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That's my sis birthday. I might stay put though, keep that in motion anyways.
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So I got invited to a wedding...I'm the driver of the limo taking the bride n groom to the wedding...all this just so I can meet the wife's daughter lol.....I'm trying to do as much homework as possible on her...hopefully we can vibe right...not gonna front I'm kinda nervous
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Don't mess up like last time to
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Man I'm definitely gonna try my hardest to be on my A game
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Get on ur D game fam
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That chick finally texted me last night. Like I said I had only talked to her at length when I initially hit her up and we caught up and reminisced. Then I let her know I was going to NYC a few weeks ago and she didn't say anything but hit me up at 11 PM that Saturday (didn't end up going to NYC cuz I got sick). So I let her know for sure Monday I was comin this weekend and she didn't respond. Last night I invited her to my friends bday party Friday and she asked, "this Friday?" So I know she's still interested now. Hopefully she doesn't have a conflict of interest. I wanted to lay it down nice Friday and get some seconds on Saturday. View media item 1114257
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Thierry Henry
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Serious question. How long does it take before you're no longer considered a rebound for a woman coming out a relationship?
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When she tries to develop an emotional attachment.
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Not necessarily true. Tough call really.
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It's hard to gauge the timing of a rebound relationship.
A woman can instantly gravitate towards you because of the high you can make her feel because everything is brand new and exciting.
Generally speaking those feelings will die down between the 6-8 month mark. The reason I say this is because, that rush dies down and once you guys settle into a routine or have familiarity with each other, thoughts of her ex start to creep in. Also want to point out that if she incessantly speaks or compares you to her ex from jump, be wiry, you are just a replacement until the inevitably snake in her crew alerts you to said ex and dude comes back with the "Ill do better, I've changed" bit.
The best thing to do is chill with these type of relationships and not put your heart into it. Have casual dates or casual sex but don't get attach or put your heart into it because you will get crushed in the future. Seen too many dudes put that cape on and get blindsided(I was a one) and turn cold or bitter because they wasted life force on trying to be different and showing good guys exist. If you truly are trying to pursue her and think she is worth it, as much as I'm against men/women friendships[emoji]128516[/emoji]
Try that first, build a foundation and let the cosmos take its course. But don't speed into things, have fun, enjoy her company, smash, but don't put your heart into it.
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A woman can instantly gravitate towards you because of the high you can make her feel because everything is brand new and exciting.
Generally speaking those feelings will die down between the 6-8 month mark. The reason I say this is because, that rush dies down and once you guys settle into a routine or have familiarity with each other, thoughts of her ex start to creep in. Also want to point out that if she incessantly speaks or compares you to her ex from jump, be wiry, you are just a replacement until the inevitably snake in her crew alerts you to said ex and dude comes back with the "Ill do better, I've changed" bit.
The best thing to do is chill with these type of relationships and not put your heart into it. Have casual dates or casual sex but don't get attach or put your heart into it because you will get crushed in the future. Seen too many dudes put that cape on and get blindsided(I was a one) and turn cold or bitter because they wasted life force on trying to be different and showing good guys exist. If you truly are trying to pursue her and think she is worth it, as much as I'm against men/women friendships[emoji]128516[/emoji]
Try that first, build a foundation and let the cosmos take its course. But don't speed into things, have fun, enjoy her company, smash, but don't put your heart into it.
Don't Save Her, She Don't Want To Be Saved[emoji]9996[/emoji]️
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So tinderella and I were talking the other day and she says this comment to me. "I'm tired of some guys these days. I amm no longer looking for a boy or a man, I'm looking for a champion."
She legit lit a fire under me. I was like damn.... I feel the same way (for opposite sex) (she said it to me in a way like. im glad we're hanging out because you're different from what I'm use to)
But yo, chick got me feeling like ima drop the ratchets in my roster and only keep around true potentials now.
(Yes i'm guilty of some of my bench being some bust downs)
Also Ironic I was talking to my two bust downs yesterday. and just some of the stuff they were saying had me cringe..
