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Really? Why are they the least desirable?
What It's Like To Be In An Interracial Relationship - A Dating Thread
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SOME white dudes think that a white girl is "tainted" or "ruined" or "scarred" if they date/sleep with a black guy.
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Black men don't have to date black women. When their reason for dating outside their race includes disrespectful and degrading comments towards black women, that's where the self hate comes in.
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I don't get how we live in a society where woman are constantly getting tans, butt injections, Botox for full lips and smooth skin...all black woman traits
Yet black women are the least desirable? Don't let the media fool you.
Yet black women are the least desirable? Don't let the media fool you.
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Desirability is more than physical attraction. The same woman I would smash isn't the same woman I'd marry (or date).
What?
If an individual person HAS desirable qualities then people will desire to be with them...point blank.
I'm not speaking in absolutes so I hope you aren't twisting what I'm trying to explain...
Stay on topic and kill that "black men walking down the street" mess. We are talking about interracial relationships and desirability. You have a better chance of seeing a black man in a IR than a black woman in a IR. Tell me that's false...
Black women are the ones on national TV complaining about being successful and unmarried (and even throw black men under the bus for not being up to their level). No other race/gender has this issue.
The stigma that is attached to black women (attitudes, promiscuity, lack of personality) is seen by all men. All of these characteristics play into desirability...
http://thegrio.com/2013/11/06/inter...e-love-black-men-women-white-native-american/
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Are they the least desirable by black men?
No, most black men date and marry other black women.
I could care less what other races think of black women, I love black women.
The media taught them to subconsciously dislike ethnic features. They don't even realize it.
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Mixed dating mixed crew checking in
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THE BEST KEPT SECRET #WINNING
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I love my black woman and I love my queen of spades too 
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Iono about that queen of spades thing. That some weird ****. 
Well it's the same how men of other races wanna dress, talk, act, like black men yet black men are the most criticized males on the planet.
Well it's the same how men of other races wanna dress, talk, act, like black men yet black men are the most criticized males on the planet.
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Iono about that queen of spades thing. That some weird ****.
Well it's the same how men of other races wanna dress, talk, act, like black men yet black men are the most criticized males on the planet.
But let's be honest, black men are the most influential race of men on the planet so it's not to far fetched to assume the same for black woman. The "attitude" the "body type"..."twerking". There are a few who choose to look at it as beneath the standard but the media will take the worst of anything and constantly throw it in your face. There are plenty of successful black woman who have successful black husbands and beautiful families but that's not what people care about or what get ratings...black baby momma's that had children with multiple athletes is what will get attention
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I only date interracial... don't care about society or cultural standards. The only way to end racism is through education and the best way for the population to care about another person's culture and/or ethnicity is if they are related to them in some manner. Just like how it's more accepting to be gay now... why? Cause they are not hiding anymore and families can actually learn about the homosexual lifestyle from their gay sons/daughters. Yes a good pct would probably dead their gay children but for the majority, they are accepting and it changes their whole perception which could also lead them to vote a certain way.
Mixed/interracial kids = our future!
Mixed/interracial kids = our future!
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Not true.
One thing I will say is that black women need to culturally get out of the mindset that they MUST marry black men. No reason to limit your dating pool.
If you have bad luck with black men, cool. Try out other people before you write a blog complaining about it.
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Man I want a black woman but the majority of the good looking ones never give non-black guys like me a chance.
The ones that do date outside of their race around my way are the snobby fake upper class types who think they're rich white girls from the OC. Not my type at all :x
Closest I got was a black/Filipina girl in high school who dated me for a week, then changed her mind and told me "Our cultures are too different" and started dating a black dude a week later
Not sure what that meant, cause culturally I'm 99% different from American white people
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I am dating a white (Spanish from Spain to be exact) woman right now. Just worked out that way, but it's definitely a real thing where black men (in all races really) see white women as some of status symbol or achievement and take enjoyment in throwing black women under the bus, subconscious societal conditioning sure but I know and we have on NT dudes who do it very consciously. Remember when we kept having all the "well I'm black but since I graduated college, I only mess with white women; since I got a promotion at work, since I [insert anything that creates some feeling of superiorirty and prestige] which now makes them "above" even entertaining the possibility of dating black women anymore I wouldn't accuse every interracial relationship of that being the case as I don't know everyone, but the whole "preference" argument when it's based on negative stereotypes things is hilariously ironic to me, given that if women did that to us, we wouldn't get no ***** since you can EASILY point to stereotypes and stats and say "I don't mess with black dudes because ____," and of course some do but we'd definitely lose that battle.
