TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

lamekilla said:

I'm with a friend at Clark Atlanta's campus as we speak. The chicks on this campus are

and they're all lonely cause half the dudes out here are gay

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Yep that ATL life mean more opportunity for you son

Suberzat1 said:

Yep that ATL life mean more opportunity for you son

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Oh yeah. College yambs are so ready for whatever it's ridiculous.

glad to see some more success stories on this page


easiest way to get on the bad side of a soror chick is to start messing with one of her line sisters Or at least let her think you are.....

TMSO said:

Man I have a nutcase on my hands, fellas and GB&PM...

Shorty is a Delta, notorious for being crazy from my past experiences.

Anyhow, I'm getting tired of her being super clingy and demanding of my time and D. Like she isn't all that great in bed and wants to bone err night, and I can't get with that (word to a young Shawn Carter)

I can't even believe I'm complaining over this right now! Smh

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Lemme get that assist bro. I'd bone her and I'd tame that clingy be.

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Don Adidada said:

Protip: A lot of times its because the female you're talking to has in someway signaled her friend to come over.  I first saw this on tumblr then confirmed it with some female friends.  Sometimes they say a certain phrase, motion their body a certain way, do a certain action.  It's something subtle that doesn't seem out of the norm so we don't notice.

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Crazy thing is tho, ol girl came and sat by me, w/o me asking her to or anything, leaving her friend a few feet away at another table. Comin off extra hard, laughing at whatever I said, flirting was obvious, but I was kinda like whatever / nonchalant

Matter of fact, her friend said something to get her attention and go over to her, which she did, but came right back to me after her friend said what she needed to say. Same energy and everything on the return too.

What's that about? Friend jelly?

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At that point I'd say yea.  Even female friends (depending on how caddy/petty they are) can't stand to see another woman getting attention when they aren't.

Some dudes even be like this too   

there is this chick that works the front desk at the gym with the most glorious mass I've ever seen....gotta be at least 45" circumference on that thang. and it sits high so I ride upset . tiny waist, thick, strong legs, brown skin pretty face nice hair and some baby B cups....a straight dime imo. I spoke to her a few times before, introed myself and found out her age, work and kids situation (26 2 jobs no kids) and told her we might as well be friends.

fast forward to this morning I say what's up to her as I'm leaving. I wasn't planning on talking to her but she was kinda giving me that come talk to me vibe. anyway I ended up leaving and coming right back . one thing I learned is that it's a good thing to have some kind of excuse for talking to girls at work and to keep it brief. it looks lame when you are there just to flirt and she's there with **** to do. so as I walk in I see some guy talking to her and I can't hear the convo but it's obvious he's trying to get at her. I walk up to the desk and she comes over. I ask her if anyone turned in an ID. now mind you I know damn well my ID is at home in the bottom left corner of my top drawer but I felt like putting on real quick

anyway she is checking for my id and ol boy is just standing there on the other side kind of twiddling his thumbs (that's what I mean about having an excuse). she seems like she is really going all out looking for it so I take that as a good sign. when she says she can't find it I ask her if there is a number. she kinda hesitates for a moment and goes "...for here? to call?" I go yea and she says she'll write it down for me.

she writes it down and hands it to me....it was time to make my move . I try to make it seem as spontaneous as possible (swear you gotta treat this game like hoopin sometimes ) so I start walking away with my eyes on the paper. at the last second I go "you might as well put your number on there too". she kinda makes this face like did this dude really just did this? also the guy has still been standing there this whole time . and she says ..what? so this time I say it loud and clear and it almost felt like I was yelling . it seemed like everybody in the gym walked by right when I started to say it she seems caught off guard by how bold I was but I can tell she got a kick out of it. she playfully goes "uh uh!" with a smile and I could hear her giggling and talking to herself as I was walking out.