Girl A: is blindly confident in her hoeing capabilities. and believes all men want her. and you can't tell her any different. She tells me. I've ben well behaved and most guys would have been trying to smash all the time..
I told her I'm not thirsty enough to call you to F**** when I want to..
(Lol she took a bit of offense to that)
Girl B: wants me to simp for her and i'm just like chill IDFWU. (I talked about her to yall being comfortable in her side chick role) ..
Being 29 years old I dont want that any more.....I'm back in America now. time to start planting roots setting up my franchise... not trying to make a small Developmental league team. I want that NBA Starting 5.
She legit lit a fire under me. I was like damn.... I feel the same way (for opposite sex) (she said it to me in a way like. im glad we're hanging out because you're different from what I'm use to)
But yo, chick got me feeling like ima drop the ratchets in my roster and only keep around true potentials now.
(Yes i'm guilty of some of my bench being some bust downs)
Also Ironic I was talking to my two bust downs yesterday. and just some of the stuff they were saying had me cringe..
Girl A: is blindly confident in her hoeing capabilities. and believes all men want her. and you can't tell her any different. She tells me. I've ben well behaved and most guys would have been trying to smash all the time..
I told her I'm not thirsty enough to call you to F**** when I want to..
(Lol she took a bit of offense to that)
Girl B: wants me to simp for her and i'm just like chill IDFWU. (I talked about her to yall being comfortable in her side chick role) ..
Being 29 years old I dont want that any more.....I'm back in America now. time to start planting roots setting up my franchise... not trying to make a small Developmental league team. I want that NBA Starting 5.
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29? get married and have kids fam
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I've been overseas since 2010 traveling and working
I also battle with myself if I even want kids...
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To my man @Tdogg2k it was fun while it last or before it really got off but since you and tinderalla are thinking hard on things. I will run these street this summer by myself. Rooftop bars, pool parties and day parties. Guess more yambs for me
Na im just playing son. Lets get out there and these rosters looking nice. We need to figure out another date in May.
Na im just playing son. Lets get out there and these rosters looking nice. We need to figure out another date in May.
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To my man @Tdogg2k
it was fun while it last or before it really got off but since you and tinderalla are thinking hard on things. I will run these street this summer by myself. Rooftop bars, pool parties and day parties. Guess more yambs for me
Na im just playing son. Lets get out there and these rosters looking nice. We need to figure out another date in May.
lol naw naw naw,,
I'm outchea man.. we rolling in may.. I get paid the 12th so the weekend 16th... should be good
im going to a body building show Saturday... the chicks there be
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Yea thats work for me. Lets get it
Thierry Henry
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I haven't put my heart into any woman in like 4 years. Experience has taught me to tread real careful, I don't wanna go thru that again.
This is the Dominican chick from New York that I was telling y'all about. I don't know if she still has a man or not, I have not asked. We have been spending some time together at work since I'm training her this week.
This is the Dominican chick from New York that I was telling y'all about. I don't know if she still has a man or not, I have not asked. We have been spending some time together at work since I'm training her this week.
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Last few attempts havent been A1. Was told my demeanor is ice cold. Can someonr explain this in english
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Marriage/Monogamy is not the end to be all.
It's not just something to do. Nobody wants to be in this life or do things by themselves all the time but people place too many conditions on love. If somebody told me they are looking for a "champion" I would have politely laughed in their face and chunked deuce. That tells me everything I need to know about their mindsets. People place all their hopes and expectations on others to provide them with happiness and fulfillment they seek. In essence everything you seek starts from within. The things you should look for in a partner are:
Loyalty
Compassion
Honesty
Communication
Freedom of Expression
When people say statements like that, nothing good comes out of it because they are placing expectations on you that you will never obtain. It's all conditioning and programming. People say they want a Real love. I'm going to be candid, most mofos are talking out their necks and run at the first sight of Real love.