We were out in OKC Sunday downtown at the most populated time of day (right after the Thunder game let out), I didn't feel particularly self conscious that everyone was staring at us, and the ones that were I really assumed were checking her out. Kind of a full of yourself assumption to assume everyone is looking at you because you're handsome and they jealous you're with a white girl and not them.
I assumed by OP's title he was referring to situations that you navigate differently because of the I.R relationship as opposed to if you weren't. I haven't really been through any yet but there's this black poetry club/lounge called Urban Roots I stumbled into a few weekends ago (while with a mixed crowd by the way, white dude's face was hilarious, real life Simpson in and out gif, guess he thought "Urban" meant city), and I don't think I would take her until I had been a few times just to see what the vibe is like. Not that I feel the need to defend our relationship to anybody, but I don't know if it's the angry militant type of crowd in that situation and if so wouldn't want to put her through that really if it's gonna be a bunch of people yelling at us. I've seen Def Poetry Jam, that's a common subject matter. Other than that, can't think of anything; she hasn't met my parents yet but I don't bring black chics around them either, nobody does except for the time they ambushed me in the mall
We were out in OKC Sunday downtown at the most populated time of day (right after the Thunder game let out), I didn't feel particularly self conscious that everyone was staring at us, and the ones that were I really assumed were checking her out. Kind of a full of yourself assumption to assume everyone is looking at you because you're handsome and they jealous you're with a white girl and not them.
I assumed by OP's title he was referring to situations that you navigate differently because of the I.R relationship as opposed to if you weren't. I haven't really been through any yet but there's this black poetry club/lounge called Urban Roots I stumbled into a few weekends ago (while with a mixed crowd by the way, white dude's face was hilarious, real life Simpson in and out gif, guess he thought "Urban" meant city), and I don't think I would take her until I had been a few times just to see what the vibe is like. Not that I feel the need to defend our relationship to anybody, but I don't know if it's the angry militant type of crowd in that situation and if so wouldn't want to put her through that really if it's gonna be a bunch of people yelling at us. I've seen Def Poetry Jam, that's a common subject matter. Other than that, can't think of anything; she hasn't met my parents yet but I don't bring black chics around them either, nobody does except for the time they ambushed me in the mall
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I'm Salvadorian & my girl is Native American/Armenian, though if you saw her would be considered white i guess.
Spread love folks....it's not just the Brooklyn way.
Spread love folks....it's not just the Brooklyn way.
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Truth.
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i kind of feel you but that part right there is just not true. white people have bodied everything they've come in contact with since day one. word to the crusades and all of that.
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mexican/puerto rican and im dating an italian woman, its wonderful.
both of our cultures are all about food and parties ftw.
both of our cultures are all about food and parties ftw.
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And that is the point
Everybody wanna be a N____ but dont nobody wanna be a N____.
They like the attributes lips, butt, hips but they dont like the black woman.
You gotta wonder why men want all the attributes but dont want the race that mostly possess those attributes
And you can say it is because we are rude, fat, crazy, no personality etc but honestly all women are.
We got members on this very forum that take away points for being dark skin
In this very thread a black man called white women the cream of the crop and said we were jealous.
"subconscious societal conditioning" at its finest.
But to me I dont see it, black men around me like black women.
Cant name one family member that married a non black woman.
Around me it Island african over non island african american vice versa smh
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Maybe I see it differently because my parents are African. Black woman are the cream of the crop. The world knows it and tries to concentrate on the negatives
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They do. Especially since I was Texas and was with a white girl. I never really card though. I'm back with the home team though now
