TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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^Nah hennessy hennessy she actually broke it off with me. But I don't have any hard feelings because I think she did the right thing. She's looking to find the one to settle down with and I don't think I was that person for her. So it would have been a waste of time for her to stay together.
 
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Whether you know it or not, it sounds like you want her for your own selfish inclinations. You say you want her exclusively as a friend but your posts and activity (checking to see if she's seen your snapchat, checking her posts on FB, etc) seem to show otherwise. 

And like dude above said, can't always work how you want it too. 
 
ddh1122 said:
Whether you know it or not, it sounds like you want her for your own selfish inclinations. You say you want her exclusively as a friend but your posts and activity (checking to see if she's seen your snapchat, checking her posts on FB, etc) seem to show otherwise. 

And like dude above said, can't always work how you want it too. 
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Yup.

Doesn't matter how long you've known each other or whatever, what's done is done.


Dude said he's moved on but his actions say otherwise, nobody who's moved on does those things.
 
ddh1122 said:
Whether you know it or not, it sounds like you want her for your own selfish inclinations. You say you want her exclusively as a friend but your posts and activity (checking to see if she's seen your snapchat, checking her posts on FB, etc) seem to show otherwise. 

And like dude above said, can't always work how you want it too. 
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If wanting to have a friendship with somebody you care about who cares about you is selfish then yes I'm being selfish. But if I were completely selfish I would have no regard for how she might feel and would just contact her instead of thinking about how/if I can possibly do it without her getting hurt and coming to you guys for advice.

And I don't ever go on her fb page, her posts just pop up on my feed. And either way I don't think there's any problem in trying to gauge how your ex might feel about you. If I didn't do that I'd have no idea she might be struggling with this after dumping me and maybe would have actually contacted her and in the process possibly hurt her. Because of that info I'm wiser about the situation and know it probably indicates that I should give it more time.
 
DZaster said:
TAY bruhs, how do I play this situation.

Was hanging with this chick over the weekend and we got through like 10 minutes of this movie before she invited me into her bed. I'm fresh out of a long relationship so it took my simple *** a while to pick up on her body language and she was saying how it was lowkey awkward that I was feeling her butt and whatnot but not making any moves, but after about an hour or so I got the top, couldn't nut so I told her I wanted the yambs. Got them, but still to no avail. Had to bang out early because I had an early morning the next day. I still want to keep the yambs on the roster though. Texted her the next day, but I was getting a weird vibe so I just stopped after about three or four texts. Do I need to just play this cool and wait for her move, or hit it up over the next weekend or so, so I can smash again?
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I'll play it cool but make plans for weekend to see where her mind at. Wouldn't overstep anything also
 
Flyeed said:
ddh1122 said:
Whether you know it or not, it sounds like you want her for your own selfish inclinations. You say you want her exclusively as a friend but your posts and activity (checking to see if she's seen your snapchat, checking her posts on FB, etc) seem to show otherwise. 

And like dude above said, can't always work how you want it too. 
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If wanting to have a friendship with somebody you care about who cares about you is selfish then yes I'm being selfish. But if I were completely selfish I would have no regard for how she might feel and would just contact her instead of thinking about how/if I can possibly do it without her getting hurt and coming to you guys for advice.

And I don't ever go on her fb page, her posts just pop up on my feed. And either way I don't think there's any problem in trying to gauge how your ex might feel about you. If I didn't do that I'd have no idea she might be struggling with this after dumping me and maybe would have actually contacted her and in the process possibly hurt her. Because of that info I'm wiser about the situation and know it probably indicates that I should give it more time.
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My man there's such a thing as letting go with love. Being up in somebody's face that doesn't want you there at the moment is selfish. It's not your job to care anymore, and she probably doesn't want it. You're just in that phase where you're afraid she'll forget about you. All i'm saying is when things blow over, and calmer heads prevail things will work themselves out.

I've been where you are, over and over, fooling myself that I was good with just being friends. Nah. But do what you feel man, only when you come out of it will you realize the time you wasted doing this ********.
 
