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I like that & I could add in that it would give us a good chance to sit, talk & get to know each other. When should I text her? I said I'd text her after class & I'm out now. Would it be too soon?
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I like that & I could add in that it would give us a good chance to sit, talk & get to know each other. When should I text her? I said I'd text her after class & I'm out now. Would it be too soon?
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Well I personally don't believe in the waiting game. But if you do feel it's too soon then talking about the quiz y'all just took would be a great way around that.I like that & I could add in that it would give us a good chance to sit, talk & get to know each other. When should I text her? I said I'd text her after class & I'm out now. Would it be too soon?
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Come on you never texted a girl before?
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Of course I have, b. but this is the "foot in the door" period. I'm not comfortable yet, I have to figure her out n shlt.
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"Yo shawtay, just out of class... That quiz was mad stressful, about to smoke a lil if ur free?"
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If this works, I'll be surprised.
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Since the thread is so slow... Recap of my weekend.
Friday went out to visit Amare in SM. Planned to have 2 girls meet up with us. Literally at the bar for maybe 25 mins before she comes through and I dip out with her back to her pad. Smash all night.
Saturday it's my boys bday so we got out. He's trying to get some since it's his bday, no success. Keeps trying to dance with this lil blonde who has like 3 friends and it's just not happening... I come in and explain it's his bday, sorry he's being a ****show. They start laughing, it's one of their bdays. Start chatting up the hottest one, notice a rock on the ring finger. She's 30, been married 5 years... She then tells me she wants me to bang her while he kids are home one day. She was sooooooo bad too
End up calling over girl I hooked up with a minuted ago that always drunk dials me, she comes through...
Anyone here done Grouper? My boy signed up and I'm one of his wingmen
Friday went out to visit Amare in SM. Planned to have 2 girls meet up with us. Literally at the bar for maybe 25 mins before she comes through and I dip out with her back to her pad. Smash all night.
Saturday it's my boys bday so we got out. He's trying to get some since it's his bday, no success. Keeps trying to dance with this lil blonde who has like 3 friends and it's just not happening... I come in and explain it's his bday, sorry he's being a ****show. They start laughing, it's one of their bdays. Start chatting up the hottest one, notice a rock on the ring finger. She's 30, been married 5 years... She then tells me she wants me to bang her while he kids are home one day. She was sooooooo bad too
End up calling over girl I hooked up with a minuted ago that always drunk dials me, she comes through...
Anyone here done Grouper? My boy signed up and I'm one of his wingmen
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If this works, I'll be surprised.
Idk why it wouldn't. I don't smoke, but it's witty and funny... Straight to the point as well. He should add in some of his personality though.
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I used to not bring that up initially until I had em at my spot. That way if they're against it, it's not a dealbreaker
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papers over them blunts
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Pulled this shorty from my English class today. We both needed something from the other..she needed a pencil, i needed a Scantron. I kept thinking about talking to her but I started to psyche myself out...I decided to do the opposite(shout out to George Constanza) After class, she remembered to give my pencil back & i said fck it and took the shot. She said I was real sweet and was cheesin hard, gave me her number & was like why didn't I say anything earlier.
Feeling myself today, guys. Child's question but:
what's a good initial first text? It's obviously she's feeling me so I'm not too worried. Oh, and how do you tell a girl you smoke weed or invite her to smoke with you?
Don't mention smoking to her just yet. Just text her with small talk and feel her out. Your second convo mention to her you smoke and ask if she wants to match or something if she hasn't already talked about how she feels about smoking
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If u haven't texted her yet...
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. what you gonna do? 
Since the thread is so slow... Recap of my weekend.
Friday went out to visit Amare in SM. Planned to have 2 girls meet up with us. Literally at the bar for maybe 25 mins before she comes through and I dip out with her back to her pad. Smash all night.
Saturday it's my boys bday so we got out. He's trying to get some since it's his bday, no success. Keeps trying to dance with this lil blonde who has like 3 friends and it's just not happening... I come in and explain it's his bday, sorry he's being a ****show. They start laughing, it's one of their bdays. Start chatting up the hottest one, notice a rock on the ring finger. She's 30, been married 5 years... She then tells me she wants me to bang her while he kids are home one day. She was sooooooo bad too
End up calling over girl I hooked up with a minuted ago that always drunk dials me, she comes through...
Anyone here done Grouper? My boy signed up and I'm one of his wingmen
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Man its a college campus, just ask her if she burns
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I swear man y'all in college are over thinking things.
College is legitimately the easiest place to meet and acquire yambs.
College is legitimately the easiest place to meet and acquire yambs.
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Since the thread is so slow... Recap of my weekend.
She's 30, been married 5 years... She then tells me she wants me to bang her while he kids are home one day. She was sooooooo bad too
What in the entire **** :x
That convo woulda had to end right there, can only imagine how she's ****** their heads up. The real ****** up part is some guy took her up on that offer
Many women who get married at 25 and under are freaking off in my experience, can't do it, certain lines you just don't cross.
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Alright fellas
In order of sequence:
She doesn't want a relationship, she said she just got out of a bad one. I said its cool, I still wanna get to know her.
She said she was surprised cause there's things that some people don't approve of her doing. I said like what? She said "I smoke a lot of weed".
That's all she had to say, guys lmao. So we started talking more and it went well but then I asked if she wanted to talk over a blunt & she never replied.
She said she was a bad texter earlier lol but anyway, just givin ya'll an update.
In order of sequence:
She doesn't want a relationship, she said she just got out of a bad one. I said its cool, I still wanna get to know her.
