TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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Joe Budden out in the streets trolling again....

***** commented on Jhene Aiko's IG post talking bout "so you just not going to answer ur texts huh...." 

but given his emotional instability, son might be serious.... Joey a ******g mess.... ***** makes great music tho


which brings me to my next thought....  the # of followers some of these worthless broads have makes me ashamed of my fellow man

like cmon brehs... stop being such a god damn creeper

i'm not going to act like a don't follow a few girls because of how they look but none of them are the type that post 95% selfies setting the thirst traps

they're cute girls that show some depth and personality in their photos ....

the 5 celebs i follow most ppl never even heard of  ---- tamron hall, dichen lachman, jhene aiko, rila fukushima, and SZA

I know jhene and SZA--- you got a think for mixed chicks wit' long hair that like to smoke blunts huh? :lol: And maaaaan if she ******' wit' Joey that's an L on her part. It's so many up and coming fine dudes for her to mess with man, NFL dudes... NBA dudes.... JOEY!? :lol: Girl, c'mon!!!
 
which brings me to my next thought....  the # of followers some of these worthless broads have makes me ashamed of my fellow man

Never understood this, but men gonna men as always.

It just goes to show how much "beauty" is a premium in this world, a woman can have NOTHING going on upstairs but if she got a stacked body and throw on them leggings with a ripped shirt it's curtains. I never got what dudes get out of gassing women over the Internet that they will never meet. I don't approve of that **** in general but at least do it to smash, ****** is happy getting a follow back or an emoji, 21st century ****.
 
Alright damn so update on the Asian shorty...turns out she did send me the pic but I guess her phone was bugging cuz I never got it but she showed me that it was sent. We were walking after class & I asked straight up if she had a bf & she starts giggling & says yes. I'm just like "well damn lol" but it wasn't awkward, we said bye and that was it.

A shame, guys. A shame.
Damn breh, Keep ya Head up, this is just growing pains..
Now all together..
"A ***** that holler 'bout "**** me?"
Nah, **** that *****
**** that *****, **** that *****
A ***** that holler 'bout "**** me?"
Nah, **** that *****
**** that *****, **** that *****
A ***** that holler 'bout "**** me?"
Nah, **** that *****"
 
I follow them even if its just to see a lil sumtin on my timeline :lol:...

But all that liking every pic and posting emojis naw naw I just look nd keep scrolling. Something about followers and likes that really gasses they head up...
 
I mainly lurk, but it's time to present my dilemma to the TAY fam.

I am a Phys Ed teacher in north jersey and although I love my job, my goal career wise has always been to work in college athletics as an athletic director or similar role.

I recently applied and got accepted to my top choice grad school which is in Cali. I've been with my girl for over seven months now, and I'm not sure of what the future holds. Neither of us want to do a long term relationship (I'll be moving out there late may/early june), and unless she finds a job out there, it seems like things will be a wrap.

On one hand I'd be sad to have to break up, but I have to put my dream first (right?), but on the other hand I already know the Bay Area will be fun times.

It's just kind of weird because my interest in my current girl goes back and forth because I know the likelihood of our split.

Smh.
 
when you say "girl," that's your committed relationship girlfriend? Neither one wants a long term but she talking about following you to Cali? Sounds pretty long term..


I mean, you got a job man you gotta go follow your dream. Like you said she can either move out there with you or not. You never know though, she may come out to visit a few times etc.
 
Woops. Meant long distance. Yeah I mean I've definitely been up front about what I'm trying to do since day one, but it still kind of sucks.
 
..The war between yambs and Thursday night double header is real..


Is it wrong to just chill and watch the game.. She says yes :/
 
If u love her just have her come out. Are u ready to live with her?

I love her but at the same time I don't want her to come out solely for me. Because if she's out there with no job or one she doesn't like, I don't want her resenting me. So it's like I'd want her out there with me, not for me.

Living together would be cool I think but that's definitely something that we have to talk about as well.
 
