I don't worry about that cuz Marvel's quality movies >>>>>>> FOX's X-Men trash. Not to mention in the movies IM is vastly better than Wolverine.
IM in the spotlight seems much more natural story wise and it's not like they've already forced him in other stuff he doesn't belong in. Then you look at the X-Men and Wolverine. It did look like he was forced in a lot of their early movies. It was basically Wolverine & the X-Men in X-Men 1-3. Only First Class strayed away from him (didn't do amazing box office wise so they bring him back) and everybody who saw DofP knows Wolverine didn't have to be in that at all and turned out to be pretty useless to how things end.
I feel Marvel sees this for what it is. RDJR isn't going to be Tony Stark forever, might as well use him to his best ability while they can. They already have plans for who they're gonna prop up in to the spotlight after he's gone anyway. Lets have RDJR interact with the new Spidey in a big way before RDJR is gone.
Whereas with FOX, chances are Jackman will still be Wolverine even after Fox does their reboot and the X-Men crossover with the F4 (seems that's gonna happen no matter if the F4 movie is bad). So when you look at what they have in development and what's official Jackman is probably gonna be Wolverine for another 10 damn years
; the next Wolverine sequel, Apocalypse, probably X-Force, I don't doubt he'd have cameos in Deadpool and Gambit, the X-Men movie after Apocalypse, and he'll definitely be in the crossover with F4. Eventually they might age out Wolverine from the main X-Men movies (depending on who is in charge and directing) and then we'll see a bunch of Old Man Logan movies.
So yeah I don't at all feel Feige is gonna drop the ball and **** things up with Iron Man and this Spidey involvement.