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airedweezy said:
So to you married Nters (idk where to ask this)

How did you guys propose to your girl?
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You fittna make that commitment? I dont think ill get married. If i do maybe in 10-15 yrs. i honestly dont see a purpose in te title. You should already have the 'commitment' towards your s/o regardless.
 
airedweezy said:
So to you married Nters (idk where to ask this)

How did you guys propose to your girl?
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ain't married yet but when I do officially propose i'm prob gon pass on all the theatrics and just propose in a restuarant. no ring in her champagne, just on bended knee
 
Mark Antony said:
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Mark Antony said:
Turn down? Hell nah. Just don't do any active pursuing till you're ready to. The only real time I've ever shut off completely is when I was heartbroken.
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so it's cool to just take things slow on platonic level then gradually advance when ready?
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:lol: Naw, that sounds like games. Don't expect **** just to be there when you're ready.
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Yea I'm not talmbout placing myself in any friendzones :lol:

I just realized that I've spent way too much energy into chicks, and I don't even put alot of energy into chicks to begin with.

I wanna just not holla at that chick i see eyeing me, but also make minimal moves when it's just too obvious. I feel like i'm overthinking it, though.

Like, i'm at a point in my life where I'm tryna get some real life stuff accomplished, and I don't even wanna get at these chicks, but these chicks just be expecting you to get at them, and if you don't they act like you're lame for it.

Like, I can flirt all day, but i'm not tryna text nobody or have any "things" going where I have to put thought into anything at all.

The problem is that I'm in this space where I have alot of female friends, and they're not only bad but have friends that are bad and open (i ended up hitting one and that led me to my realization about wasting brainspace/time/energy). It's like I have to actively tell myself to not take it past flirting and jokes, but there's always that moment where you KNOW theyre wondering why you don't just ask for their number or pull her over to the side or whatever the situation would call for on some smooth ****.

I'm not some suave pimp dude, but I'm just a regular dude in the world and it seems like right when I'm trying to get my life to be a certain way and realizing that I could probably just do with a little celibacy, it's like I see the angles and openings EVERYWHERE.

I need some game on not going out of my way to get these broads but also not avoiding them.
 
Should find out what ur ur girl has always wanted.

Mine wants us alone, super romantic in private.

There's also a thread about marriage.
 
RamonAyala said:
You fittna make that commitment? I dont think ill get married. If i do maybe in 10-15 yrs. i honestly dont see a purpose in te title. You should already have the 'commitment' towards your s/o regardless.
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ive been giving it some thought these last few months. We have started saving for a home and just talking about having a future togethere. And we have been together since 2008 and she has yet to give me one reason to doubt her and has always been there for me throught all my struggles.

Thinking of popping the questions towards the end of 2015 might just go on a nice trip somewhere and just ask her there something simple.
 
iamDEF said:
ain't married yet but when I do officially propose i'm prob gon pass on all the theatrics and just propose in a restuarant. no ring in her champagne, just on bended knee
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Probably would do something chill and catch her off gaurd because of i plan something she will know something is up.

Ecook0808 said:
Should find out what ur ur girl has always wanted.

Mine wants us alone, super romantic in private.

There's also a thread about marriage.
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Yeah looks like that's the way I shall be gone. My girl is so simple when it comes to things like this she don't care what I do as long as I mean it and just don't throw the ring at her :lol:
 
And sorry fambs if I brought the thread down with my marriage talk


I hope yall prosper in 2015 and let me live through your stories
 
i'd consider doing it at home but i'm sure she'd prefer somewhere people will see. not necessarily to be seen but somewhere not home lol
 
airedweezy said:
And sorry fambs if I brought the thread down with my marriage talk


I hope yall prosper in 2015 and let me live through your stories
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Dont let it happen again....

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It's been a minute since I've posted. She's been in NYC since Friday so I've had time to watch my new 60" in my own house. She still needs to call me 5-10 times a day :smh:

anyways...

Does anybody in here see their significant other everyday, but doesn't live with them? Do you get sick of seeing that same ******* face chuckling in your face? If you miss one night at her crib or see your family for the evening she's on the brink of breaking up with you? Or is it just me?....
 
yancancook90 said:
Just broke up w/ my girl of 3yrs. #feelsbadman

She didn't do anything wrong and was truly a great gf, but i felt the relationship was getting stale/boring/repetitive/routine/"going through the motions"/etc.

My thoughts rotate from "it was the best decision for us" to "we could've worked it out" to "what if i'm leaving something great behind?".

I'm thinking about doing the whole "no contact" thing for at least a month and then revisiting how i feel about her.
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did y'all try to switch it up or yyou pulled the plug son as you seem it was getting stale?
 
yancancook90 said:
Just broke up w/ my girl of 3yrs. #feelsbadman

She didn't do anything wrong and was truly a great gf, but i felt the relationship was getting stale/boring/repetitive/routine/"going through the motions"/etc.

My thoughts rotate from "it was the best decision for us" to "we could've worked it out" to "what if i'm leaving something great behind?".

I'm thinking about doing the whole "no contact" thing for at least a month and then revisiting how i feel about her.
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Lucky bastard. I wish mine would break up with me.

