TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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Ecook0808 said:
Told my ex I cheated three times (which I did)... I hate this man.

This one will be rough.
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How could u be so heartless?

When u come to LA we can drive around singing along to 808s if u down.

Im at dis social services office and its filled with nothing but middle aged women who have some nice rotund butts
And they all got mad pix of their families posted in their cubicle

Makin me wanna recreate a pawno flick
 
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Yeezus is that you
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Suberzat1 said:
That good old small talk. It can be your friend or enemy 
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its the mindset of the individual. Like me, once i cut off contact with a female, i'm done completely. Not going back AT ALL

then you have dudes that still have that emotional connection and those are the ones who end up on the wrong end

the 3 things a woman can hold over you is beauty, sex, and emotional connection
 
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Lmao I asked a few girls and they said I am...but I don't see it lol

And i wish I was in the Georgetown circle...I don't know anyone that goes there
 
DLee23 said:
This chick just did the same thing to me man. Been kicking it for a month on weekends (because I work crazy hours during the week). After 3.5 weeks we figured to just make it an official thing. Couple days later she gets cold feet and wants to ease up. My fall back game kicked in strong, so I waited a couple of days and gave a call. She acted really glad I called and talked like she didn't mean to just stop talking altogether. This week she pretty much cut all contact. Finally said im a great dude but she just aint feelin' it. These chicks be icy hot man. They all need shaq sponsors.

So I'm just taking my L over here with a weebay gif. It's whatev. Experience tells me tyrone has been laying in the cut the whole time and finally showed up...

I could fill her V-day position but Im just gonna save my dough. 

Really wanted to hit her with "THAT" EWD text but decided against it
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DLee23 said:
Gameover2 said:
I took an L today but I think I handled it with grace, and left her with a great parting shot. Time to carry on and move on to the next one.


Background: I met an law student recently, and I was immediately smitten. Thought she was amazing and all that. Also thought things were going well until she dropped the bomb earlier today. Though she gave reasons, i just think she wasn't into me enough. All good though. Such is life



Btw, 'Sayang' (Filipino) means something like wasted time.
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bxbadboy90 said:
Would like to get you guys perspective on this situation between me and this girl I've been talking to. So me and her had planned to go out this Saturday for some time now. Ever since about Saturday she's been acting strange as if she's mad at me about something. For the past 3 days I've been asking what the prob is and even trying to move on since she doesnt want to explain. Then she tells me she no longer is coming to see me on Saturday. I don't really have a problem since its All Star Weekend in NYC. But last night she has this attitude outta nowhere saying how she was looking forward to this weekend and then I ruined it. I basically old her that Ive been trynna work it out and I give up cause im not getting anywhere. She told me goodnight and that was it from there. My boys are telling me to text her and explain to her how we should go out on Saturday and talk things out or w.e, but the way my pride is set up..
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This chick just did the same thing to me man. Been kicking it for a month on weekends (because I work crazy hours during the week). After 3.5 weeks we figured to just make it an official thing. Couple days later she gets cold feet and wants to ease up. My fall back game kicked in strong, so I waited a couple of days and gave a call. She acted really glad I called and talked like she didn't mean to just stop talking altogether. This week she pretty much cut all contact. Finally said im a great dude but she just aint feelin' it. These chicks be icy hot man. They all need shaq sponsors.

So I'm just taking my L over here with a weebay gif. It's whatev. Experience tells me tyrone has been laying in the cut the whole time and finally showed up...
I could fill her V-day position but Im just gonna save my dough. 

Really wanted to hit her with "THAT" EWD text but decided against it
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Bro you should have done it! :lol: 20-30 reps easily!!!!!
 
Alright here's my story.

You guys remember how I was...

I go to sd for mdw with Doc and smash four different girls... I hook up with a fifth but she wouldn't let me beat.

I start seeing one of the four who lives in sd quite often, but nothing super serious. The fifth girl (sf girl my now ex) hits me up few days after we meet but I don't respond since she's in sf I'm in oc. A week goes by and I realize she went to UCLA and a bunch of her girls are down here and maybe I can smash next time she's down here...

