Originally Posted by kickstart
7+ your senior how do you play it?
First thing out her mouth after I told her my age was I'm young/ just a baby.
Ask her" Why should that matter if we enjoy each others company. What are you trying to do, rush a relationship?" And laugh at the end of the comment.
Most older women( dealt with a couple in my life time) like to show their " dominance" because of age, but you quickly have to end that contrite thinking with them. Also that's a form of insecurity with some older women, as well.
Like I always say "Keep it 100" and tell them how you feel. Don't pussy foot with any woman, regardless of age. When you show that you have a back bone and not down for the silly ****, women react totally different then when you play Mr. Passive -Aggressive. That's why you have to maintain the thin line between ******* and gentlemen. As sad as that sounds even the coolest chick try's "to test you when your heat goes warm". It's a weird woman logic they use as a gauge for you caring for them( call my wife on that behavior all the time, lol and she does vice versa).
Just be honest" look my age has nothing to do with our relationship/smash session. It's all about ones mentality and vision of life that should be the measuring stick of my character. If we are going to continue this thing, judge me off my actions and not my age. If its that big of a problem, then i have thoroughly enjoyed your company but I must move around until I meet a woman without such flawed thinking."
I know that sounds harsh but trust she will eat that up because young men live for pussy, grown men live for themselves and follow their own heart and that truly is a woman's worst enemy when she knows she can't control or tame you and when she knows you can live without her, tryin to told you, things become a whole lot easier...