If that's really your boy, you need to tell him to turn down on that type of ****.
I know a guy who lost his life and another doing a bid over a situation exactly like that.
Even when I've been on the side of smashing a chick with a man unknowingly I've never threw it in dudes face when they found out, that's not some grown man ****. ****** will kill you over that () even a soft dude who's too in his emotions, don't ever think **** is that sweet. The human ego is far more fragile and powerful than we often give it credit for.
I've gotten my life threatened over ******* twice when I was younger and I do my damnedest to make sure it never happens again.