TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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mugen81 said:
http://nerdatthecooltable.com/2014/08/quick-little-gems-dealing-with-women-pt-26-by-kevm3/
Realest **** Ever Written..
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Those first 2 paragraphs open my eyes a little bit more about dealing with another dude'a girl , there is this one girl at my job that been feeling me lately but idk what it is everytime I ask her or a coworker ask her if she still with her man she always make that weird face and say well we're not together we're just talking again . Funny thing is while at work last week her man came by to the job as I was walking back to her section just to mess with her & give her a hug , her eyes lit up like a Christmas tree lol it was then I realize that the dude was in her section talking to her . We were supposed to go bowling & movie last week but supposedly she wasn't feeling too good she was on her period , I'm just gonna step back & focus on school & better myself as a person . If a chick comes along ooh well.
 
Breh how do you go about getting friends with benefits? Every girl I talk to is trying their damnest to get cuffed. :smh:

Not tryna date anyone right now
 
WhatsLosinLike said:
Breh how do you go about getting friends with benefits? Every girl I talk to is trying their damnest to get cuffed.
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Not tryna date anyone right now
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smash for a while and when the question about what are we comes up, just say you're not ready for a relationship atm but you'd still like her in your life
 
Lolcomin said:
WhatsLosinLike said:
Breh how do you go about getting friends with benefits? Every girl I talk to is trying their damnest to get cuffed. :smh:


Not tryna date anyone right now
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smash for a while and when the question about what are we comes up, just say you're not ready for a relationship atm but you'd still like her in your life
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That's the problem b. I swear I can't find a chick that will get down like that outside a relationship. I don't know if it's my game or what :smh:
 
jetsetkev said:
about as dark as the basement raheem got shot in , you just gotta take more risk man , stop beating around the bush .
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word kinda cold how a girl will vibe and hangout with you like she into you then throw you in the zone
 
WhatsLosinLike said:
Breh how do you go about getting friends with benefits? Every girl I talk to is trying their damnest to get cuffed. :smh:

Not tryna date anyone right now
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Lolcomin said:
smash for a while and when the question about what are we comes up, just say you're not ready for a relationship atm but you'd still like her in your life
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WhatsLosinLike said:
That's the problem b. I swear I can't find a chick that will get down like that outside a relationship. I don't know if it's my game or what :smh:
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I was literally about to post exactly what lolcomin lolcomin posted. You just gotta say all the right things to get in the pants. Once you do, make sure you put it on her to where she's sprung. Once the proverbial "what are we question" comes up, tell her you're not ready for a relationship and you want to take your time to make sure you're not rushing into something because YOU don't want to get hurt. Man...she'll be putty in your hands
 
First paragraph says it all when it comes to these women

http://nerdatthecooltable.com/2014/07/quick-little-gems-on-dealing-with-women-pt-25-by-kevm3/

Man honestly, I don’t know why guys are spending all this time trying to figure out these little hints, signs, tips, strategies, techniques and tactics, as if this or that woman has some magnificent prize to offer you for all the effort. What does she have to offer really? That box that 20 to 30 other guys have already been in? Stop racking your brain and trying to figure out the magical keywords that she will like or some such nonsense. Either she likes your conversation or presence or she doesn’t. If she doesn’t, no big loss. Another woman will. That simple. There’s no reason to sit around here stressing over the perfect way to come at a woman. What are any of these women offering for you to rack your brain for all of that? Stop tip-toeing around these broads and acting like they got the juice to corral your thoughts.
 
^^^^ man real talk I needed to read that no lie thanks for the link I read the full article
 
I have beeen through hell with this girl, she is always supportive and helps me with money, rides and also provides ears so she can Listen to me. We would recently get into arguments about communication, mostly because I never really talk. But we are working past it. But she believes if we are going to be intimate then she has to feel more of a connection. We used to be really intimate but after our arguments we had over the past month she feels we need a stronger bond to want to do it again. We are both 23, she truly is special. I would never cheat, being surrounded by women at clubs all I could think of is her. But intimacy has always been big with me (I think any guy in his 20s feels the same) I basically keep thinking about other women, one minute I picture myself in the club next weekend getting at girls and then the next minute realizing how much of a quality woman I have and to lose her would be a big loss. Idk what to do with myself, I feel like I'm trying to put effort to listen but still no intimacy, not even a good kiss, but we still hang around each other with no big issue. Does she need more time to see if I changed?( great question for her... I guess) I really don't want to tell her that over the next weekend if I was single I could probably get the intimacy I want.. but I definitely feel like it.. I just want to be intimate again, I can't force her, but other girls seem to catch my attention more than ever.
 
onthe23rd said:
I basically keep thinking about other women, one minute I picture myself in the club next weekend getting at girls and then the next minute realizing how much of a quality woman I have and to lose her would be a big loss.
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Wouldn't be a big loss. I used to think this way too. "Lost" the one I thought was so special and then found an even more quality woman...and then the cycle repeats. There's no point in hanging onto something that's turning sour, especially if you are thinking of other women. You might want to consider ending that relationship and doing your own thing for a while until you meet someone else you really like.
 
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I have beeen through hell with this girl, she is always supportive and helps me with money, rides and also provides ears so she can Listen to me. We would recently get into arguments about communication, mostly because I never really talk. But we are working past it. But she believes if we are going to be intimate then she has to feel more of a connection. We used to be really intimate but after our arguments we had over the past month she feels we need a stronger bond to want to do it again. We are both 23, she truly is special. I would never cheat, being surrounded by women at clubs all I could think of is her. But intimacy has always been big with me (I think any guy in his 20s feels the same) I basically keep thinking about other women, one minute I picture myself in the club next weekend getting at girls and then the next minute realizing how much of a quality woman I have and to lose her would be a big loss. Idk what to do with myself, I feel like I'm trying to put effort to listen but still no intimacy, not even a good kiss, but we still hang around each other with no big issue. Does she need more time to see if I changed?( great question for her... I guess) I really don't want to tell her that over the next weekend if I was single I could probably get the intimacy I want.. but I definitely feel like it.. I just want to be intimate again, I can't force her, but other girls seem to catch my attention more than ever.
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You might have to step out for a second and do your thing. Get it from somewhere else and see if you still feel the same about her.
 
Shooters Touch said:
Any of ya'll ever have any luck with a fine *** "lesbian" ? :nerd:
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My girl's relationship before me was with a girl for like 3 years. All my 3somes been with chicks she picked up. All I can say is, these "lesbians" don't have a problem taking D they just don't like men :lol: one of them told me she love D she just not emotionally attracted to men. -shrugs les yambs is damn near VNDS
 
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My grandfather just put me on game..telling me how easy it is to talk to fine women & how ***** made it is to be scared to approach a woman...I see things a lot differently now
 
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