TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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youngdoc said:
Mugen there are always exceptions to the rule

And even as one who has had no problem pulling girls of any race I understand there are non black girls who are closed-minded to us.

Your chick is SE Asian right?
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Man I leave to take a break from the rustling and someone snitched again on my mans', the **** is going on in here...
Now it's just getting frustrating, even when we disagreed in here we all came back and dapped each other up and kept the good convo of losses and wins and advice going..smh
Youngdoc I feel you but I have dated every asian chick imaginable( plus my girl is half Caucasian/half Filipino/Chinese), so yeah I know the bias some girls of different races have towards black men, but that never stopped me for going for it. Stigmas and mythos trap so many people in this life. I am a ******g mailman dating a chick who is caking six figures a year working for BP. Going back to school to finish my masters in Business Administration. I am stable(only gross 55,00 a year) but I have tons more to offer then just my wallet. That's where ****** get the game ****** up. I have been broke, pulled Japanese,Korean,Chinese chicks( which are hella materialistic), but I offered more then just your standard "baller".
All I am saying at the end of my Yeezus rant is that, put the bs excuses to the side and just live. I totally agree that there are people and families with certain mentalities( keyword mentality) about black men and our culture, especially being a big *** black ***** like myself, I have heard all types of ish but I kept it pushing, smashing their daughters into oblivion and sent them home crying to their racist *** parents and gave no dambs. But I have been fortunate to meet parents and girls on the whole different spectrum..
I stop wasting my time worrying about approval because I am black and other nonsense I can't control and just do for my family and my girl, that's all I can do. Just tired of the excuses people create for not trying to be "Great", especially with women because at the end of the day we are all looking for love or companionship and for every lame chick that lives by those codes their is an Asian,Latina,Caucasian,Black,Middle East/East Asian, girl down to ride...
CHURRCH...
Not angry at you Youngdoc just tired of the OG'S and my favorite thread getting snitched on for absolutely nothing but we have Female Appreciation threads that are far worst and detrimental to NT(hell I have even contributed to those threads out of sheer boredom waiting for wifey to come home and have decided to stop posting in them because of the hypocrisy this thread is facing)
 
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I respect your thoughts and I agree

I just think for those in less progressive places whose limited interactions may have been filled with racism it's easy to get discouraged

BTW 55 is above average and more than I make
 
Longtime lurker I come to this thread for the stories and advice found out the last thread being locked I ran into this one and caught up only to see people dry snitching slowing the thread....

Especially on the og members who keep the thread going cause for the most part new poster post stupid s*** and I find EWD stories entertaining as hell not so much for the sexual part the way he puts it is mad funny :lol:
 
youngdoc said:
I respect your thoughts and I agree

I just think for those in less progressive places whose limited interactions may have been filled with racism it's easy to get discouraged

BTW 55 is above average and more than I make
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Touché...
But I was hanging with my homeboy today and he is so hung up on him being Asian and all the bs associated with him that I was consistently trying to throw alleys to him at the bar and he would start on that tangent about paper and race. All I could do is smh, because there are too many Grimey dudes( of all colors)out here getting quality chicks...
You can't complain about the game if you stay sleeping on the sideline, you just have to try, that's all I or anybody can live by.
We all are going to die, what's there to fear..
 
I feel that.

One should never let anything (except a ring I guess :lol:) stop them from getting at a chick they want
 
Trill **** though my dudes how long did it take for y'all to get over a chick you thought for certain was it in your adult life? It's been over a year and I still do **** like wonder if she's ok. It no longer affects how I approach everyday life, but her memory just lingers like tinnitus.
 
^^This summer when I went home to SF....
Seeing somebody in person and how bad she fell off in the look department( I know that's shallow as hell,lol) and just that feeling of relief knowing you found better...
Also there was a moment when I was at my weakest this year and my girl dropped everything at work to come home and comfort me and told me" We will get through this, im not leaving you", I knew my ex was a chapter I am glad is closed..
Took six years but I learned ALOT about myself.
Edit: I see you Youngdoc about that "ring" comment,lol
No Subliminals, lol
 
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Six years my *****? Damn I'm screwed. I saw the first chick I felt like that with on the Facebook and she was happily married and I didnt feel a thing. But that was from my teens and I don't remember the mourning period if there was any (she cheated). Matter of fact all the ones that meant something are all in long term or married now and I'm cool. This one just feels like its gonna linger for a bit.
 