Yall will never talk again. Listen to me.
 
H60D said:
It's been a minute since I've posted. She's been in NYC since Friday so I've had time to watch my new 60" in my own house. She still needs to call me 5-10 times a day :smh:

anyways...

Does anybody in here see their significant other everyday, but doesn't live with them? Do you get sick of seeing that same ******* face chuckling in your face? If you miss one night at her crib or see your family for the evening she's on the brink of breaking up with you? Or is it just me?....
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Telling you now you need to keep your own agenda man.
 
yancancook90 said:
Just broke up w/ my girl of 3yrs. #feelsbadman

She didn't do anything wrong and was truly a great gf, but i felt the relationship was getting stale/boring/repetitive/routine/"going through the motions"/etc.

My thoughts rotate from "it was the best decision for us" to "we could've worked it out" to "what if i'm leaving something great behind?".

I'm thinking about doing the whole "no contact" thing for at least a month and then revisiting how i feel about her.
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did yall at least have a sit down and you telling her how you feel or you just decided to breakout like that? 3 years is a long time tho
 
Y'all remember that young chick from work who invited me to this party earlier this year? I got a strong feeling she wants the D. I kinda wanna tell her straight up that we should just have sex and keep it on the low.
 
H60D said:
It's been a minute since I've posted. She's been in NYC since Friday so I've had time to watch my new 60" in my own house. She still needs to call me 5-10 times a day :smh:

anyways...

Does anybody in here see their significant other everyday, but doesn't live with them? Do you get sick of seeing that same ******* face chuckling in your face? If you miss one night at her crib or see your family for the evening she's on the brink of breaking up with you? Or is it just me?....
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I'm not as harsh as you but I get the same feelings. Like I have to defend myself any day I want to keep to myself. Turns into an argument and how it's unfair or whatever. Definitely something I'm trying to get her to stop doing. Yeah it's cute to miss your SO as soon as you leave them but at the same time, independence is important too. Very frustrating. Difficult to deal with. I'm sure you know the feel.
 
My girl is super attached and affectionate and after so many years of being an emotional/cry baby boy I've become emotionally dettached and self sufficient with random spurs of affection or playful affection. She will text me during work and tells me she misses me and I'll think to myself "but you saw me this morning, and will see me tonight?" But of course i hit her with the "Miss you too" in hopes she don't ask me to go into detail

sometimes I feel bad because I don't always have that "Man she been gon for 2 hours at work, I miss her" feels but then I think again cause I don't find that to be logical thinking

girls love that story book ish, the type of stuff most dudes ain't ever gonna do or feel
 
it's funny ya'll mention having your own time---me and mine had a similar conversation. He brought up I always get to watch what I wanna watch because I do get days to myself. He doesn't get that time. I told him straight up if you wanna watch/do something on your own let me know :lol: that's why we got two TVs. I'm totally ok with going in the other room while you play GTA V or watch Cosmos or whatever his flavor of the month is.


Currently it's GTA V :lol: MY only issue is he wants me to be in there with him. I'm like "babe, you gotta know I get zero pleasure from WATCHING YOU play video games" :lol: :lol: let me surf twitter and Niketalk like a normal person in peace :nerd:
 
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TimelessFlight said:
yancancook90 said:
Just broke up w/ my girl of 3yrs. #feelsbadman
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did yall at least have a sit down and you telling her how you feel or you just decided to breakout like that? 3 years is a long time tho
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i did share my feelings about a year ago, and we worked on it from there (doing different activities etc.), but i feel like the relationship was generally the same.

Honestly maybe we could've tried harder idk. I keep telling myself this and its making me regret my decision. :smh:

H60D said:
Lucky bastard. I wish mine would break up with me.

Yall will never talk again. Listen to me.
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Telling her was one the hardest things ive had to do. Why don't you just pull the plug?
 
iamDEF said:
 
My girl is super attached and affectionate and after so many years of being an emotional/cry baby boy I've become emotionally dettached and self sufficient
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I feel you on this heavy man; I used to be a super emotional Drake *** ***** but I kind of realized that that **** wasn't the wave. It wasn't long after I changed that my current girl walked into my life, and she's the coolest and I dig her but she's the type who requires emotional affirmation like how I used to be, and the way I am now I seriously give 10x more ***** about my professional goals and ish than I do about what we have going on. That sounds kind of cruel but it's the truth and I try to communicate that to her. She doesn't push me away with it or anything because I'm glad to have her around and I enjoy her company

She'll get upset with me if I don't text her back within a certain timeframe (which I kind of understand because we always have our phones on us so it's pretty clear when someone's being ignored), or she gets mad if she's been talking for a good minute about something and I abruptly change the subject. Stuff like that will get her upset and then I have to pry to figure out what's wrong. She once told me sometimes it feels like I don't GAF about her when that's certainly not the case

As soon as I realized that this girl was someone I'd probably be seeing a lot I made it a point to not send all of the sappy texts and and all the IMY BS because that's just not my M.O.  And believe me, I used to be the czar of sappy ****. I was a sappy *** *****

I don't have that "aw man I haven't seen her in x amount of hours I miss her", feeling and frankly attaining that feeling is not very high on my list of priorities right now
 
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