TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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lakersman3000 said:
2 examples ...

One was a cashier at the gas station right here around the block. Small talked for a min already so I'm like f it . I say " what's up with you , you seem interesting let me get your number so we can do something together sometime" ... She said "no I'm in a relationship rite now . So I say don't trip forget I even asked . .

Another one I was running at the lake and she was walking . she was eyeing me or so I thought so I so tell her
" hey hows it going , my name is lakersman3000 , what's your name . She like my name is Gisele. I told her you interest me can I get your number . She said "no thanks " ...I told her alright well you have a good day g.
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Yeah you need to make actual conversation first or make them laugh before asking for the number. Nothing too crazy but you need to establish yourself as an interestin or entertaining person. If you just ask for the number, they have nothing to go by really. You can't just tell her she seems interesting - you have to make her at least slightly interested in you.
 
Fontaine I ain't eem mad at u for the honesty. More men out here need to say what they feel. Not what they think will get them the yambs. Having men out here doing and saying the most simpish things for a half hearted BJ smh
 
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Long story short, just moved up to Wisconsin for school, && the past couple nights I been kickin it with this Dominican chick who I met last month up here for my first visit, she been showing me around town, etc (played pool && she helped the kid pick out some groceries one night, hit the gym && club last night, showed each other our living arrangements up here..so on/so forth). I'm pretty sure she's feelin me, && I am her, but **** got me overthinking a lil bit tho.

While at the lil bar/club downtown by campus last night, let's just say it probably showed that the club is NOT my scene :lol:. It wasn't that bad cause none of us were really dancing, but I literally felt like Marshawn Lynch around reporters, sitting in the cut feeling awkward as **** in there :x.

Probably not as bad as it felt, but that && tryna be cautious for my own sake yet still make a move on shorty led to the aforementioned overthinking as of late. Late bloomer problems :nerd:
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If you're interested in this girl, you have to make a move soon. Sounds like you've hung out a lot and if you don't make it clear you're interested, she's going to move on - then you'll be in here complaining about getting friendzoned. Don't believe in that "gentlemen" and "be yourself" stuff. Make your intentions clear.
 
Going away to school for the first time in a couple days. I always heard the girls are easier, I always messed with *******s in the hood tho. Im sure the different types of girls I see will blow my mind. Any tips?
 
sha gotti said:
Going away to school for the first time in a couple days. I always heard the girls are easier, I always messed with *******s in the hood tho. Im sure the different types of girls I see will blow my mind. Any tips?
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What school are you going to?
Best way to play it off is to not be the "all up in every girls face" dude. Stay calm, stay chill...let the hype-up hype-up freshman cats get at the girls while you just play it cool and handle your academics. They'll get rejected and the shorties will flock to you because your different.
 
sha gotti said:
Going away to school for the first time in a couple days. I always heard the girls are easier, I always messed with *******s in the hood tho. Im sure the different types of girls I see will blow my mind. Any tips?
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don't change who you are to appease these girls. Have fun and get good grades
 
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Alright got you my dudes.
Thanks for the tips .
Going
to work on my approaching more this week , drop the word interesting and more small talk..
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FlyNY said:
What school are you going to?
Best way to play it off is to not be the "all up in every girls face" dude. Stay calm, stay chill...let the hype-up hype-up freshman cats get at the girls while you just play it cool and handle your academics. They'll get rejected and the shorties will flock to you because your different.
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suny Oswego fam. Appreciate it, Im more laid back anyways. Since its late in the year Im just going to observe who's friends and who to stay away from 
TimelessFlight said:
don't change who you are to appease these girls. Have fun and get good grades
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Great tip man, thanks. Aint gonna change up tho homie, just gonna play the background and chill
 
mgrand15 said:
If you're interested in this girl, you have to make a move soon. Sounds like you've hung out a lot and if you don't make it clear you're interested, she's going to move on - then you'll be in here complaining about getting friendzoned. Don't believe in that "gentlemen" and "be yourself" stuff. Make your intentions clear.
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Definitely, that's an area in which I've faltered in the past && didn't eem realize it til it was too late. Ima try to set up something for tomorrow before classes start on Tuesday.
 
Ok, I gotta question for yall.

Say you have a friend who's 30+ years old, good looking, no kids, and makes near 6 figures. He's a good guy but is not very successful with women. His "game" doesn't seem to be terrible but he can't pull mainly because he's only taking difficult shots. Not insanely picky, but pretty much only goes after 8's and up (typically women who are well endowed).

Even though his friends have insisted that he relax his standards and just get one off, his argument is that he's done the jumpoff thing for years, and now is looking for someone with the internal and external qualities that he would be able to commit to. Plus he doesn't want to play the game of trying to get casual sex from a woman anymore.

My question is if he was set in his ways, would it upset you if he didn't get play for a long time? Would you actually verbally confront him and communicate frustration with him? Or would you just leave him alone about it and let him do him. Would there be a breaking point (1 year, 2 years, 5 years?), that you would flip out on him and tell him that he needs to get laid? How respectful of his feelings would you be?
 
I've been where I don't want to play the game anymore, just want the one bad chick to hold me down so i fell back. But she won't just fall in your lap, he's only hurting himself by not being out there, refining his skills. You think you're still sharp after a break, but you're not. It's hard to fake abundance. When she does show up, he'll be ill prepared. Or maybe he's just like one of my boys, full of **** and keep making excuses.
 
It sounds like your "friend" is scared, not picky. That's just an excuse. Pretty typical excuse of someone that's scared to act like they're just picky or have high standards. If he's unhappy, I'd confront him but if he's happy - let him be. Not really your business if he gets laid or not.
 
Officially single.
Simultaneously
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snax91 said:
Is there a backstory KingdomFlatbush?
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Cliffnotes. Don't want to be super specific

She cared more than I did, which I'll admit.

I'm more worried about my career and what I'm gonna do after my internship ends and I graduate in May

I realize I don't really want a relationship. I want to advance career wise. I want to come home from the office, hang out, have a drink, smoke some tree, and get some dome

As an addendum to the last part she wasn't giving up the mouf as often as I would like. Just in general she's very traditional. I think I touched on that before in here.

She would talk about marriage. Obviously there weren't serious discussions about us getting married but I could see it was something she desired. We're both under 24. **** some marriage. I can get married after I've left my mark on society

It's all amicable. No real hard feelings on either side. TBH the **** was fizzling out for a minute so this was just the natural conclusion.

But now I'm back to square one. Yambless.

I have one fresh lead that I had been hanging out with for a little while before just on some platonic ****, but I think she has feelings. I don't want any feelings.

Not to sound shallow or thirsty or w/e but I just want some dome son. I love my new job but it stresses me out occasionally because I sometimes feel inadequately prepared for the challenges.

I work with some real heavy hitters. Like award winners and people with their own Wikipedia articles. I'm just an intern but I feel like expectations are high.

Can I just get the stress sucked out of me at the end of the day?
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Didn't mean to rant about work lol
 
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Son it should never be a problem in a man's life where he couldn't get sloppy top before work, after work, or during working hours.
 
Suberzat1 said:
Son it should never be a problem in a man's life where he couldn't get sloppy top before work, after work, or during working hours.
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I legitimately think that I'm unable to be in another relationship with another woman who doesn't enjoy giving head.

Like it's seriously a dealbreaker
 
Geez! Y'all are beasts for real 
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At least he provided a pic good enough to determine that she's nice.

Take this rep, sir.
 
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