I feel you man. I'm the kind of guy where people always mention that I need to/should get a girlfriend and they do so in a way that gives me a little hope that there's potential. Whenever I think that it's finally going to work out something always goes wrong so now I'm reluctant to even try.
why is it hard for you two to mingle with people?
), I can't help but feel pissed off. It's like that sports prospect with a world of potential, but just can't seem to put it all together...yet I see all my friends && others with their girls && whatnot. It's like, I'm happy for my ******, but just frustrated cause I know, if they can keep a girl, etc, then it should be a breeze for me. But it's not...not even close.
where are your parents from?
just like pepperjack, I know that feel too about having a wall up. remember, good girls don't come along, you go get them. It's like fishing, you sit there with your rod out there not doing a thing, I'm at your side casting that rod reeling it in playing, that fish is coming to me. Can't wait for that slow roller to 3rd to reach you, you charge that ****, barehand it and throw a dart to 1st. you gotta be like a panther in the forest, see the kill, ease into it and kill. show the girl you're alphaI've had a a few GFs thus far, but have been single for about 2.5 years now. After the way breakup with the last GF went down, my whole mentality just changed...I'm just super guarded now, on too of naturally being an introvert. Feel like I can't open up to none of these joints...part of which, I guess, can be attributed to not really being able to find a cuff worthy chick lately...but with every girl I come across && 'talk' to, the natural 'good guy' in me comes out eventually, and then...POOF. They disappear (and clearly end up settling, but that's on them). It's like my being genuine is my biggest pro and con. And as used to the bull**** as I should be, every time it happens, even when I know it's inevitable (as was the case today), I can't help but feel pissed off. It's like that sports prospect with a world of potential, but just can't seem to put it all together...I'm like a Zab Judah or somebody.
Mingling actually comes pretty easy when I get to that point with a chick. I probably don't initiate enough, I'm a bit on the shy side. I admittedly have a tendency to just take what comes to me, as far as people are concerned. I guess with the people I've dealt with, I'm kinda in a mode where it's like '**** it, the right one will come along at the right time'.
Like this chick who went back to her ex today. We started rapping initially because she texted the wrong number, which happened to be mine. I acted as I normally do, she got attached, I did too eventually, but I knew it wouldn't work out. We're just way too different, I thought...but I gave it a shot anyway, and it indeed didn't work out.
Overall, I just don't mingle much because I'm tired of trying to see the best in people (despite their past, etc.), only to be slapped in the face with the same thing my intuition always tells me. Like I said above, though, that may be more on me than anything.
Let me tell you this: girls like guys who can initiate & keep a conversation. We like to know that a guy is legit interested in talking to us. I like men who are fun to talk to. A guy who I can simply have fun & hang out with makes me interested in them in the first place.
And yes, girls love confidence.
Also, don't be someone you're not.if a girl isn't interested in you, move on to the next best target.
I gotta post tagged pics of my gf? I've posted pics of me and her together in the pyg thread, but here...
That's a gap she got????
You mean Nomad? Why not just address me directly and ask if I'm him instead of talking about me like I'm not here?
And nah, I'm not dude and my life isn't a story. All truth. You can dig through my past posts to check my consitency. Up to you fam.
Anyway, pepperjack, a former associate of mine was a straight up human rat on two legs. Dude wasn't handsome by any standard, but he had confidence and had no problem pulling attractive women. Dress nicely, stay clean and confident and handle your business. A sense of humor goes a long way too.
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She wants to give you the Dthe comments/gifs. to the fam without gfs the year just started.
2nd valentine with gf. i got her a card and this nail art/design box. she told me not to plan anything in the evening. just hope its not a corny valentines day movie date.
Pic caught me off guard. Look like yall just ate a bunch of school children.