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Yep so like I said me n suber crushed this weekend :pimp:

Since no one else could make the mini summit Friday it was me, him and the cute girl he brought with him. She was mad chill and it's true he likes the tall ones lol. Bar hopped for a bit then we grabbed some nice beers and all went back to my place to chill by the fire pit, which ran out of gas, but suber had already sealed the deal by that point and went home with his girl. I'm counting my 3rd wheel/wing manning as an assist for the team.

I was trying to get this tinder chick to meet us but it was only her 3rd day in DC so she passed. Went to hookah bar and then another bar with Saturday night. Made out when I dropped her off and she bit my lip told me she was gonna choke me next time she saw me. Chick is just my speed. Our texts have been great and I plan to seal the deal and bring her home wed night.

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I never lie about the love I have for the tall chicks

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But shot out to my main man for the oop. We need to get a official mini summit so we all can head out. Or me and Hennessy can hit the bars again. Start off with a shot then let everything else flow
 
sup tay fam, long time reader, first time poster over here.

long story short, i wanna smash one of my female friends who just got out a relationship a few months ago. but i only want to approach it as a FWB type stuff but i'm not sure how i can initiate it without potentially making the friendship awkward. i think she hinted at me that she likes me but wasn't sure if i like her, too. well i don't and just want to smash :rofl:

i was thinking about just approaching it while we drunk and try to get her to back to the spot and watch netflixs and make my move. have any of you guys ever tried to pull a similar move.
 
friscostylez said:
sup tay fam, long time reader, first time poster over here.

long story short, i wanna smash one of my female friends who just got out a relationship a few months ago. but i only want to approach it as a FWB type stuff but i'm not sure how i can initiate it without potentially making the friendship awkward. i think she hinted at me that she likes me but wasn't sure if i like her, too. well i don't and just want to smash :rofl:

i was thinking about just approaching it while we drunk and try to get her to back to the spot and watch netflixs and make my move. have any of you guys ever tried to pull a similar move.
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Na fam but you still the truth on my book
 
DZaster said:
TAY bruhs, how do I play this situation.

Was hanging with this chick over the weekend and we got through like 10 minutes of this movie before she invited me into her bed. I'm fresh out of a long relationship so it took my simple *** a while to pick up on her body language and she was saying how it was lowkey awkward that I was feeling her butt and whatnot but not making any moves, but after about an hour or so I got the top, couldn't nut so I told her I wanted the yambs. Got them, but still to no avail. Had to bang out early because I had an early morning the next day. I still want to keep the yambs on the roster though. Texted her the next day, but I was getting a weird vibe so I just stopped after about three or four texts. Do I need to just play this cool and wait for her move, or hit it up over the next weekend or so, so I can smash again?
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Just let her reach out to you, then you set up a date to get together. In the meantime, talk to other chicks
 
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friscostylez said:
sup tay fam, long time reader, first time poster over here.

long story short, i wanna smash one of my female friends who just got out a relationship a few months ago. but i only want to approach it as a FWB type stuff but i'm not sure how i can initiate it without potentially making the friendship awkward. i think she hinted at me that she likes me but wasn't sure if i like her, too. well i don't and just want to smash :rofl:

i was thinking about just approaching it while we drunk and try to get her to back to the spot and watch netflixs and make my move. have any of you guys ever tried to pull a similar move.
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ask her out for drinks and be flirty snd playful. At the end of the night, go for the kiss
 
Suberzat1 said:
DZaster said:
TAY bruhs, how do I play this situation.

Was hanging with this chick over the weekend and we got through like 10 minutes of this movie before she invited me into her bed. I'm fresh out of a long relationship so it took my simple *** a while to pick up on her body language and she was saying how it was lowkey awkward that I was feeling her butt and whatnot but not making any moves, but after about an hour or so I got the top, couldn't nut so I told her I wanted the yambs. Got them, but still to no avail. Had to bang out early because I had an early morning the next day. I still want to keep the yambs on the roster though. Texted her the next day, but I was getting a weird vibe so I just stopped after about three or four texts. Do I need to just play this cool and wait for her move, or hit it up over the next weekend or so, so I can smash again?
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I'll play it cool but make plans for weekend to see where her mind at. Wouldn't overstep anything also
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TimelessFlight said:
DZaster said:
TAY bruhs, how do I play this situation.

