I live a life of solitude.

It is very true about co workers thinking you are rude because you are quiet.Sometimes you have to suck it up and appease people so they won't think you are rude. It can be quite tiring .It crazy how some people are afraid of silence "It's too quiet" :lol: makes me think they can't stand themselves.

If any of you get the chance check the forever alone thread on misc on body building.com I guess to make yourselves feel better :lol:

They have some severe cases
Just google FA thread body building.
 
Been on my own since 2012, its nice, but when you're single it sucks. Coming home from a long day of work/school to an empty house can be depressing sometimes im not gonna lie, I do love having my own place tho, I always made moves on my own so even tho its depressing I deal with it
 
shoefreakbaby said:
It is very true about co workers thinking you are rude because you are quiet.Sometimes you have to suck it up and appease people so they won't think you are rude. It can be quite tiring .It crazy how some people are afraid of silence "It's too quiet" :lol: makes me think they can't stand themselves.

If any of you get the chance check the forever alone thread on misc on body building.com I guess to make yourselves feel better :lol:

They have some severe cases
Just google FA thread body building.
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I hate that, you could say its my problem but I don't like unnecessary talking. It doesn't make work any more enjoyable
 
do what makes you the most happy
i love being around friends and family, but i also agree sometimes its ncie to be by yourself
I've gone to a couple of dj shows by myself and have had a blast, granted i would have rather had my freinds go but when they bailed on me last minute i said f it im going and turned out great
 
As I get older I realize more & more than all people we call friends are really just looking out for themselves. None of them would actually go out of their way to do something that doesnt benefit them in some way. Also seems everyone is just connected to pass the time, no one really cares about the people that are supposed to be their "friends". Just going from one situation to another but not really enjoying themselves yaamean?
Yeah Im really mad at society as a whole.
 
Brondiesel said:
As I get older I realize more & more than all people we call friends are really just looking out for themselves. None of them would actually go out of their way to do something that doesnt benefit them in some way. Also seems everyone is just connected to pass the time, no one really cares about the people that are supposed to be their "friends". Just going from one situation to another but not really enjoying themselves yaamean?
Yeah Im really mad at society as a whole.
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THIS.

 
Brondiesel said:
As I get older I realize more & more than all people we call friends are really just looking out for themselves. None of them would actually go out of their way to do something that doesnt benefit them in some way. Also seems everyone is just connected to pass the time, no one really cares about the people that are supposed to be their "friends". Just going from one situation to another but not really enjoying themselves yaamean?
Yeah Im really mad at society as a whole.
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What you just explained in your post is you. That is who you are. When you change that, the world will change.

You're looking out for you. That's what a friend is, providing value. Wether in smiles, places or whatever. People are good. You see what you put out. When you do someone a favor you expect them to return it. Don't. People do care but we all have our own lives to live.
 
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What you just explained in your post is you. That is who you are. When you change that, the world will change.

You're looking out for you. That's what a friend is, providing value. Wether in smiles, places or whatever. People are good. You see what you put out. When you do someone a favor you expect them to return it. Don't. People do care but we all have our own lives to live.
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I want to believe what you wrote. I really do.
 
After watching that video I want to take myself out on an all day date this summer.

I just wanna wake up, have a chill breakfast, leave around midday, go to some public event, take some pictures, take a walk in the park, get a full sit down meal to myself and not use any electronics, catch a movie, come home to my friends or fam and just cool out till we knock out.
 
That pros and cons list is what I wrestle with on a daily basis. I feel as though I'm better off being an introvert, having developed my own identity; but there are times when I would like to experience being part of something bigger.

Having just cut ties with my ex for good a week ago, I'm feeling more secluded. Not sad at all about it. Almost excited getting back to my old ways of doing whatever it is I feel like, when I feel like, without the pressure to include someone else in those endeavors.
 
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Some people were just made to wander life on their own. Even as I wrote that I couldn't help feeling some sadness about that statement. I can say from my standpoint, many if not all of the well-developed countries of the world favor people being extroverts because it outsells what introverts could bring to the table. It's more glamorous.

I wish that waking up in your own time, watching t.v. in your own time, going places by yourself and wandering around and then coming home could be glammed up, but it is what it is.

What I think introverts do is that we cultivate our own pocket universe inside our heads where we find a lot of tranquility in. Maybe our physical reality is not what we thought it would be so we developed another life inside of us as a defense mechanism to help us stave off depression (or much of it), anxiety, phobia, etc.

Being an introvert is fascinating ****.

For me personally, I just don't want solitude to end up as loneliness.
 
i was thinking about going to a game by myself like its whatever... minuswhale catch a yankee game while jeter still playing
 
As a person who likes to be by himself, I've never liked the term introvert, I do so many things by myself, but don't really mind being around people; like I don't feel any anxiety or anything, I barely get annoyed with people. I just enjoi being on my own, I enjoi being with people...idk what I am.
 
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Brondiesel said:
As I get older I realize more & more than all people we call friends are really just looking out for themselves. None of them would actually go out of their way to do something that doesnt benefit them in some way. Also seems everyone is just connected to pass the time, no one really cares about the people that are supposed to be their "friends". Just going from one situation to another but not really enjoying themselves yaamean?
Yeah Im really mad at society as a whole.
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THIS.

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am1x90xnike said:
As a person who likes to be by himself, I've never liked the term introvert, I do so many things by myself, but don't really mind being around people; like I don't feel any anxiety or anything, I barely get annoyed with people. I just enjoi being on my own, I enjoi being with people...idk what I am.
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Get out of our thread, you omnivert.
 
I work, come home, eat and sleep. If my girl decides to drop by so be it. My life revolves around bordem and solitude after I ditched my roommate :smokin
 
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you go boy said:
im not going to lie i like staying home and i do it every weekend... it feels good to just unwind and chill by yourself... but sometimes i do feel it gets tired and boring just being lazy and chilling at the crib all day... its cool and all but to do it all the time nah... i do try to hang out with my friends once in a while to break the monotony up

1 time i hung out with my friends at a big picnic we usually have every summer and for some reason i felt alone the whole time... my friends were trying to get me in involved in conversation or playing games but i dont know i just felt like being alone... i just saw my friends in little clicks and felt left out... i left the picnic early and felt embarrased on the way i acted and felt like i couldnt hang with them again... feelsbadman :smh:[/quot

This story is my reality, one on one with a person I can carry a decen convo, but when it's a group I don't have that demanding personality, which is fine, it just sucks not getting certain peoples attention
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Im thinking I probably have some form of social anxiety, I used to be hella out goin when I was a kid, as a I got older, I got quieter. Seem like akward social accurrances slowing built a fence around a once vibrant youthful mind. I embellish myself in deep thinking consistantly, but when it comes out my mouth, it's nothing with what I had in my mind.

It's all about being comfortable under your skin. Which I have yet to apply to my life. I lost like 90 pounds and it somewhat helped my confidence, but I feel like I'm missing that last link of......caring what other people think of me and trying to make a lasting impression EVERY SINGLE TIME......youcant. I just can't accept that yet. I don't wanna be remembered for something bad, so I stay introverted to rationalize the mistakes, stumbles and embarrassing stuff. Maybe risk is the answer?


I real life feel like somedays going to an art museum or exhibit by myself and just analyze, articulate and enjoy my own company. Is that living life or is that a one way ticket to loserville
 
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