I didn't get her number but I know from experience a chick will rarely give you her number in front of a gang of people especially if she's at work. knowing that in advance, I also know that if she liked me before she would really be feeling me for having the nuts to get rejected in front of everybody . now the next time I see her we will have an inside joke between us and I'm just gonna vibe off that and see if I can't bag her on the rebound. this is like that play where t-mac throws it off the glass to himself. it looks like a missed shot but I'm just tryna set myself up for the monster jam

we'll see what happens

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maaaaaaan you should've left with just the desk number Still relatively well played.

thanks gatorbeltsnpattiemelts I was thinking the same thing on the way home . what do you think tho? if you were in that situation and a guy did that how would you feel?

leemelone said:

thanks gatorbeltsnpattiemelts I was thinking the same thing on the way home . what do you think tho? if you were in that situation and a guy did that how would you feel?

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*shrugs*

depends on how good they look.... and like you said, she probably gets hit on umpteenth times a day. She giggled or whatever so that's a good sign; she didn't roll her eyes or disrespect you real hard. I personally still think you got a fair shot but just get her when she is ALONE You was wild for yelling it out tho. What gym is this btw

I mean I wasn't really standing there yelling at the top of my lungs I was just very clear and kinda trying to make a point that I didn't care who heard me. it's at the 24 hr fitness right around the corner from me. next time I'll catch her when she's solo and try to be more discreet

also could have wrote your number down and said something along the lines of call me if anything shows up but your approach was forward and straight to the point. If she was feeling you before she will respect that

I have something like a 0% success rate when I give my number out . one time I gave it to this chick in college who was all on my nuts and I bs you not she hit me up a whole year later and it ended up going nowhere. plus I like to be the one making everything happen, doesn't feel right when I give up the digits

Today was the 2nd day back on campus so I had to check out my new classes. I walk into the hall and sit across from this cute Asian girl & almost immediately she started talking to me, asking if I had the same class(we do) & we talked about that. I'm like "I found my study buddy" & she laughed then I gave her my phone and we exchanged numbers. We walked into class and I started to pick a seat like in the back but for some reason, I decided to stick with her & sat next to her up front.

Throughout the lecture, we'd make eye contact, smile, talk or comment on something.

After class I walked with her a little & she said she'd text me, we go our separate ways & sure enough, she did text me. I replied but she didn't text back (yet?)

Long story short: any tips for trying to acquire an Asian chick? I mean obviously she grabbed my interest but I hope I'm not over thinking anything ALREADY. I'm wondering what the next move should be, etc.

Any advice guys?

no difference with her being asian, just keep being yourself bro.
You seem to have done fine as is.
stuff will start to come together once homework gets rolling and the study buddy stuff really starts coming about

Lol her being asian doesn't matter at all my man.

Speaking of front desks and Asians i'm actually digging the asian chick at the front desk at my gym. I go often though so i'll pass for now, just keep vibing with her. I will go for that asian milf with the huge fake rack that'll be running sideways on the treadmill though. She looks right.

Thanks fellas, every small victory is like a sports game upset with me I just don't wanna blow the potential!

Man y'all gotta stop acting like asian girls are some mystical creature from a Pokemon episode, lol..
That sounds like a slam dunk to me just give her time to text back, I don't see how you could mess up your potential with her unless you become a bug-a-boo and no girl likes that. Just lay in the cut and act accordingly. I know you got this my dude, just relax and even if you lose, learn from it and proceed on to the next.

Hello TAY

I got the ill curve from this girl from last semester (HS Senior). I was cool with her on a friedly level (really cool but I was with someone at the time) She hit me up randomly the other day and during our convo I told her I missed her ( trying to put my bid in, I guess). NO response and changed subject. Maybe I sounded needy or to forward or something. Whatever the case is I can move on.

Thing is I have a class with her next week now and wondering if I should play it cool like so far and keep it friendly or keep it cool and attempt to bag ( because I know shes gonna be really receptive to me again)

RedBox said:

Hello TAY

I got the ill curve from this girl from last semester (HS Senior). I was cool with her on a friedly level (really cool but I was with someone at the time) She hit me up randomly the other day and during our convo I told her I missed her ( trying to put my bid in, I guess). NO response and changed subject. Maybe I sounded needy or to forward or something. Whatever the case is I can move on.