I love her but at the same time I don't want her to come out solely for me. Because if she's out there with no job or one she doesn't like, I don't want her resenting me. So it's like I'd want her out there with me, not for me.

Living together would be cool I think but that's definitely something that we have to talk about as well.

If yall are serious.. She should start applying to jobs out here. Sit down and have this convo with her, nothing to lose.
 
man Cook if it was serious she woulda already been talking about applying for jobs and they would've already had the discussion.


Point blank she waiting on you to give her the go ahead--women are very in tune with **** like this. We not gonna "invite" ourselves to something major like that. If you want her to come you need to say "I'd like for you to come," the fact that you are still torn about it and haven't explicitly asked her means you probably don't. Which is ok, ya'll have only been together 7 months (which is kinda soon to really KNOW anyway)


Well--- not really, but... yea, if you knew you'd know and she'd know and ya'll would be in the know together :lol:
 
I love her but at the same time I don't want her to come out solely for me. Because if she's out there with no job or one she doesn't like, I don't want her resenting me. So it's like I'd want her out there with me, not for me.

Living together would be cool I think but that's definitely something that we have to talk about as well.
I am about to be the bad guy but I honestly think you are not ready for this. The wording of that sentence tells me alot. Moving in with someone takes alot of patience, time and understanding. You already sound like she is not the one for your future but you don't know how to tell her that its over. Just this whole statement sounds like an excuse not to cut ties with her. It's nothing wrong with pursuing your dreams and letting time take its course to see if you guys are really meant to be. Don't know what part of The Bay you are moving to and I don't know her job background, but it's truly hard to get work out there right now unless you are in the tech field or service/nightlife industry(unless you have really good connects,etc)... I have homeboys back home struggling to make ends meet and they have MBA's and PHD's...
In all realness I think you need to sit down and do some soul searching and really see if you want her and are truly in love with her. Love is a four letter word for sacrifice. Sometimes you have to follow your own path and let people go that you don't want to follow that journey of self fulfillment. You are not being selfish in telling her this but you don't want to move to a new city and both of you have resentment towards one another.
 
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Man how ppl behave on social media vs in reality is funny sometimes

This chick who invited herself back to my crib to get smashed the first time we hung out a few weeks ago and was trying to get me to take her on a date two weeks ago

Is now posting all this stuff on social media about this new man she has
 
Man how ppl behave on social media vs in reality is funny sometimes

This chick who invited herself back to my crib to get smashed the first time we hung out a few weeks ago and was trying to get me to take her on a date two weeks ago

Is now posting all this stuff on social media about this new man she has
Girls need attention and "E-support" to feel good about themselves that they're doing better. Whatever.
 
The funny thing is she was pursuing hard and I gently curve her and she's in a relationship two weeks later

Any potential wifey will go through a presidential type vetting process
 
I learned my lesson the hard way when I was younger

If a chick is pursuing you hard it's because you're not putting at least a decent effort and that's for a reason
 
This chick that was in my class last semster texts me like every other day for the past week asking random questions bout school like did u get classes? Have u ever been on academic probation? Or did u get ur fin aid?
And i just been giving her short couple word responses and then she doesn't text me until the next say with another question

I studied together with her a couple times last semster and sat next to her every class but gave her absolutely zero pursuit.

So im kinda confused what her motive is
 
Doc- Girl who went to Berk and spent entire day over at the pad??

Yeezus- Why u being short with her? Just ask her to come to a party or something, sounds simple.
 
A lot of women can't stand getting curved on the low, especially very attractive ones who usually have men at their wim. If you get inside her then play it off, they get super out of character. Sub-tweets and all the passive aggressiveness in the convos, it's funny but sad at the same time.
 
I learned my lesson the hard way when I was younger

If a chick is pursuing you hard it's because you're not putting at least a decent effort and that's for a reason

This is real. When she gets you it's all downhill from there as typically it was just to smooth over that inflated ego women have. It's more "who are you to not Want me" than attraction. Look how soon she had to prove she can lock something down.

I'm back to real FDB mode, gon be a cold year for y'all.
 
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