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Shorty is gone off her emotions asking those questions. She doesn't realize shes the side chick lmao. Better let her down easy. She knows where you live and knows who your girlfriend is. Don't want her to retaliate and blow your spot up. Why didn't you smash her at a telly or back seat?
 
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Smh. All this trouble just to cheat on your girl. It's not like you're -just- smashing either - yall be texting each other essays and thesis papers n stuff. Disgusting tbh.
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Yea, **** is wild childish too.


I understand doing this type of **** when you a teenager but come on.


If you was real you would let your girl know you wanna mess with other women and either she accepts it or you move on.


That type of **** isn't what this thread should be about, as a man you gotta be above that type of ****.
 
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I honestly feel terrible. I just hate when chicks get too comfortable. And you bring it up to them and discuss it and they don't do **** about..

Getting too comfortable and forgetting what makes you the person you are is what kills a lot of relationships..I'm not saying I don't want to be with my girl anymore, but damn..

After going through that, it made me feel sick at work. I regret it honestly. I had a dumb dream and acted on it, and had this idea that the other chick was something different..

And I don't even condone this type of behavior. I'm old enough to know better but young enough to recover..
 
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Wow. When she ask where you and your girl stand you shoulda just said we got some things to talk about.

And when she asks did yall talk about things, i woulda just said yeah she said we will have a dont ask dont tell policy. Booom balls back in her court.
 
I ended up responding saying "this is a convo we should have in person". Gonna leave it at that until later on
 
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I can't condemn you because I have done my fair share of dirt and paid my dues but this situation looks like it took a drastic turn.
It looks like DC has caught legit feelings while you are/where looking for an outlet to escape the mundane trappings relationships go through from time to time. I know people get antsy or frustrated when they tell their significant other that "things aren't going right" in the relationship or the life of said relationship needs to be revitalized but you can't put all the onus of work on to them. Sometimes( even though I hate this dude with a passion Dr.Phil[emoji]128512[/emoji]) you have to be the superhero of the relationship with the "S" on your chest and start the process of saving something if it means anything to you. Relationships(of all kinds) are peaks and valleys. It takes work and time.
The real question now is what do you do?
Do you confess? Do you shroud this information in secrecy? Do you cut DC off and risk potential violation to your relationship?
Do you walk away from both and start all over?
Hindsight is 20/20 and the feeling you have now is temporary but this is were the real work comes in. I've been in your shoes(also on the other end)and the ish does leave a taint of shame on yourself but this is a pivotal moment in your life.
Actions have consequences.
Wish you the best on what you feel is right for you brethren[emoji]9996[/emoji][emoji]127999[/emoji]️
 
So i wanna know if I can salvage the situation or if not possible just tell me how big an L I just took

Been texting this girl for a couple days and she's like glad to be texting me, she goes on to say she's gonna cook for me, service me in other ways, and spend nights, mind you I only been texting her for 3 days

She came over yesterday and we did basically everything but smash, she basically said we should of through text later, the next day we barely text back and forth, later in the day I get hit with a text basically saying she still cant get over her ex and that she doesnt wanna continue what we kinda have

Thoughts? Suggestions? Im thinking of just letting her be and then in a week I'll hit her with that late night "Wyd?" Text
 
hypebeast5 said:
So i wanna know if I can salvage the situation or if not possible just tell me how big an L I just took

Been texting this girl for a couple days and she's like glad to be texting me, she goes on to say she's gonna cook for me, service me in other ways, and spend nights, mind you I only been texting her for 3 days

She came over yesterday and we did basically everything but smash, she basically said we should of through text later, the next day we barely text back and forth, later in the day I get hit with a text basically saying she still cant get over her ex and that she doesnt wanna continue what we kinda have

Thoughts? Suggestions? Im thinking of just letting her be and then in a week I'll hit her with that late night "Wyd?" Text
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Bruh just know she still messing with her ex and she told you clearly and you better hope he doesnt find out because some of these dudes out here will kill over they P or dude might pay u a visit.