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Mark Antony said:
Trill **** though my dudes how long did it take for y'all to get over a chick you thought for certain was it in your adult life? It's been over a year and I still do **** like wonder if she's ok. It no longer affects how I approach everyday life, but her memory just lingers like tinnitus.
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took me about 2 years to get my confidence back up with one. especially the way it went down.
 
I guess that makes the bae/play decision a little easier. Play it is, no sense locking someone down and be thinking about someone else.
 
It took six years because she was supposed to be "the one"....
All my other relationships took maybe 3 months to gain my swag back...
Looking back I have only been in love twice, all the other chicks have kids and ish and give zero dambs about them, lol..
I was a complete beast after my V-Card, so I think my ex was karma( or whatever people want to call it) for the dirt I was doing in them streets. Plus my mom was going through her illness, so it was just ish piled on each other, that's why it took so long. Now if this relationship fails, I will be on the big homie EWD steeze...
If you reading this bro, let us know that you didnt get banned...
 
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Trill **** though my dudes how long did it take for y'all to get over a chick you thought for certain was it in your adult life? It's been over a year and I still do **** like wonder if she's ok. It no longer affects how I approach everyday life, but her memory just lingers like tinnitus.
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Bro I been in two real relationships, the one before the one I'm in now still tugs sometimes. Not even in a romantic way but in a I lost a friend that understood me 100%, and could talk about anything way. It sucks when you get involved with a friend because when you break up it's like losing two people. I don't think that memory goes away it just sits in the back of your head sometimes.
 
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Mark Antony said:
Trill **** though my dudes how long did it take for y'all to get over a chick you thought for certain was it in your adult life? It's been over a year and I still do **** like wonder if she's ok. It no longer affects how I approach everyday life, but her memory just lingers like tinnitus.
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Bro I been in two real relationships, the one before the one I'm in now still tugs sometimes. Not even in a romantic way but in a I lost a friend that understood me 100%, and could talk about anything way. It sucks when you get involved with a friend because when you break up it's like losing two people. I don't think that memory goes away it just sits in the back of your head sometimes.
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I think that's the part that stings, losing a friend that knew you so well.
 
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Mark Antony said:
Trill **** though my dudes how long did it take for y'all to get over a chick you thought for certain was it in your adult life? It's been over a year and I still do **** like wonder if she's ok. It no longer affects how I approach everyday life, but her memory just lingers like tinnitus.
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Bro I been in two real relationships, the one before the one I'm in now still tugs sometimes. Not even in a romantic way but in a I lost a friend that understood me 100%, and could talk about anything way. It sucks when you get involved with a friend because when you break up it's like losing two people. I don't think that memory goes away it just sits in the back of your head sometimes.
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I'm still friends with the only friend I've dated
 
How do you dudes stay friends with an ex???
I think anybody that achieves that is straight GOAT and gets all my praise.
Tried with my last but I kept begging for her to take me back...smh
I love the hell out of this one but I told her if we part, I can't do it. Can't stand to see her with another dude... Just not about that life..
 
mugen81 said:
How do you dudes stay friends with an ex???
I think anybody that achieves that is straight GOAT and gets all my praise.
Tried with my last but I kept begging for her to take me back...smh
I love the hell out of this one but I told her if we part, I can't do it. Can't stand to see her with another dude... Just not about that life..
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Weren't in love

Were friends before

Didn't date that long

She's mad cool. Puts me on her lawyer friends
 
I didn't even think dude's post was that graphic. I mean the dutty words are bleeped out and it was all words no pics.

Same stuff they play on the radio frfr
 
I tried to be friends with my EX but the feels were just too much..

Im friends with an ex from middle school. but nothing in my adult life.
 
Took me a year to get over this last one. Im just now really getting back into the game like how I want to....maybe sometime last semester is when I was feeling like my old self. You know building my confidents up.

I did date/smash one of my good friends for a while but everything went south. She was feeling me more than I was at the time while telling others i was her man.(you know that possessive type deal to let the other chicks know whats up) Well she left for Cali and we never really talk expect on hoildays out of love or when she is around our mutual friend. 

Spring semester starts tomorrow so ready to see what campus has in store for me. No dambs giving once I step foot on campus.

 
It's funny how some of you think meth and the mods don't read threads. He does still look at threads and even participates. He closed the other TAY so of course he is going to pay attention.

No one is reporting, the mods want yambs too. :lol:
 
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