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No job, no money..bills due 
Going thru court/law ****...facing jail time :x
Going thru court/law ****...facing jail time :x
Rough Times Y'all Have Been Through?
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I mean I cant really complain. She was a smoker when I met her. I tried to deal with it but after seeing what my grandfather went because of cigs I cant do it no more.
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in may of 2007 i had just had my daughter
the year prior my son
me and my kids and their mom were staying together
i had a GOOOOOOD *** job
in the span of 5 months she left and tried to take the kids with her
i lost my job
lost my apartment
stayed with my mom
got kicked out of my moms house
that year was BAD
2008 was a comeback year for the kid though
the year prior my son
me and my kids and their mom were staying together
i had a GOOOOOOD *** job
in the span of 5 months she left and tried to take the kids with her
i lost my job
lost my apartment
stayed with my mom
got kicked out of my moms house
that year was BAD
2008 was a comeback year for the kid though
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she hasnt even said she would try or even consider TRYING to quit??????
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Congrats JulesCongrats,Been thru cancer three times. Been cancer free for 3 years now tho
I always say, as long as you have your health, food to eat, gas in the tank, and a home to come to, things aren't that bad.
and what Blaster said
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lmao thats funny. She cant even function without a cig. We dont even kiss no more smh this thread ive said to much.....
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Too much and I don't want a sob story.
But I can relate to that also op. I have been dead *** broke overdrafing on purpose because I had no other options.
But I can relate to that also op. I have been dead *** broke overdrafing on purpose because I had no other options.
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Had my uncle die/killed then a week later my girls grandma passed. It's been a struggle mainly on her kinda put a strain on us but working through it and smiles and laughs are coming back.
And to the man who posted about beating cancer congrats man I couldn't imagine how you feel.
And to the man who posted about beating cancer congrats man I couldn't imagine how you feel.
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I've been blessed to really live a life without any hard times except times that I put my own self into.
Tho recently i have been thinking alot that someday, since I really havent lost any loved ones yet, I was suffer death after death sooner or later with family members. (Like aunts, grandparents, etc) and that scares the **** out of me
Tho recently i have been thinking alot that someday, since I really havent lost any loved ones yet, I was suffer death after death sooner or later with family members. (Like aunts, grandparents, etc) and that scares the **** out of me
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it will change you as a person bruh.
i still break down over my grandfather from time to time.
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this. I'm just glad things are better now than they were before.
good job everybody everyday is a new day to make your life better.
ayzee
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Best friend died in 2012 from a heroin OD.
Lungs collapsed in was ICU for a week in 2002.
Lungs collapsed in was ICU for a week in 2002.
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Been thru cancer three times. Been cancer free for 3 years now tho
Was gonna post 'goin through trying to fix my credit with my bum *** salary I make while in school' ...you know what I'm good.
Congrats man, stat healthy.
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damn man sorry to hear that
and yall married????
my bad for being nosey but how long have yall been together/married
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I've lost a lot of people, but one that hit me the most was losing my sister back in 07. She was in the hospital for 5 months due to a stroke. I shared my story with NT and y'all comforted me the whole way. I'll forever be thankful for that.
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2012.......
jan 2012......i turned 25. was in grad school. biomedical sciences
may 2012.......my cousin who lived across the street was murdered outside . broad daylight.........i quit school.
july 9th 2012......i call my mother and we talk about cleaning the bathroom. she gives me tips.
july 10th 2012......my mother found dead on the floor. had 2 strokes.
july-august......fighting with courts,social security, social services, congress, state of va to help provide long term healthcare for my disabled brother
sept 2012......another cousin dies of longterm illness
october 2012......... cousin i grew up with/wen to school with was shot by accident outside a store. dies. left behind 2 small children.
taking care of my brother when my mom died was the first time i felt like i was faced with something that i could not manage, and it was of tremendous importance. but eventually everyhing turned out ok.
jan 2012......i turned 25. was in grad school. biomedical sciences
may 2012.......my cousin who lived across the street was murdered outside . broad daylight.........i quit school.
july 9th 2012......i call my mother and we talk about cleaning the bathroom. she gives me tips.
july 10th 2012......my mother found dead on the floor. had 2 strokes.
july-august......fighting with courts,social security, social services, congress, state of va to help provide long term healthcare for my disabled brother
sept 2012......another cousin dies of longterm illness
october 2012......... cousin i grew up with/wen to school with was shot by accident outside a store. dies. left behind 2 small children.
taking care of my brother when my mom died was the first time i felt like i was faced with something that i could not manage, and it was of tremendous importance. but eventually everyhing turned out ok.
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man i dont think i can come in this thread anymore
each post my eyes feel watery
this gonna be a depressing thread
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damn man sorry for ur losses
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Don't know if leaving is an option but consider it if it is.
Shes doing something that you don't like, that's not respect....and not to add the health risks that you'd potentially have to deal with.
If it was you doing it (a man), most women, would give you an ultimatum...them or the thing you do that they don't like
Shes doing something that you don't like, that's not respect....and not to add the health risks that you'd potentially have to deal with.
If it was you doing it (a man), most women, would give you an ultimatum...them or the thing you do that they don't like
ayzee
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Jesus man
You are no doubt a stronger man having gone through that in less than a year.
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Father left our family in 1998 in Cleveland, Ohio - left 5 boys and 1 mother...he left us in a house that was a duplex, so we all 5 of us brothers slept in one small bedroom for 10 years.
Than my father died in 2007, I was 19 years old...didn't even get to go to his funeral |I.
And thats just the struggle with my father.
Than my father died in 2007, I was 19 years old...didn't even get to go to his funeral |I.
And thats just the struggle with my father.
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together for 7 years married for 2
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drug addict. homeless. sleeping in the park and stealing most of my food for a year. my clothes stashed in a garbage bag. random little kid brought me a burrito on his way to school one day
stopped doing drugs/drinking. today i'm paying a mortgage on my condo, pay over 20k/ year for my son's day care, traveling with my gf and kid to japan for vacation next week....life has done a complete 180 for me. things are pretty damn good.
stopped doing drugs/drinking. today i'm paying a mortgage on my condo, pay over 20k/ year for my son's day care, traveling with my gf and kid to japan for vacation next week....life has done a complete 180 for me. things are pretty damn good.
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whoa same story with me except two sisters and my dad was a crack head smh. I dont even think ill go to his funeral.
