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Gentlemen I need tips on how to read body language. Im really clueless whether a chick is feeling me or not.
 
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Brethren if you don't leave that situation alone..
You better toss that bish to the bushes..
She slandered your name.
If it is one thing you have in this life is your name. As petty and as shallow as that my seem, once your rep is tainted, it's hard to fix the damage. She has the potential to put you into a huge hole.
Think with your head and not your penis.
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th3answ3r said:
is it rude to approach someone with headphones at the gym? she talks to her friends a lot
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not rude, but if you coming come with what you need to say and don't waste her time.

I actually just recently did something like this, (i was going to type the story out later), but they dont mind as long as you say what you need to and bounce out.
 
Cfranchise26 said:
Serious situation. (No Ducktales)

Now after 3 months of off and on talking, it does seem like she calmed down, and constantly apologizes for her previous actions, saying she changed now. should I go for it NT, say F it and see what happens or play it safe and keep my distance. some people do change for the better (I have)  or I could just be thirsty for yambs
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You don't change that fast, you may supress the crazy for awhile
but she not 100% changed trust that
 
OK, I'll also add this, despite the fact she did tainted my name and has her crazy factors, she did check up on me while I was going through my divorce, and also supported and called me everyday me while I was going through rehab with my alcohol addiction.  I think she does care but just express it the wrong way.
 
***** is not worth ruining your life.

She showed she was crazy from the get go, you let her be crazy by her lonesome.
The fact she violated the way she did, she'd be deaded a long time ago. But to make matters worse, you smash her, most likely raw, she seems like the type to get pregnant or at least pretend to be.
Now ask yourself, are you comfortable with her as your baby mami?
 
KEVLAR said:
***** is not worth ruining your life.

She showed she was crazy from the get go, you let her be crazy by her lonesome.
The fact she violated the way she did, she'd be deaded a long time ago. But to make matters worse, you smash her, most likely raw, she seems like the type to get pregnant or at least pretend to be.
Now ask yourself, are you comfortable with her as your baby mami?
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 Hell No.   point taken
 
How do you approach a female with headphones on, by the way?

And a female walking in the opposite direction, you lock eyes, then what? You turn around and get her to stop? Does the look back ever work?

I'm so lost out here 
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Talking to every female at work, on sales floors and waitresses isn't helping me at all
 
RC103DC said:
It's been about 2 weeks since I broke up with my girlfriend. At the beginning of the relationship, I was texting another girl, but nothing came of it. I just enjoyed our conversations. My ex-girlfriend didn't appreciate this, and gave me a really hard time about it. I stopped talking to the girl out of respect for the relationship. The problem was that my ex would bring it up everytime she got mad/sad/lonely/frustrated. I feel like it would come out of the blue sometimes. I tolerated it for a while, due to the fact that it was me that messed up.

But after a while, I realized that this wasn't something I could live with. I didn't want her hanging this over my head for the rest of our time together. She said she forgave me, and would move on, but she could never really do it.

I was away on a trip with my friends and she decided to pick a fight with me. I decided that this was the last straw. I broke up with her. Up until that point, she was the one doing all the threatening. But now that it was me saying it, she got scared. I don't just say things like that out of frustration. If I say I'm breaking up with you, best believe that I really mean it.

Long story short, know your worth, and don't be anybody's punching bag. Stick to your guns and establish what things are acceptable and unacceptable. It might hurt to let things go, but it will be better for everyone involved in the long run.
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Same thing I'm going through with my gf. When we first started dating I was getting yambs, & out of nowhere my ex called me. She saw the name on the phone, & told me to pick up. Act like she wasn't there, & have a "normal" convo with her. To see if I was cheating or planning on anything with her. I proceeded, & nothing. She has always held that over my head. "I'm sorry I'm not ______!" My friends little sister died about two weeks ago & I told her I was going to make the trip out to Oklahoma for the funeral. Since she wasn't & couldn't go she got all insecure on me. (We held a car wash to raise money, & my cousin's friends came to help. Good looking too.) There were a few baddies that were at the car wash & were going to the funeral as well.
I didn't get to attend because I wasn't able to get the day off from work, & was driving from Dallas to OK.
I had a talk with her Saturday about all the insecurities, fighting, & the little things she don't do for me. Just because she gives up the guts, & top don't mean she can't rub her man's back or whatever. One of the real reasons I started dating her, thought she was going to be the one. Cleaning, cooking, sex every day. We still have consistent sex, but she stopped everything else. Saying she's tired, but I'm still out her splurging on her. She got comfortable too fast, but it's my fault. I just like to take care of my woman honestly, but should have realized sooner she wasn't taking care of her man.
Not really putting a time stamp on our issues, but they need to get corrected soon. Or else the door will be shown. We're going out of town this weekend to Houston, & grabbing a hotel for a wedding. If we can make it this weekend without fighting (We've been fighting every weekend for a month straight.) then maybe I can go on good faith. I'd hate to throw away 2.5+ years + my family loves her. I'm not an ugly dude, I'll live, oh well hope for the best but expect the worse.
 
