TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

I wouldn't go but then again, wedding food is amazing.

JulesLives said:

Why this chick I use to smash invited me to her wedding. I dont know what to do. She kool we talk every once in a while but I just dont think its right for me to go smiling in this dude face knowing I smashed his wife repeatedly like 10 months ago.

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some females don't have any moral boarders. marriage off to a great start, no respect already.



so disrespectful

keeL252 said:

some females don't have any moral boarders. marriage off to a great start, no respect already.



so disrespectful

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I was speechless I didnt know what to do or say I froze up lol. I said I might come but you know my work schedule to buy me sometime lol.

crazy dog


chick at my job used to invite her side piece to her cribs for kickbacks and cookouts, dude would go and be walking all through her house while her husband was there.

Type of **** make you put bleach in a ***** sparkling water, super foul.

JulesLives said:

Why this chick I use to smash invited me to her wedding. I dont know what to do. She kool we talk every once in a while but I just dont think its right for me to go smiling in this dude face knowing I smashed his wife repeatedly like 10 months ago.

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Could be two things:
She is trying to "stunt" on you. Meaning, trying to show out with her dude in a gloating way of " Look at what you could of had"
"She wants that old thing back"
Trying to get that last fling before getting married..
Or she could be just that clueless on relationship edicate..
But my question is, How is her dude even cool with this??
That is very questionable on her part.
This dude is going to be looking like Skylar Diggins boyfriend...
**** Drake...
Lol

mugen81 said:

Could be two things:
She is trying to "stunt" on you. Meaning, trying to show out with her dude in a gloating way of " Look at what you could of had"
"She wants that old thing back"
Trying to get that last fling before getting married..
Or she could be just that clueless on relationship edicate..
But my question is, How is her dude even cool with this??
That is very questionable on her part.
This dude is going to be looking like Skylar Diggins boyfriend...
**** Drake...
Lol

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I honesty dont think he know about us. We worked together. We did our thing she got fired didnt speak for a few months. Started talking again then today she hit me with this. At first I thought she was trying to brag but we were never on bad terms. She just lived way to far for my liken plus she is mad clingy. I know she don't want the d no more because she had plenty of times before they even got together. Idk

JulesLives said:

I honesty dont think he know about us. We worked together. We did our thing she got fired didnt speak for a few months. Started talking again then today she hit me with this. At first I thought she was trying to brag but we were never on bad terms. She just lived way to far for my liken plus she is mad clingy. I know she don't want the d no more because she had plenty of times before they even got together. Idk

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Hmmm..
The thing is as a person, that should bother her. I wouldn't ever invite my exes or jumps to my wedding. My conscience wouldn't let me because that's my past and this should be her day of concentrating on the future and not yesterday, no matter how cool we are, my wife's happiness>>>> then having random *** I knocked before at my wedding. I feel you on that idk tip.. Kinda got me perplexed, lol...
Also never dismiss her not wanting that old thing back breh.. Some people still hold on to the past like that, plus you even said "clingy"..
If you decide to go, try to enjoy yourself, plus weddings are breeding grounds for a lot of lonely, single, never the bride yambs...

Ok TAY

So I've just been chilling recently with my FWB. She's a cool chick, a hipster girl that rocks the septum piercing with grape Ewings or OG taxi 12's but one of the sweetest girls I've met in a while. We started off just friends and we knew we both were feeling each other eventually we started having sex. Some amazing, really wet and nasty sex. Now when we first started messing around she vaguely mentioned that she was practicing celibacy but I broke that wall down. But everytime we finished having sex she's tell me how I keep making her cave in and how she really had a promise she wanted to make to herself about celibacy. A week ago she hit me with the "what are we" question and I told her I don't have to say what we are because my actions should show it, and honestly I'm not juggling because it's not worth the headache and she's a cool girl that I enjoy spending time with. I just don't want labels or unnecessary expectations and she fully understood and told me that she really likes me and doesn't want to put any type of pressure on me for a label. Cool? Cool. A couple days ago we finished smoking and I'm high tryna get it poppin with her in the bed and she tells me that she really wants to attempt to be celibate again until her birthday (September 1st) and I'm like yeah ok....but then she's serious and she just wants to make out all the time. And I'm like after days of rubbing on no no spots and whipping it out she still isn't budging which let's me knows she's serious. Now I respect the promise she's made and she told me that on her birthday and after I can do ANYTHING I want to her but I'm like I wanna do that now! I know that she's basically tryna gauge my interest and see how much I want her and how long I'm willing to go before I grab another chick who wants to bust it but I like her and even though I never personally agreed to celibacy I could see myself taking up the challenge...but September 1st?!?! I think I need a cold shower

Cuffing season is here. No doubt about that. My girl spent the past weekend with me and my family so I'm out. Was smashing in my childhood bedroom next to my parents and she kept moaning and **** I was telling her to chill. I think she was getting off extra based on being so close to my parents room. she started tightening up and I knew she was about to have an orgasm and she wouldn't be quiet so I stuffed a pillow over her face and finished her off. She thanked me after

This may sound crazy but Im new to NikeTalk and I have no idea what this thread "Tay" is about. Someone fill me in

JaysForDays757 said:

This may sound crazy but Im new to NikeTalk and I have no idea what this thread "Tay" is about. Someone fill me in

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TAY = Thread About Yambs. Basically a one stop shop for female threads, which includes, but is not limited, to: situational advice (relationships, exes, opening/closing lines/tips, approaches, hook-ups, etc.), conquests, stories of wins/losses relative to the aforementioned, && impartation of knowledge acquired as a result of these (or other) experiences.

its funny how  random chicks i went to college with  are coming out saying they liked me now ..