I would say dont contact her no mo because all that stuff she was talking just seemed like she was in heat cuz her ex wasnt messing with her, But now he is after she hit you with she cant get over her ex. He must of just smashed her. sounds like they might be on a off and on relationship.

Be safe bro and let her contact u.
 
USABasketball08 said:
I ended up responding saying "this is a convo we should have in person". Gonna leave it at that until later on
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Dang USA as cool as that story sounds that was mad foul. How would you feel if you left your badge at home and came back to the crib to find yo girl in the 69 position :smh:

I could never do something like that where i live with my girl just knowing the chick i brought over there done seen my girl and know where i stay just go get a hotel or something but whats done is done.
 
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hypebeast5 said:
So i wanna know if I can salvage the situation or if not possible just tell me how big an L I just took

Been texting this girl for a couple days and she's like glad to be texting me, she goes on to say she's gonna cook for me, service me in other ways, and spend nights, mind you I only been texting her for 3 days

She came over yesterday and we did basically everything but smash, she basically said we should of through text later, the next day we barely text back and forth, later in the day I get hit with a text basically saying she still cant get over her ex and that she doesnt wanna continue what we kinda have

Thoughts? Suggestions? Im thinking of just letting her be and then in a week I'll hit her with that late night "Wyd?" Text
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Just move on its summertime
 
hypebeast5 said:
So i wanna know if I can salvage the situation or if not possible just tell me how big an L I just took

Been texting this girl for a couple days and she's like glad to be texting me, she goes on to say she's gonna cook for me, service me in other ways, and spend nights, mind you I only been texting her for 3 days

She came over yesterday and we did basically everything but smash, she basically said we should of through text later, the next day we barely text back and forth, later in the day I get hit with a text basically saying she still cant get over her ex and that she doesnt wanna continue what we kinda have

Thoughts? Suggestions? Im thinking of just letting her be and then in a week I'll hit her with that late night "Wyd?" Text
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Hit the eject button my friend. It's over.

Honestly any girl that's still contacts the ex is a red flag to me
 
USABasketball08 said:
I honestly feel terrible. I just hate when chicks get too comfortable. And you bring it up to them and discuss it and they don't do **** about..

Getting too comfortable and forgetting what makes you the person you are is what kills a lot of relationships..I'm not saying I don't want to be with my girl anymore, but damn..

After going through that, it made me feel sick at work. I regret it honestly. I had a dumb dream and acted on it, and had this idea that the other chick was something different..

And I don't even condone this type of behavior. I'm old enough to know better but young enough to recover..
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I'd still hit it and pursue it. Go to her hotel room and clap. You're young and in/entering your prime. Enjoy life. Should have never brought her to your crib though. Atl east have some respect for your main. It's not like you live by yourself, she lives there with you as well.
 
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TomDiginson said:
I'd still hit it and pursue it. Go to her hotel room and clap. You're young and in/entering your prime. Enjoy life. Should have never brought her to your crib though. Atl east have some respect for your main. It's not like you live by yourself, she lives there with you as well.
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I swear, since moving to the city/downtown and having more $ than what I did while being a broke college student, I've been reckless as hell. Well I hadnt even done anything up until yesterday...

No kids, most of my debt except student loans are paid off so I've been staying out late on weekdays with my boys, going out to eat with my girl, etc..and getting 2-3 hours of sleep and then waking up in the morning and popping an Adderall and cup of coffee and I'm on to work.

I still think 22-23 is too old to be doing reckless **** like that. I remember back in this thread years ago I used to smash chicks with babies in the other room smh and thought that was reckless.

Still feel terrible and I'm not initiating any contact with the other chick. Literally went to bed last night and definitely thought I was not going to wake up, or that I would wake up to my girl with a knife in my face.

And what also turns me off to my girl sometimes is the fact that I have to pay all the bills..drives me crazy..but in her defense, when I had nothing she was helping me out with the very little that she had..but I'm talking thousands compared to her helping with hundreds so it's frustrating bros. I think regardless of whatever happens with me and my girl I'll always support her financially...
 
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