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man if I see another question about text game I swear
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Thats how i feel, my thing is if you text you can talk screw that texting crap. I want to hear a female voice to get a feel of her, to she if she really meaning the things she is saying. You can learn more from talking and listening than textingI ******g hate texting. And I hate the fact that it's become so essential even more
Agreed so much emotion and context is lost through text messages...if you can text you can talk.
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Thats how i feel, my thing is if you text you can talk screw that texting crap. I want to hear a female voice to get a feel of her, to she if she really meaning the things she is saying. You can learn more from talking and listening than textingI ******g hate texting. And I hate the fact that it's become so essential even more
Agreed so much emotion and context is lost through text messages...if you can text you can talk.
As someone who texts a decent amount including during down time at work I have to disagree with that last statement
But for a new female I only have quick and shallow convos due to your first point
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I hate txting also. Sometimes its coo but its like dam. Some of yall n****z really need to ask about txting? Its not like yall HAVE to reply right away. Its more like a game of checkers not chess
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Lol, man Its like id you say the wrong thing, you wont get a reply back. Checkers my ***.
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I have a mean txt game. I put in a lot of work thru txt and ask all the pertinent questions. That way when talking on the phone I can build off of what I learned thru the txts and then in person all the bs is out the way. It works for me at least. If anyone has any specific questions about what to say or whatever ask away.
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I used to almost exclusively text because I used to work in a call center so I'm not bad at it. I'd be too phone fatigued at the end of the day to even think about talking on the phone. Nowadays though I prefer calling, as said earlier there's no tone, emotion etc through text, a lot can be misconstrued. Plus I caught myself getting caught up in the wordy texts. It might've just been two sentences but it looks like a crazy amount of words in that small bubble. That can hurt you if her interest is waning.
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Dudes need to stop overanalyzing ****
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Dudes need to stop overanalyzing ****
Should be on the front page
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my goodness i just went through all 8 pages, im drunk/tipsy
yes no more "text advice"
Today brethren was an L
i'll edit tomorrow when I'm sober.
Long story short I got turned down by a chick i already knew, but still feels
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yes no more "text advice"
Today brethren was an L
i'll edit tomorrow when I'm sober.
Long story short I got turned down by a chick i already knew, but still feels
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Sorry to hear that famb. I told one of my roster pieces it was me or the single life, choose & guess what she chose.....
Lowkey stings but it's nothing a L can't fix.
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Spring semester about to start up soon.
There's no way anyone living on a college campus should be yambless.
Nothing but space and opportunity out there, y'all boys get after it.
There's no way anyone living on a college campus should be yambless.
Nothing but space and opportunity out there, y'all boys get after it.
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For those that don't approach much or just need another source of Yambs...
Try Tinder. If they like your pic, you have instant access to messaging them without even getting the digits. Just smashed one today and I've only had the app for a week or two.
Surprised it hasn't been brought up yet.
Try Tinder. If they like your pic, you have instant access to messaging them without even getting the digits. Just smashed one today and I've only had the app for a week or two.
Surprised it hasn't been brought up yet.
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Work midnights. 11pm-11am Sunday - Thursday(sometimes Friday too). Other than the weekends I don't have much opportunity to meet new prospects. ***** rough on the social life.
Go back to work tomorrow, had the last 2 weeks off. I made a goal to at least pull 1 during this time frame. failed miserably on multiple occasions SMH
All good though. Only means im due for a win.
Go back to work tomorrow, had the last 2 weeks off. I made a goal to at least pull 1 during this time frame. failed miserably on multiple occasions SMH
All good though. Only means im due for a win.
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You gotta go hard on Friday/Saturday bruh
Working midnights is rough, you can still make it work though
Working midnights is rough, you can still make it work though
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what if we live at home? then do we have a valid excuse?
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If you're not being sarcastic
It was nothing too major, I just told her that after a long time of rubbing around, we wasn't getting anywhere & to pick between being single or being with me. She ran on about how she doesn't want me to not be in her life and all this. I said if you can't see us being together then we have nothing else to discuss and that was that.