We never stop talking since that day.

It was a thing where we instantly clicked and it wasn't forced at all. Never had something like that in my life.

She comes down and sees me over 4th of July weekend. We finally smash and during the session she says, "I love you...I mean opps, opps!" We finish up and I'm like... So, should we talk about this? She says, "Oh the sex was really, really good!" and then realizes I'm talking about the I love you part. Tells me she's falling for me and means it. We talk about what this means and talk about being together, which I take as a joke since she's in SF and I'm in OC...

We go out that night with my boy and her 4-5 girls and have a blast. She get's more and more drunk and keeps telling me she's in love with me.

She goes back home and we still talk daily/ 24/7.

I thought that the "being together and official thing was a joke" and go and hook up with a regular rotation member...

She comes down end of July and spends the weekend with me, meets all my boys and everyone loves her. I realize I'm now falling for her and tell her that.

A week later I realize girl I had smashed (rotation girl) was late on her period so I begin tripping out. I tell SF girl and she tells me everything will be ok...

That next week I head to NY to see my sister. Everything good with SF girl and we are starting to plan me moving up there which I kind of take as a joke. She goes all out and makes me a new LinkedIn, email etc.

We meet the next weekend in SLO and then 2 weeks after that for LDW, she comes down and meets my parents. I go up and meet hers two weeks after.

She is looking at places and I quit my job and am actively searching for one in the Bay. At this point the girl I was worried about get's her period and I think we are all good...

I move up with a really good tech job. Sign the paperwork etc...

Supposed to start on Wed., I move in Monday.

They call me and tell me the position is on hold :smh:

SO i'm stuck at our new place, looking for jobs. First full day I'm there I'm on her computer and her iMessage pops up. I've always been Droid and never really understood what it was...

I go through and look at old messages and realized she hooked up with some guy. I call her out and she admits it, saying she had to get over him (they had known each other since middle school and went to jr prom, been hooking up for two summers or so). She changed her number the day after they hooked up. She also says she wouldn't have done it if I didn't hook up with someone and we argue about who cheated etc.

I want to leave (probably should have) but realize our connection is crazy and I did all this to be with her. During our fight I promise I will cheat on her whenever she's gone. I also think it's not cheating since we had really only seen each other 3x (MDW, 4th of July and end of July).

I cheat in Nov., and December 2x.

Second time I cheat I try to break up with her and can't go through with it. Ever since then it's been awful and a ticking time bomb. When we are good it's unreal, crazy chemistry.

We fight a lot and realize we had done too much to hurt each other and were miserable. She's the type that wants to travel the world solo and not answer to anyone. She didn't like when I asked what she had for lunch, what time she would be home (I worked from home) etc...

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Start off way too fast
I hook up with girl
She hooks up with guy
I cheat
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What I learned is... If ur really starting to feel someone, don't hook up with others. Put them on the back burner. It probably ruined our relationship. Don't move so fast. I thought she was the one and had never felt that before, but how much did we really know about each other. She also didn't want to have kids/ wanted one in 10 yrs. That was something I couldn't deal with.

Her not knowing how to communicate opnely really killed us :smh:

I can post more details, but this was long enough.
 
Ecook0808 said:
What I learned is... If ur really starting to feel someone, don't hook up with others. Put them on the back burner. It probably ruined our relationship. Don't move so fast. I thought she was the one and had never felt that before, but how much did we really know about each other. She also didn't want to have kids/ wanted one in 10 yrs. That was something I couldn't deal with.

Her not knowing how to communicate opnely really killed us :smh:

I can post more details, but this was long enough.
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People BEEN preaching this since Day 1 homie... but atleast you learned for yourself bro!

I hope you recover and get back out on the field. When you meet a good one again, treat her the way you want to be treated!

Goodluck homie!
 
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Great post fambs

Its so hard to get out of the cycle. I am 27 single and slowly starting to like one female...but i have my rotation...and like i know i should remove myself and see how things go with this one female and then just re-up. But its so hard to get out when its all you know. Its like the safety blanket to never getting hurt because you know some one will always be there to make you feel good if this one you give a chance to lets you down
 
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