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Seems like the depreciation of marriage goes hand in hand with the increase of deadbeat dads and broken homes...smh
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This is what I'm trying to understand.
Having a child with someone = you have some type of bond with them FOREVER but people saying marriage is too serious? makes no sense
Once these broads biological clock starts ticking whatever semblance of logic or reason existed is out the window. Basically they don't have 5 years to put in a relationship just to "see" if this guy is the one. They need the kid now, asap, and everything else can fall into place, or not. At least the dread of never experiencing motherhood is gone. I can have a kid when I'm 50, these chicks be feeling like after 35 it's a wrap. Once they sniff 30 it's all out panic if they aren't already in a serious relationship.
I was with my wife for ten years with two kids before we got married. Had to make sure she was the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I actually think its a bad idea to marry someone just because you have a kid with them.
Times have changed, if both people are good parents and don't want too get married nothing wrong with it IMO.
Shouldn't you make sure you want to spend the rest of your life with her before you two have children?
It takes two to tango bro, can't place all the blame on women rushing for families, because truth is, if a man is responsible and doesn't want a family he won't impregnate a woman no matter how desperate she is....tbh I don't blame females for hitting the panic button, 35+ they are considered high risk pregnancies, a lot can go wrong....as a man why would you want to wait till 50 to have a kid tho?...you gonna be 70 by the time homie goes off to college...lol
im not about that baby mama life
Not doing that kid or yourself any favors like that.
I don't plan on getting married by I do plan on having kids so I guess I agree with this
I'll always do everything I can for my kids and whoever their mother is but the idea of being with one person for the rest of my life is beyond depressing.
Steezy..You sound hella ignorant. I don't give a damn who a step-daddy may be I will always be that child's father and be in their life 100% of the time. My parents divorced when I was 10 but my pops ALWAYS made it clear to never let no other fool try to act like he's my father or he'll show up with the quickness.
Y'all think marriage is the be all end all like the divorce rate ain't 50%. Fact is if you do your job as a parent and have a child with somebody who has a little bit of common sense it doesn't have to be as complicated as you think.
Seems like the depreciation of marriage goes hand in hand with the increase of deadbeat dads and broken homes...smh
My kids ain't having stepparents unless I die. Also my kids will never not live in the same house as I do.
I'm not having kids unless I'm married period.
Stuff happens but being a father is the most important thing will ever be in your life.
Getting married is nothing more than the gov't co-signing your relationship. I don't need the gov't stamp of approval. I'm good.
Listen, could you imagine writing your deposition?
Divorce Lawyer telling you how this thing gonna be ending?
With you paying out the ***, and I'm talking half
Not some but half. No serious, half
Half of your soul, half of your heart you leaving behind
It's either that or die, I wanted peace of mind
And all I seen was selfish cowards, under they breath
Saying "why did Nas trust her? ", but look at yourself, speak louder bruh
You live with your babymoms and scared to make an honest woman out of her
And make her your bride, fake ***** you ain't even a lie
At least I can say I tried plus enjoyed the ride
Plus we got our little boy, my little joy and pride
He got my nose, my grill, your colour, your eyes
Next go round I hope I pick the truest type and watch me do it all again
It's a beautiful life, aight
Goodbye
Marriage is overrated. If I love you, I love you. There's truly no reason for an elaborate celebration that cost a **** ton of money.