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If you're not being sarcastic
It was nothing too major, I just told her that after a long time of rubbing around, we wasn't getting anywhere & to pick between being single or being with me. She ran on about how she doesn't want me to not be in her life and all this. I said if you can't see us being together then we have nothing else to discuss and that was that.
ohh you tried to Unfriendzone yourself?
hey what happened to that dude who was on the quest for 100 this year
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Even though I preach "keep it 100" all the time, damn breh, lol...If you're not being sarcastic
It was nothing too major, I just told her that after a long time of rubbing around, we wasn't getting anywhere & to pick between being single or being with me. She ran on about how she doesn't want me to not be in her life and all this. I said if you can't see us being together then we have nothing else to discuss and that was that.
Ultimatums generally don't work because it presents the flight instinct in people. You basically put her on the spot and she possibly felt pressured. Could have been a little more tactful in the sense of wording,"Look I have been feeling you for a while and I want to take things to another level. I understand if you are apprehensive about the whole situation but if you can't see us exploring a new terrain, then I think it's best we go our separate ways and I wish you the best." The wording could have been better but at the end of the day
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Guys, four years and half years ago I had a girl (we were really good friends) get in my truck asking me if I had any condoms for the night. We were on the way to homecoming and she wanted to make sure we were "safe" afterwards. We ended up not having sex.Over the course of these four and a half years we hanged out, made out, and she even let me finger and eat her out. It was nice. and TWO years ago on the ride home from a Mexican club she had asked me if I were DTF. Somehow , someway I lost (word to the Cowboys ) and ended up not getting laid. I felt so unmanly at the time.
During this time period girls came and went . Some I got really close to some not some much. Either way I was the laughing stock of my group for being a virgin. Quite depressing honestly. The sadder part was no matter what I did or how I did it I just couldn't get laid. I always found a way to " **** " out. I'm not sure why but looking back I think I was scared of sex. I was scared of not being good, not being big enough, not pleasing her. and the list goes on.
It was so bad that I also once had a hot blond chick ask me if I wanted to sleep in her bed for the night. I was to the point where I couldn't drive because I was heavily intoxicated but all that night she was being really flirty with. Some how , some way I ended up saying no . I posted about this is TAN NOV'DEC of 2012 if Ya'll want the full story.
Well everything changed last night fellas. There's this girl I had been talking to off of POF and I randomly asked her if she wanted to chill since none of my "friends" had hmu last night. Super cute white chick and thick af to. Anyways we go to the movies and come back. On the way to her home she mentions that her grandma is asleep. I grew some balls then proceeded to ask her if she had any good movie and that since it was getting cold we could cuddle up and watch movies. She agreed and on the rest of the ride I felt so ALPHA.
We ended up watching some corny comedy from the 00's and midway things we started getting closer and closer. In the movie she was making fun of the gay dude who played a cheerleader and along with her I did as well ( i'm all for gay rights btw but I felt like if I didn't poke fun I wouldn't of got anywhere). Anyways I asked her if she would still be my friend if I were that flamboyant. She said you're already gay! I laughed pretty hard and stared her straight into her eyes and told her " let me prove you wrong". Boom, next thing you know we are making out like we were madly in love. Then about 5 minutes later I was at the point I wanted to be for all of my teen years. I was on top of her with no clothes on with ner legs spread wide open in front of me. The rest is history guys. I came out of her room with a new sense of confidence. A NEW me almost. I was so full of adrenaline that my legs were shaking so bad. As a 21 year old male I lost my virginity last night. Something I've been trying to do since the age of 16. I've never felt so accomplished and disappointed in myself at the same time. All this time I had put it on a pedestal .... ALL THIS ******G TIME
What a great way year to start the year though. HERE'S TO 2014 ! THE YEAR OF THE YAMBS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
) and ended up not getting laid. I felt so unmanly at the time. During this time period girls came and went . Some I got really close to some not some much. Either way I was the laughing stock of my group for being a virgin.