Was hanging with this chick over the weekend and we got through like 10 minutes of this movie before she invited me into her bed. I'm fresh out of a long relationship so it took my simple *** a while to pick up on her body language and she was saying how it was lowkey awkward that I was feeling her butt and whatnot but not making any moves, but after about an hour or so I got the top, couldn't nut so I told her I wanted the yambs. Got them, but still to no avail. Had to bang out early because I had an early morning the next day. I still want to keep the yambs on the roster though. Texted her the next day, but I was getting a weird vibe so I just stopped after about three or four texts. Do I need to just play this cool and wait for her move, or hit it up over the next weekend or so, so I can smash again?
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Just let her reach out to you, then you set up a date to get together. In the meantime, talk to other chicks
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Word, I just figured I'd let her hit me up first. Never done the FWB thing before, but she something along the lines of being glad that I smashed before summer got started so it can be a continual thing, which I'm cool with. Thanks though.
 
I will never understand why people will not let things go and live their lives.

Once again if you have no children with this woman, find peace within yourself and move on.

Everybody at one time has love somebody with all their hearts and for some reason things just didnt work out.

You are blocking your growth and development as a man(also as a person) if you try to stay friends with an ex.

Yeah there maybe exceptions to the rules, but those people made a clean break first and let nature/universe/god/Goku/ whomever bring them back naturally.

Rushing right back in as a fried(IE. emergency **** in a glass) will leave you hurt in the long run.

People dont realize all the life they have in front of them and potential better mates for their situations.

People love to hold on to familiarity, safeness, the less harder route. Get out of your comfort zone and just live before its too late and you miss out on the real beauty of life.

Heal yourself first, get your man game up and then if the timing is right, try to become friends, but just know emotions will always play a factor in seeing somebody you truly cared about with somebody else. If you are strong to live in that Pandora's Boxs then press on, but right now get you together brethren.

FWB is tricky but the thing you have to remeber is just play it cool and when you see that person again, just speak the truth.

Dont hide behind games and hat tricks.

Just tell shorty

"Look i just got out of a long term deal and im really not trying to get back into one right now.

I'm just looking for a cuddle buddy from time to time.

Can you handle that?'

And proceed with whatever the plan is. Dont make it more complicated then it needs to be.

This new generation of woman likes sex just as much as we do and dont necessarily want the attachment as well. You could potentially be talking yourself out of situations because you are trying to be too cool. Just hit them with that work, if they are not down to catch plays, trust and believe their are too many women seeking just side D.

Peace
 
I have found peace with the situation though, and if she's with someone else who's a good dude I'd be happy for her.

I think one thing that people might be missing because I haven't spoken about this in a while is that she's currently in film school in Europe and is probably going to live there for the rest of her life. So it's not the usual situation where you start talking again and then seeing one another and hooking up and going through the same circle that leads nowhere and just wastes time. So it wouldn't inhibit me or set me back either. I'm doing my thing in life and with women and I can't see this having any effect on that.

I think M Mark Antony could be part right in her possibly not wanting to talk to me. I'm positive if my intention was to get back with her then she'd want to, but since it's not then I don't know if she would see any reason in speaking to me and attempting to be on different terms than the not-speaking one we're currently on.
 
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Look fam at this point the only thing anybody in here can suggest is follow your own gut and heart.
You are a grown *** man, who has to live with this decision.
At the end of the day it's your life and your experience, but the one thing I am picking up on is you are doing the most trying to explain why it's so necessary to keep in touch with this young lady to strangers.
I have learned(as well as what my OGS have taught me) is if a person has to keep explaining themselves on a situation, they are looking for validation that their viewpoint is right and that they need assurance that they are making the right move.
That speaks volumes.
At the end of the day, only you can choose your path.
Your family, friends, Internet brethren, etc..
Can't figure this out for you.
MA and many others have dropped jewels on you(I lurked your thread as well) but you not trying to hear the truth.
Let that girl cook and take care of yourself.
You are forcing a situation. No relationship should be forced. Let things flow and be natural.
Once again, this is a problem you have to find a solution to and only you know the truth and consequences.
I wish you peace on whatever you choose.
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