Thing is I have a class with her next week now and wondering if I should play it cool like so far and keep it friendly or keep it cool and attempt to bag ( because I know shes gonna be really receptive to me again)

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Invite her to something upcoming. Like a party of some sort.

RedBox said:

Hello TAY

I got the ill curve from this girl from last semester (HS Senior). I was cool with her on a friedly level (really cool but I was with someone at the time) She hit me up randomly the other day and during our convo I told her I missed her ( trying to put my bid in, I guess). NO response and changed subject. Maybe I sounded needy or to forward or something. Whatever the case is I can move on.

Thing is I have a class with her next week now and wondering if I should play it cool like so far and keep it friendly or keep it cool and attempt to bag ( because I know shes gonna be really receptive to me again)

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Act like you don't know her when you see her. Like speak, but be real stiff

mugen81 said:

Man y'all gotta stop acting like asian girls are some mystical creature from a Pokemon episode, lol..
That sounds like a slam dunk to me just give her time to text back, I don't see how you could mess up your potential with her unless you become a bug-a-boo and no girl likes that. Just lay in the cut and act accordingly. I know you got this my dude, just relax and even if you lose, learn from it and proceed on to the next.

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Thanks famb. My problem is that I over think ish a LOT. I'm over here like "she said thank you, do I reply back with you're welcome or do I just not reply until she does?" Crazy.....I'm also wondering what's a way to get a selfie of her for contact pic purposes.

Oh and to anyone who has an iPhone.....when she added her number, she put that cat face emoji with the hearts for eyes next to her name...does that mean anything or am I bugging? I did the same too, but I used the regular 1.

I just have to vent right now and keep it 100 with y'all.

I'm here at Howard, second semester, and I'm horny as **** with no one I can just call up and say come thru. I mean I have prospects, but either they sometimes don't text me back, or they claim they're always busy. This one darkskin girl I REALLY want to go after, but she a thot. We both have Calculus together, so there's a good starting point. However, I'll admit my texting game isn't all that good (or maybe I just overthink too much), and I'd like to text her a few times before I get to fthe point where I tell her, "come thru for a study session." Any tips on that front?

Also, there are SO MANY girls here, but due to my major (engineering,   career-prospects wise, but in terms of the females ) I'm unable to see most of the attractive ones. The only time I really see girls is either out on the yard or in the cafe. I mean, I'm starting to do a lil bit of small talk with a few of them, but I'm trying to learn how to seal the deal. I swear once I break thru, I'm never coming back. 

SurgeV1 said:

Thanks famb. My problem is that I over think ish a LOT. I'm over here like "she said thank you, do I reply back with you're welcome or do I just not reply until she does?" Crazy.....I'm also wondering what's a way to get a selfie of her for contact pic purposes.

Oh and to anyone who has an iPhone.....when she added her number, she put that cat face emoji with the hearts for eyes next to her name...does that mean anything or am I bugging? I did the same too, but I used the regular 1.

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Yeah you definately remind me of myself, lol...
Don't over analyze/ over think things my man.
Just go with the flow, girls generally leave cute emojis no matter who it is..
As for the "selfie", just get her comfortable and relax, maybe catch her after class while you guys are walking and compliment her on her smile and be like:
"You have a really special smile, is there anyway I can get a pic so when you call I can IMMEDIATELY pick up,lol"...
You know something cheesy like that and I am pretty sure she will oblige...
Over thinking is one of my flaws I am working on, but I am learning to just chill and if a situation is truly bugging me I just straight up address. But just relax like I said and lay in the cut but don't be tooooo nonchalant, you have to find the balance of chill and aggressive, especially if she is throwing alleys like you described...

been talkin to this chick. i asked her out. and shes tells me u gotta plan out a whole day with me. never spent a whole day with a chick thats new to me.

is an amusement park a good whole day thing to do?