Quite depressing honestly. The sadder part was no matter what I did or how I did it I just couldn't get laid. I always found a way to " **** " out. I'm not sure why but looking back I think I was scared of sex. I was scared of not being good, not being big enough, not pleasing her. and the list goes on.It was so bad that I also once had a hot blond chick ask me if I wanted to sleep in her bed for the night. I was to the point where I couldn't drive because I was heavily intoxicated but all that night she was being really flirty with. Some how , some way I ended up saying no
. I posted about this is TAN NOV'DEC of 2012 if Ya'll want the full story. Well everything changed last night fellas. There's this girl I had been talking to off of POF and I randomly asked her if she wanted to chill since none of my "friends" had hmu last night
. Super cute white chick and thick af to. Anyways we go to the movies and come back. On the way to her home she mentions that her grandma is asleep. I grew some balls then proceeded to ask her if she had any good movie and that since it was getting cold we could cuddle up and watch movies. She agreed and on the rest of the ride I felt so ALPHA. We ended up watching some corny comedy from the 00's and midway things we started getting closer and closer. In the movie she was making fun of the gay dude who played a cheerleader and along with her I did as well
( i'm all for gay rights btw but I felt like if I didn't poke fun I wouldn't of got anywhere). Anyways I asked her if she would still be my friend if I were that flamboyant. She said you're already gay! I laughed pretty hard and stared her straight into her eyes and told her " let me prove you wrong". Boom, next thing you know we are making out like we were madly in love. Then about 5 minutes later I was at the point I wanted to be for all of my teen years. I was on top of her with no clothes on with ner legs spread wide open in front of me. The rest is history guys. I came out of her room with a new sense of confidence. A NEW me almost. I was so full of adrenaline that my legs were shaking so bad. As a 21 year old male I lost my virginity last night. Something I've been trying to do since the age of 16. I've never felt so accomplished and disappointed in myself at the same time. All this time I had put it on a pedestal .... ALL THIS ******G TIME What a great way year to start the year though. HERE'S TO 2014 ! THE YEAR OF THE YAMBS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Congrats bro, don't but the p on a pedastal. Broads are handing it out like candy. That first dip in the P is life changing, now that you got the monkey off of your back KILL EVERYTHING
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During this time period girls came and went . Some I got really close to some not some much. Either way I was the laughing stock of my group for being a virgin.
I grew some balls then proceeded to ask her if she had any good movie and that since it was getting cold we could cuddle up and watch movies. She agreed and on the rest of the ride I felt so ALPHA.
What a great way year to start the year though. HERE'S TO 2014 ! THE YEAR OF THE YAMBS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Congratulations brother, your story is very similar to mine. but once you dive in that one time the confidence that shoots out (no pun intended) is extravagant.
You played everything right except going a long with the making fun of a person thing just to fit in. (stick to what you believe in and stay strong in that)
Be strong this year Brotha, be assertive. be confident. realize at the end of the day it wont make or break you to try. worst case is a chick says no.
Surge, it isn't that easy to un friendzone yourself but Kudos for trying and being truthful.
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epic story, famb.Guys, four years and half years ago I had a girl (we were really good friends) get in my truck asking me if I had any condoms for the night. We were on the way to homecoming and she wanted to make sure we were "safe" afterwards. We ended up not having sex.Over the course of these four and a half years we hanged out, made out, and she even let me finger and eat her out. It was nice. and TWO years ago on the ride home from a Mexican club she had asked me if I were DTF. Somehow , someway I lost (word to the Cowboys
During this time period girls came and went . Some I got really close to some not some much. Either way I was the laughing stock of my group for being a virgin.
It was so bad that I also once had a hot blond chick ask me if I wanted to sleep in her bed for the night. I was to the point where I couldn't drive because I was heavily intoxicated but all that night she was being really flirty with. Some how , some way I ended up saying no
Well everything changed last night fellas. There's this girl I had been talking to off of POF and I randomly asked her if she wanted to chill since none of my "friends" had hmu last night
We ended up watching some corny comedy from the 00's and midway things we started getting closer and closer. In the movie she was making fun of the gay dude who played a cheerleader and along with her I did as well
What a great way year to start the year though. HERE'S TO 2014 ! THE YEAR OF THE YAMBS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now... You have to understand that PORN is NOT how you have sex...
Let me save you years of uncomfortable sex:
Its not about how deep or how hard you bang her... Its about the rhythm of your body, your ability to respond to hers, and your extracurriculars (talking grabbing slapping)
Your welcome.
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Fontaine speak the truth. Learn to please the woman your with by figuring out her body. She will reciprocate. You will rep my wise words.
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