She said she was surprised cause there's things that some people don't approve of her doing. I said like what? She said "I smoke a lot of weed".
That's all she had to say, guys lmao. So we started talking more and it went well but then I asked if she wanted to talk over a blunt & she never replied.
She said she was a bad texter earlier lol but anyway, just givin ya'll an update.
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You dont wanna have full out convos through texting anyway.
You have class with her, you'll be fine. Also you can always smoke at her place, she'd more comfortable there. Doesnt have to be yours.
You have class with her, you'll be fine. Also you can always smoke at her place, she'd more comfortable there. Doesnt have to be yours.
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What in the entire **** :x
That convo woulda had to end right there, can only imagine how she's ****** their heads up. The real ****** up part is some guy took her up on that offer
Many women who get married at 25 and under are freaking off in my experience, can't do it, certain lines you just don't cross.
Oh yeah, I didn't touch it. She would have been the baddest I smashed in awhile too... Talking TOP notch OC housewife lol.
And Surge if u don't smash her, I've lost all hope for u.
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[COLOR=#red]I didn't get banned my dudes. I just went through this stage where I was like "what is me messing with all these women really doing for my life". So for two weeks I stopped responding to texts and telephone calls from my chicks, went celibate and focused on myself and the direction I'm going in life so I can be successful. That included looking at documentaries of successful people and reading about them as well.
Now instead of smashing I'm learning and doing computer programming
Your boy has went straight nerd/geek mode on y'all. I'm also getting stuff together to write my book about working for the Feds and all the crazy stuff I've done working for them.Yamb on my dudes, just keep perspective and make sure you are advancing yourself in life and not putting too much into acquiring Yambs...before you know it it becomes you. Mugen, hope you come back in here man you're always needed.
To the rest of the OGs y'all know who you are what's good homies? To the newer ones in here I understand it's a new world with new rules, just try not to lose yourselves and you don't have to simp on one extreme, but you also don't have to treat women like trash on the other extreme either. Have fun my dudes.[/COLOR]
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Good to see you're still alive man lol
[COLOR=#red]I didn't get banned my dudes. I just went through this stage where I was like "what is me messing with all these women really doing for my life". So for two weeks I stopped responding to texts and telephone calls from my chicks, went celibate and focused on myself and the direction I'm going in life so I can be successful. That included looking at documentaries of successful people and reading about them as well.
Now instead of smashing I'm learning and doing computer programming
Yamb on my dudes, just keep perspective and make sure you are advancing yourself in life and not putting too much into acquiring Yambs...before you know it it becomes you. Mugen, hope you come back in here man you're always needed.
To the rest of the OGs y'all know who you are what's good homies? To the newer ones in here I understand it's a new world with new rules, just try not to lose yourselves and you don't have to simp on one extreme, but you also don't have to treat women like trash on the other extreme either. Have fun my dudes.[/COLOR]
Good luck with the programming and the book
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props to EWD...I went thru a similar phase this month and realized I had to focus on getting my **** together to even be able to handle all the yambs I was getting at. got to a point where I legit would rather sit at home and devise strategy or plan a budget than talk to a chick but in the process of doing this I realized I really don't have much desire in pursuing women. now don't get me wrong, my sex drive is as high as ever I just no longer have the patience to go along with the whole song and dance. since I realized this I have been able to weed out any chicks that aren't chasing me and my game has been going even smoother and I have a better idea of what level I want to be at.
for anybody that wanted an update I'm still only at 1 body for the year. but I have a strong team of 3 chicks, one is the boss at a small bank, another is working on her doctorate in psychology and the other just got a new job and I'm going to see her tonite to celebrate. going to get a hotel with the psych chick on friday and maybe see the other on Sunday
this month has been mostly about getting everything setup to make the rest of the process as smooth as possible. everything is looking good so far yamb wise and on the business and personal development side. next month should be interesting, gonna see if I can make it to NOLA for all star weekend
but in the process of doing this I realized I really don't have much desire in pursuing women. now don't get me wrong, my sex drive is as high as ever I just no longer have the patience to go along with the whole song and dance. since I realized this I have been able to weed out any chicks that aren't chasing me and my game has been going even smoother and I have a better idea of what level I want to be at. for anybody that wanted an update I'm still only at 1 body for the year. but I have a strong team of 3 chicks, one is the boss at a small bank, another is working on her doctorate in psychology and the other just got a new job and I'm going to see her tonite to celebrate. going to get a hotel with the psych chick on friday and maybe see the other on Sunday
this month has been mostly about getting everything setup to make the rest of the process as smooth as possible. everything is looking good so far yamb wise and on the business and personal development side. next month should be interesting, gonna see if I can make it to NOLA for all star weekend
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BIG LEEMELONE
Great post, nice roster you got there, love to see quality over quantity. I was dealing with a female a couple weeks back who was getting her Doctorate in Psych as well, was dope as hell. Just really illuminating conversations especially when we got high and the sex was ill. I love connecting with a woman on an intellectual level and she had potential to be the pinnacle of that. Unfortunately she goes to school down south or I might be with her exclusively.
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I feel you EWD.
Unless I'm on vacay I'm not wasting time with yambs during the week. Becoming the master of the curve
Studying Sunday through Thursday except when I'm on call
Unless I'm on vacay I'm not wasting time with yambs during the week. Becoming the master of the curve
Studying Sunday through Thursday except when I'm on call
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****** is just focused this year, and I'm right there with y'all.
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