Love is not a fairytale nor is marriage. If two people don't know themselves or haven't built a foundation, then you are just playing house until it crumbles. Marriage is hard my dudes. You have to be selfless, understanding, nurturing but above all else honest. We all are flawed and make mistakes, the thing is people go in with blinders not knowing what true, unconditional love is.
I have learn so much just this year being married. Real love is bittersweet. It's a burden because you have a responsibility and a duty to a person that can leave you in a instant but it's rewarding in the fact that when both parties know not only themselves but the intentions of growing and learning each day, it's short of complete utopia.
What people fail to realize is just be open and love everyday. Smile, treat people with kindness, have humility, show responsibility, engage in history and backgrounds. Love is all around you but people are too busy running the rat race and living in Disney movies on what constitutes as Real Love.
I didn't know Real love until I saw my daughter being born. I cant describe it but it's a feeling of knowing you have to be there. Knowing even when it gets ugly, you are going to have to fight and can't run.
It's nothing wrong with wanting to settle down(Big Homie I know it's been on your heart for awhile, even though I never met you in person, I truly want you to flourish) but if you haven't dealt with pass demons or even committed to yourself on loving you, don't rush a relationship and don't let anybody put expectations on you.
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Skip past if not interested in reading[emoji]128516[/emoji]*
Marriage/Monogamy is not the end to be all.
It's not just something to do. Nobody wants to be in this life or do things by themselves all the time but people place too many conditions on love. If somebody told me they are looking for a "champion" I would have politely laughed in their face and chunked deuce. That tells me everything I need to know about their mindsets. People place all their hopes and expectations on others to provide them with happiness and fulfillment they seek. In essence everything you seek starts from within. The things you should look for in a partner are:
Loyalty
Compassion
Honesty
Communication
Freedom of Expression
When people say statements like that, nothing good comes out of it because they are placing expectations on you that you will never obtain. It's all conditioning and programming. People say they want a Real love. I'm going to be candid, most mofos are talking out their necks and run at the first sight of Real love.
Love is not a fairytale nor is marriage. If two people don't know themselves or haven't built a foundation, then you are just playing house until it crumbles. Marriage is hard my dudes. You have to be selfless, understanding, nurturing but above all else honest. We all are flawed and make mistakes, the thing is people go in with blinders not knowing what true, unconditional love is.
I have learn so much just this year being married. Real love is bittersweet. It's a burden because you have a responsibility and a duty to a person that can leave you in a instant but it's rewarding in the fact that when both parties know not only themselves but the intentions of growing and learning each day, it's short of complete utopia.
What people fail to realize is just be open and love everyday. Smile, treat people with kindness, have humility, show responsibility, engage in history and backgrounds. Love is all around you but people are too busy running the rat race and living in Disney movies on what constitutes as Real Love.
I didn't know Real love until I saw my daughter being born. I cant describe it but it's a feeling of knowing you have to be there. Knowing even when it gets ugly, you are going to have to fight and can't run.
It's nothing wrong with wanting to settle down(Big Homie I know it's been on your heart for awhile, even though I never met you in person, I truly want you to flourish) but if you haven't dealt with pass demons or even committed to yourself on loving you, don't rush a relationship and don't let anybody put expectations on you.
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yo you guys ever have a girl who's negative traits rub off on you? Like say she's timid and you start developing timid tendencies and crap...not good for business
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You have to upgrade her, not let her downgrade you.
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I think I'm making myself to available to these chicks. I need some me time
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tell em..
be like look. im turning the phone off going to find your Joshua Tree
be like look. im turning the phone off going to find your Joshua Tree
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Just watched that Mo'Nique interview. She said her husband came to her about her weight and asked her how much she weighed - no one ever asked that before. She responded and he said to her "That's too much. I want you for a lifetime."
I know dude(s) was having a problem with his girl being overweight so maybe something said along those lines will help resonate the message with her. That + some type of incentive of course (like working with her). I don't know, just a thought
I know dude(s) was having a problem with his girl being overweight so maybe something said along those lines will help resonate the message with her. That + some type of incentive of course (like working with her). I don't know, just a thought
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