Its that about to graduate feel. I'm sure I'm going to get a lot this semester. Chicks been pretty friendly this summer on campus with me.

mugen81 said:

Can young love make it???
Yes, but it is very, very rare.

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No shots but it's interesting you gave that advice, aren't you young? and didn't you get married kind of spur of the moment?

I thought you would advocate for something different

heLiumcLinton said:

No shots but it's interesting you gave that advice, aren't you young? and didn't you get married kind of spur of the moment?

I thought you would advocate for something different

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No offense taken and I am 33..
Lol..
I'm very transparent with my journeys. Been with my girl for a year and a half, so getting married to me was nothing because I met my perfect fit. You can read any of my post from og to this thread and I've never tried to bamboozle anybody in what I post. I give advice because I've been through the struggles of young love. The first girl I was engaged to was at the age of 24 and she was 22. At that age you think you know everything there is to life until you are humbled be some real ****. I advocate love because it's always been in my heart even when I have been ******* on and mistreated. Love is not just regulated to loving another person. It's a feeling you wake up to whether it's the love of your job, pets, family, whatever the case maybe. I was lucky to find my wife because I finally stopped feeling sorry for myself and took a chance on love again. Sorry but young love doesn't work and if it does last, those people thugged it out through the most harsh growing pains you can have in your 20's.
Is my advice always good?
No, I can see the era in my ways because of my past experiences.
Do I come off harsh sometimes?
Maybe, because I have done enough with a certain amount of women to discern the real from the fake.
Are we all grown men that can choice to listen, ignore, call duck tales, etc??
That is your choice and free will.
I only come in here to help my brethren to navigate a small portion that is life. I'm good if nobody ever reads a post or thinks I'm full of it because life is good right now.
Baby on the way, love of my life on my side, decent career, finishing my MBA..
**** a ***** can't tell me nothing to make me feel some type of way..
Lol..
At the end of this post, I wasn't taking shots at my dude(neither you) but just informing him that to truly make young love work, you are going to have to be about that action.
You need to be spiritually in tune with yourself. You have to be open and honest and communicate your wants and desires in a manner that is beneficial to both parties. But you also have to understand, self preservation always comes first.
Like my Ma dukes says:
"**** happens, things change"..
If you don't know yourself or love yourself, how are you going to be with somebody. When you are that young, you still are developing those skills, plus your hormones are still on 0-60. So just my opinion alone, it's not going to work.
Can my marriage fail?
Absolutely but I have been through enough tragedy and heartbreak to understand that it is what it is but the 24-25 year old me was ready to commit suicide/kill my ex. With time and age comes reflection and wisdom. That's something I can't teach but I can try to give the best advice I know...
Peace..

301216baller said:

its funny how  random chicks i went to college with  are coming out saying they liked me now ..

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Right before graduation I contemplated making a tweet/Facebook post telling all females who have a crush on me to hit me up. I decided against it

I know I'ma run into them at homecoming in October or 3-5 yrs down the road and the "you know what Rome, but..." will pop up smh

romedadude said:

Right before graduation I contemplated making a tweet/Facebook post telling all females who have a crush on me to hit me up. I decided against it

I know I'ma run into them at homecoming in October or 3-5 yrs down the road and the "you know what Rome, but..." will pop up smh

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you should of made that "#tbh" post and see who inboxed you lol...I said I was never going back to my school, but I kinda wanna make that trip now lol

college was    for me

lamekilla said:

Ok TAY
I wanna do that now! I know that she's basically tryna gauge my interest and see how much I want her and how long I'm willing to go before I grab another chick who wants to bust it but I like her and even though I never personally agreed to celibacy I could see myself taking up the challenge...but September 1st?!?! I think I need a cold shower

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It's a long time especially if she is letting you et the kisses and feels on her. but if you like her as much as you say she does, that's not a bad exchange.
I mean she is absolutely testing you. but I also think if you DTR (Define the Relationship) she also won't make you wait either.

I'm old school and I believe you are with me when I say this.
(so this goes for everyone)

USE YOUR WORDS

Mugen, Doc, Ecook, Henn, Mark Ant

we all say this all the time.
Females are going to try and get the words out of you no matter what they have to do. Just use them. say what you feel.

I feel like a lot of people here beat around the bush,
and I know dudes don't like to convey their feelings or even act as if they have feelings, but how can you know if something is going to work out or not if you don't atleast try.


Now for the people who just want to get a nut off, fine, just do that. But stop playing with hearts and feelings and just say what you want / need out of a female.

Females play games too , but thats partly to just see where we're at also.

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Ecook0808 said:

Man I feel so bad... Ran through another just right now. Girl is kind of big on ig with like 80k in followers cuz she does those fitness comps. Have plans with another bad one on Monday but sf girl will be here in 18 hours.

If sf girl lived here this would be an easy decision... But now I know when she goes back I'll be back on my grind.

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80k followers PM me that link. I won't share...

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I don't have IG but im interested if you can PM me a pic of her IG.

mugen, if you don't mind me asking but how old is your SO and how did you meet her?