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I understand, but thats not fun. Ima have to plot for when she's done with our office.
Happy hour is a good idea. Not really part of our office culture though. Not sure if it would pan out.
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Definitely keep it cool while she's working with you. Being an authority figure is a good thing, don't drop that. If it was me I would just do my thing, find some legit reason to exchange numbers or just let her come to me, exchange friendly but not flirty texts and then invite her for drinks when her internship is over
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DC chick flying in tonight..got her to come early. No pun intended
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If happy hour not apart of the company culture then take her *** to 2bros pizza and sit down and eat and chat
Do good for me dude
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Word. What makes this experience more frustrating is that I know I can bag this other intern who is working in a different department. Shorty is on my piece hard; invited me to brunch and dinner w/ her fam. Always touching on me when we talk. If I were to smash I wouldn't even get in trouble since I'm not her supervisor
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"Idk because I have a a glimmer of hope that you would be the cool person I had a crush on in high school and something good could happen, but then I remember that thought is basically diametrically opposed to reality because you have a girlfriend. That's how I'm looking at this. Either way you're fine and I'm not and its just an annoying thing."
Anyway, what should my plan be.
Thought this was funny:
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After this I picked up the phone and called her, told her to get her mind out of the gutter, told her anything I want to do that you want to do will happen, end of story. I think I'm going in this weekend.
Anyway, what should my plan be.
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After this I picked up the phone and called her, told her to get her mind out of the gutter, told her anything I want to do that you want to do will happen, end of story. I think I'm going in this weekend.
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you never told us she was coming back out there.
yo wtf was up with that question..... I dont even know what the hell you meant by that. spagehtti / casserole...
am I missing something.................
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If she's an intern, isn't there a chance they bring her on after??
My three Engineer friends interned at their firms and then were brought on full time.
My three Engineer friends interned at their firms and then were brought on full time.
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Thought I mentioned she was coming out her in late July or August?
Oh well.It was something we joked about awhile back (Prob years ago I think), about cookie cutter lifestyles, boring meals, suburbs, etc. basically asking if she was that type of person. One of those soccer mom SUV-driving, casserole cooking, no character having types.
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Not at our office. We don't hire recent grads; need at least 2-3 years of work experience.
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Thought I mentioned she was coming out her in late July or August?
It was something we joked about awhile back (Prob years ago I think), about cookie cutter lifestyles, boring meals, suburbs, etc. basically asking if she was that type of person. One of those soccer mom SUV-driving, casserole cooking, no character having types.
did she end up remembering that convo.??
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After I called, yeah. Still think the chick is crazy and I'm taking a huge risk but we'll see what happens this week. At 23, I really don't have much to lose by taking chances.
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Man I just got my soul sucked out of me...I'm cheesing ear to ear right now lmao
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Yep at this point you may as well see what's up with her, all this analyzing and conversing, YOU HAVE TO DO IT now.
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I used to do that all the time. So risky but luckily I never got burned
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Where would you guys go to get checked?
I've been fortunate enough to not catch anything at this point. I go raw too even when I have a hat at hand's reach. But thankfully it's never been with randoms and just chicks I knew for a while.
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this
and what if she shoots u down or already got a dude
its just gon be awkward after
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you guys are talking like this ish never happens in the corporate world.
Personally i'd play it cool, i don't like ******g the payroll.
Personally i'd play it cool, i don't like ******g the payroll.
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I'll try, fam
Thinking about it gets my head hot but imma play it cool and just hope that she's come to her senses next time we link up.
Leave it alone. Everything that look good ain't good for you. Don't mix business with pleasure. We talking about income over here. Don't mess that up over a bad chick. A bad chick that know she's bad is bad news. Not to mention if she has a boyfriend. You don't want her man coming down to your job making **** hot for you if he finds out your pushing up on his girl. And that can very well happen. You push up on her, she isn't feeling it because she's super professional, she goes home and tells her man, her man comes to your job and starts some ****. Your boss fires you. Now your unemployed. Although this may not happen, it's likely. And let's say she's single (or just living trife) and you DO smash. That can lead to a spiral of emotions that you may not want to deal with. It's just not worth it
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I'd try to bag. If you were to invite her on lunch, I wouldn't do it for all to see since you're the supervisor and wouldn't want the others to think that there is some type of favoritism going on. Just play it close to the chest.
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When in doubt WIO
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Update on this girl I've been dating for the pass couple months. We hit it off pretty good text convo was on point slept over during the weekdays n weekends slowly getting exclusive. But now the texting been slowing down lately. Slept over Friday night didn't do anything then Saturday morning we talked and she was telling me how it's hard to find people you could click with and doesn't wanna waste each other's time cause we're getting older. Maybe it's because she sees all her friends getting tied down and having kids and she also wants that too. I told her some things you can't put a time frame on and just let time do its majic.
So as I was dropping her off to the ferry to go see her parents for Father's Day she said would like to get flowers went to her at work. Took a mental note and sent flowers today which she really liked and thought it was sweet. I put a letter there mention what she said Saturday morning and said I don't wanna waste anyone's time told her I like her more each day goes by and don't wanna though away a good thing and see where this takes us.
I asked her what are your thoughts on all of this and she told she would rather meet up and talk about it this Thursday cause it best to be face to face rather then through text. So idk what Ima be In for this Thursday I just want to make sure we're on the same level and see eye to eye.
My brotherns what should I expect? Should hope for the worst?
So as I was dropping her off to the ferry to go see her parents for Father's Day she said would like to get flowers went to her at work. Took a mental note and sent flowers today which she really liked and thought it was sweet. I put a letter there mention what she said Saturday morning and said I don't wanna waste anyone's time told her I like her more each day goes by and don't wanna though away a good thing and see where this takes us.
I asked her what are your thoughts on all of this and she told she would rather meet up and talk about it this Thursday cause it best to be face to face rather then through text. So idk what Ima be In for this Thursday I just want to make sure we're on the same level and see eye to eye.
My brotherns what should I expect? Should hope for the worst?
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