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So yall trying to do a Texas Meet Up and Forgot to Invite The Married Man, Ricky,or RRLegend[emoji]128516[/emoji][emoji]128516[/emoji]
Man you dudes ain't ish[emoji]128516[/emoji]

To my brethren with the "crazy" chick.
I understand she helped you through a tough time but that sounds like a Codependent Relationship.
You both have like energy and are/were vulnerable, so it only makes sense for you to feel something for her. But Bro that ish is toxic and can have you right back at the bottom. I just had to cut a really, really dear friend to me a loose because dude never wanted to see me happy. As long as I was in my feelings, smoking, drinking and being his wing man, everything was Gucci. But as soon as I got with my wife and focusing on goals, getting money, finishing my MBA, etc..
As my energy was changing to a positive life, I could see the hate and energy I used to harbor in his eyes. I had the same eyes once.
The people you come in contact with or that are around you, truly define you.
Why would you risk your sobriety for her when she literally tainted your name.
My dude you can't be that press for cookie?
It's too much to live for out here and too many dudes are dead or in prison behind some triflin ***.
Leave her to the wolves and keep evolving as a man and getting healthier in mind and spirit.
If you are trolling, then that's hell of a story[emoji]128516[/emoji]
But if not, think about your future and the yambs that are out there that don't want stress or drama.
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Eye contact is so crucial. You can volley eye contact with a pretty girl and tell if she's interested if she keeps meeting with your eyes.

Look a couple seconds then look away, though. No long creepy *** stares.

May seem like common knowledge but I think it is slept on.
 
mugen81 said:
So yall trying to do a Texas Meet Up and Forgot to Invite The Married Man, Ricky,or RRLegend[emoji]128516[/emoji][emoji]128516[/emoji]
Man you dudes ain't ish[emoji]128516[/emoji]
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Dawg I bought the damn tix YESTERDAY. Ya'll know I'm bout to plan a lil ACL meetup or something.

The Don don't forget :nthat:
 
MrYoungMoney said:
Same thing I'm going through with my gf. When we first started dating I was getting yambs, & out of nowhere my ex called me. She saw the name on the phone, & told me to pick up. Act like she wasn't there, & have a "normal" convo with her. To see if I was cheating or planning on anything with her. I proceeded, & nothing. She has always held that over my head. "I'm sorry I'm not ______!" My friends little sister died about two weeks ago & I told her I was going to make the trip out to Oklahoma for the funeral. Since she wasn't & couldn't go she got all insecure on me. (We held a car wash to raise money, & my cousin's friends came to help. Good looking too.) There were a few baddies that were at the car wash & were going to the funeral as well.
I didn't get to attend because I wasn't able to get the day off from work, & was driving from Dallas to OK.
I had a talk with her Saturday about all the insecurities, fighting, & the little things she don't do for me. Just because she gives up the guts, & top don't mean she can't rub her man's back or whatever. One of the real reasons I started dating her, thought she was going to be the one. Cleaning, cooking, sex every day. We still have consistent sex, but she stopped everything else. Saying she's tired, but I'm still out her splurging on her. She got comfortable too fast, but it's my fault. I just like to take care of my woman honestly, but should have realized sooner she wasn't taking care of her man.
Not really putting a time stamp on our issues, but they need to get corrected soon. Or else the door will be shown. We're going out of town this weekend to Houston, & grabbing a hotel for a wedding. If we can make it this weekend without fighting (We've been fighting every weekend for a month straight.) then maybe I can go on good faith. I'd hate to throw away 2.5+ years + my family loves her. I'm not an ugly dude, I'll live, oh well hope for the best but expect the worse.
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If at all possible, try to work things out bro. Make it clear that her insecurities are getting in the way of your growth as a couple. If she can't understand that, then you already know what you need to do. In my situation, I just knew that it would be an endless cycle of fights and make-up sex, and back to being worried about if she is going to bring up old problems. She needed to change, and it wasn't going to happen while still being emotionally attached to me.

For my ex, she thought that my decision was sudden. What she didn't realize was that she was slowly pushing me away with every time she picked a fight with me or decided to be emotional/irrational. I reached my limit. I made my decision.

I thought that she was the one. She had a key to my place, my family liked her a lot. But in the end, I had to put myself first. And I just knew that I couldn't deal with it anymore.
 
I just had a huge revelation. I think I became needy. I began expecting things and leaning on my gf because I hoped she would want/do the same for me which is why I've been feeling not so great in our relationship.

It's whatever tho. Everyday I keep realizing she don't want that (even if she say she do).

I feel a weight has been lifted..like seriously.
 
Don Adidada said:
I just had a huge revelation. I think I became needy. I began expecting things and leaning on my gf because I hoped she would want/do the same for me which is why I've been feeling not so great in our relationship.
It's whatever tho. Everyday I keep realizing she don't want that (even if she say she do).

I feel a weight has been lifted..like seriously.
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we had already kinda got that/ told you that from previous post you made.
bbut as the theme in life, you gotta learn yourself. so I'm glad you got the revelation dude. hope it molds the situation to become better.
 
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