
Maybe you want to go back to school , maybe you want to find employment in another city, maybe you want to travel, etc... At this moment it is pivotal for you to decide what you want before you make a commitment to someone. Two things will kill anything you build or try to build before a relationship.
Pride and No Self preservation.
This shouldn't be a conciliatory decision to make her happy. Before you entire a relationship you have to know yourself(strengths and flaws) and be able to communicate effectively on how you feel about certain things. Like Hen said, sit her down and shoot the fair one with her and tell her your concerns. If you jump into this pridefully, trust it will be nothing but a time bomb and will detonate something awful. I was there in my last real relationship and it truly wears down both people.
As men we are seen as providers and even the most down *** chick is going to get tired of carrying the load. I slipped into a deep, down spiral because I couldn't find adequate work and literally felt worthless. It does weigh on any relationship and these are the real concerns when you find a mate. Before you make this leap, seat down with yourself and make the right decision for you. Relationships are fun and great but even though I have an amazing wife, it's still work and you constantly have to re-define and create to keep both parties together. If you don't have the balance/foundation from the jump, you will see that **** crumble before your eyes. Take Care of yourself first and if things are meant to be, trust they will work. The only true thing you can have is FAITH( I know the tinfoil hats of NT don't believe in that but I've been through too much **** not to believe in things working out for the best)...
Peace
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So I guess word spread around work that I play guitar / sing / country music and whatnot, so some chick randomly came up to me a week ago and asked if it was true. I said yeah I'm looking to book some open mic nights around town to build my stage experience and whatnot. I told her I'd let her know and I asked if she'd show up to support. She said "Hell yeah I would" and came off as flirty the whole convo. Hella smiley and hella interested like we knew each other. I had never met that chick before
I emailed her today after she left for work (I was gonna ask in person, but my boss was talking to me so I got blocked
Tomorrow we shall see, famb. Soon.
Personally, I NEVER ask a female if she wants to this, go there until we are actually a couple. Tell them what they should do and they perceive it differently. Instead of asking if she's still interested just straight up tell her like "you're gonna have a blast at my show".
When I first start talking to a chick I use statements instead of questions. "Saturday I'm taking you to this new jazz spot" just sounds more alpha than "Hey, if you're into jazz and not busy I was wondering if you wanted to check out this new jazz club with me"
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Focus on yourself
You can't truly be in a productive relationship until you're in a good place internally. If its real, she'll understand maybe y'all can make it work down the line, if not, there's always more women.
I see it different. I say you just keep it 100 about your personal situation to her. After all, that's how it's supposed to be if she was your girl. If she really likes you enough, she'll make it happen. And if you really dig her enough, there's plenty of ways to woo an woman barely in her twenties without taxing your account.
My budget is tight right now but I continue to think outside the box because the one I've caught is a helluva catch and I don't want to miss out reeling her in
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I have finaly joined Team Raw with my chick
smh
Dem Kegals keep a brotha strong though
shout out to my man MUGEN81
man ive been doing these all day....how until I see results?
trying to go back to my college and high school days.
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Next time you urinate, when you try to stop your stream , you will see the difference on how easy it was to do it..
Also while fapping, you will be able to gauge your climax better...
I know this conversation might borderline on "AYO", but as grown men we never really take the time to get to know our bodies or listen to what they tell us.
After doing Kegal exercises it piqued my interest into other sexual technics and man there are so many that will have you experiencing ecstasy never imagined. The only thing is finding a girl who is up for the task of new adventures.
Also shoutout to that " grapefruit" lady...
MY GOD....
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appreciate it homie....trying to go back to when I could go the whole confessions album. my ex was on bc and I stayed rock in that thing after dumping in there.
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Why this chick I use to smash invited me to her wedding. I dont know what to do. She kool we talk every once in a while but I just dont think its right for me to go smiling in this dude face knowing I smashed his wife repeatedly like 10 months ago.
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