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Question for ya'll, when conversations fall off I don't pick them up at all, I let them fall where they may even for the ones I really dig. I got enough female friends to know they don't see it that way when it happens to them, they sometimes are surprised you don't hit em up anymore. Like "I guess he doesn't want me" when they're the ones who aren't responding and giving 1 or 2 word answers. Am I letting my abundance mentality do too much? do ya'll cats who press the issue still see any benefits? I just feel a response takes two seconds, if you can't invest that I have nothing else to offer. Something to be said about perserverance, but there's enough chicks where conversation flows.
 
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If the conversation falls then I'll let it be. I use to try and spark up a Convo but gave that up over the years. If I don't hear back from them....o well. But that's me tho.

I do feel you on the it doesn't take much effort to respond back. Maybe it's my downfall for not responding back to them when communication goes cold but it's still a two way street.
 
From my experience if she constantly gives those 1, 2 word answers, she's not interested. Trying to have a convo with someone who's giving you 1,2 word answers is tough, especially if you really feeling that person.
 
I just lurk this thread for the advice
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Mark Antony said:
Question for ya'll, when conversations fall off I don't pick them up at all, I let them fall where they may even for the ones I really dig. I got enough female friends to know they don't see it that way when it happens to them, they sometimes are surprised you don't hit em up anymore. Like "I guess he doesn't want me" when they're the ones who aren't responding and giving 1 or 2 word answers. Am I letting my abundance mentality do too much? do ya'll cats who press the issue still see any benefits? I just feel a response takes two seconds, if you can't invest that I have nothing else to offer. Something to be said about perserverance, but there's enough chicks where conversation flows.
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I feel like people just enjoy playing games. They like being coveted but not showing much interest in the other person. They probably do it without realizing - not in a malicious way. But I see it happen a lot. They ignore you or show little interest - but when you do the same, they act confused. I handle it the same way you do unless I'm at Lvl 92 Simp and I really like the girl - then I let it slide :lol:
 
youngdoc ruthless out there

I agree with mgrand though, sometimes they feel that if they start playing this "game" before you then they'll have the upper hand. Then when you drop them, down the line they come back with some "hey stranger" BS with paragraph responses.
 
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Soo the girl that friendzoned me hard hit me up saying she not ready for anything more than friends...idk if I should not respond and go no contact.... but I don't wanna seem butt hurt even tho I am lol.... yall give me some advice
 
If she hold value being friends with then yeah keep her around, if not and she also got a boring personality just cut her off.
 
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Soo the girl that friendzoned me hard hit me up saying she not ready for anything more than friends...idk if I should not respond and go no contact.... but I don't wanna seem butt hurt even tho I am lol.... yall give me some advice
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Just chill on the "feels" brethren. I know she may have all the things you are looking for but use this to your advantage. Maybe it's the old slime ball in me(lol), but play that "friendzone" position and try to get at one of her friends. 9/10 one of her good girlfriends already know about you through girl talk. Next time you guys hang out ask her to throw the alley. Now this is where you pay attention to her reaction.
If she is down for the play, she will easily try to hook you up with somebody in the crew.
If she gives off that "jealous" demeanor or gives a lame response as to why she won't hook you up, that is where you make up your mind to either to be the:
"Friend"= emergency **** in the glass
Friend= where you actually try to establish a platonic relationship
Walk Away= move on to greener pastures and when she sees you with the next, guaranteed she will be throwing the yambs.
Women are 10x more competitive then us. Have seen that **** with my own eyes..
 
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I don't know why people complain about their girls being on their period.
It's Wop City 24/7.
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It just depends on their mood, i mean those first 2-3 days you're getting nothing but day 3-7 they revved up


Truth.
but let's not get in to this argument again.
 
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