Tried to stay away but two post caught my eye.
Chasing and Friendzones should never occur.
At some point in every mans life "keeping it 100" should be your motto until you are dead in the dirt. Letting a woman know your intentions up front saves you the petty headaches and what ifs. Those two specific predicaments are truly based off being scared to take a lost. Everybody reaches this plateau in life at different times but when you finally ascend to that plain, I promise you will never have another woman problem again. I say this because that is the true meaning of loving oneself and not giving a damn about any obstacles that stop you from being great. I said this in the other thread. Women are just as scared( maybe more) of not being liked for themselves and other trivial things that as men we harp and conjur up in our heads to not take steps in future endeavors( whether its our career or love or just overall peace). I ask my Tay brethren, why do you fear a being that bleeds, thinks,poops,eats just like us. There truly isn't a science to this thing called dating or love. People let fear of rejection and failure supersede the things they want. If you meet a lovely young woman( not birds) but someone you find interesting, attractive, funny and just and overall cool person, why not state how you feel, if you she walks away, that just means your destiny or paths are not tied to each other and you just move on to the next. STOP BEING AFRAID OF TAKING THE L'S.
All the losses I have taken, all the Friendzones, all the heartbreaks made me the man I am today and also led me to wifey. Is companionship and love scary? **** Yeah but what do you have to lose, you are going to die anyway, losing one girl is might hurt you but it will make you wiser. You don't need a Bishop Juan mouthpiece, all you need is the belief in yourself. Women want to be led, that is biological and taught, not saying to be cocky but be you, if a chick is not down for the play, move on and continue the hunt. Mike Jones said the most prolific ish for the dumbest bar i have ever heard,"They didnt want me, now I'm hot, they all up on me", when you develop that confidence and knowledge of who you are(even when broke)trust and believe you will see a major change in how girls(women) deal with you. You can't love,smash or even date until you accept who you are and when you finally do this, I'm telling you the world will open up to ish you never thought of...
*This Has Been A Public Service Announcement From The Old Head At Wise Brotha Records*