I live a life of solitude.

i can relate to so many of you in here...... im thinking about going back on my anti-depressants. i have been off of them for a couple months and i really feel like ive been on a downward spiral.... i dont want to feel dependant on them to be happy but it seems as though at this point, i dont have any other choice. i cant do it on my own
 
i cant believe how fast the last 10 years have passed.... and how much has changed, how many people that arent in my life anymore... how my hometown and perception on life has changed - it is crazy.
 
Currently siting outside on my patio can't even sleep

I've been inside my head this past week and I'm getting extremely bored it's kinda too quiet too but I hate a lot of noise smh
 
im was an only child so ive always been a dude that prefers to move by myelf. females always askin me y i be by myself most of the time & be askin me if i get lonely but i honestly cant grasp the concept of being lonely at all. i aint no awkward weirdo either, i got charisma & folks love me everywhere i just dont have a real desire for companionship like most folks i guess
 
Co-sign on ALL of that. I only ever feel lonely when I'm around a bunch of people I share little to no interests with. By myself? I'm chilling. Hell, I have so many interests at this point that I rarely get bored either.
 
I care more about understanding how things work than I do socializing with people. I'm a cool person and I'm pretty laid back, but small talk is a strain for me. I love deep conversations though.
I analyze everything way too much. I have a hard time dealing with structured environments too.
The dumb rules and repetition drives me crazy.
Just the other day my home girl told me we won't ever be real friends until I open up about myself. I never really noticed that I know just about everything about her life in detail but I've never told her anything in depth about mines. Emotions are kinda weird for me..
With the people I care about I'm the talkative one, the
one cracking the jokes, and the one telling stories. But with new people I'm pretty chill and I observe. I tend to analyze them to see whether or not I want to deal with them before hand. Sounds kinda cold know that I think about it.
I'm working on it though. Eventhough I'm a introvert I can't see myself living the forever alone life.
 
Charlie Parker said:
[QUOTE url="[URL]https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/7128.Jodi_Picoult[/URL]"]
“Let me tell you this: if you meet a loner, no matter what they tell you, it's not because they enjoy solitude. It's because they have tried to blend into the world before, and people continue to disappoint them.”

― Jodi Picoult
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[QUOTE url="[URL]https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/2192.Aristotle[/URL]"]
“Whosoever is delighted in solitude, is either a wild beast or a god.”

― Aristotle

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[/quote]Little bit of both
 
I've noticed that in recent years it's become "cool" or trendy to be a loner, or for people who aren't introverted in the slightest to put on the "introvert" act.

I think it's the fact that more and more music is coming from more unique and less "traditional" artists--like the Kid Cudis and such. People wanna be lonely stoners who are deep and brooding and brag about how they don't **** with anyone.

So now what it means to be an introvert is being totally screwed up by these people.
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Like ya'll don't know what this ****'s really like!

(not talking to anyone in particular; just venting)
 
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Speaking of Kid Cudi, Man on the Moon 1 is the perfect album to zone out to whilst alone 
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angels47 said:
 
Speaking of Kid Cudi, Man on the Moon 1 is the perfect album to zone out to whilst alone 
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It really is

My first experience with trees was had alone and with MOTM playing

I seriously thought I was having a series of life-changing revelations
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When I'm really depressed I bust out that All Along from MOTM2
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KingdomFlatbush said:
I've noticed that in recent years it's become "cool" or trendy to be a loner, or for people who aren't introverted in the slightest to put on the "introvert" act.

I think it's the fact that more and more music is coming from more unique and less "traditional" artists--like the Kid Cudis and such. People wanna be lonely stoners who are deep and brooding and brag about how they don't **** with anyone.

So now what it means to be an introvert is being totally screwed up by these people. :smh: Like ya'll don't know what this ****'s really like!

(not talking to anyone in particular; just venting)
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Qtf people put on this act like oh I'm weird or whatever when their perfectly normal. Makes me feel even more like an outcast because I feel even more outcasted if the cool people are loners and I'm a real loner, it makes me like a superloner
 
lilzunchi said:
Qtf people put on this act like oh I'm weird or whatever when their perfectly normal. Makes me feel even more like an outcast because I feel even more outcasted if the cool people are loners and I'm a real loner, it makes me like a superloner
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At least you have powers.
 
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man i feel this. girl i almost spent my life with lacked any sort of ambition and cheated on me, found out my best friend had a drug problem and was lying about it, and some of my other friends basically laughed at me for going back to school to finish my degree even though i already had a job that others envied. with people like that around me, i said **** it and cut everyone off.

i used to be afraid of it, but i feel like i enjoy solitude now. just traveled solo for the first time last month and it was the most liberating thing ever. i was alone on an island for a week and got to do everything i wanted to do without having to worry about anyone else.

and i don't know if this is just a temporary feeling, but i don't want to get married or have kids in the future. i love kids though. i'll be there to help raise my niece and nephew, but i just don't want any of my own. i told my family and they felt some kind of way about it
 
KingdomFlatbush said:
I've noticed that in recent years it's become "cool" or trendy to be a loner, or for people who aren't introverted in the slightest to put on the "introvert" act.

I think it's the fact that more and more music is coming from more unique and less "traditional" artists--like the Kid Cudis and such. People wanna be lonely stoners who are deep and brooding and brag about how they don't **** with anyone.

So now what it means to be an introvert is being totally screwed up by these people. :smh: Like ya'll don't know what this ****'s really like!

(not talking to anyone in particular; just venting)
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:rofl: :rofl: yea, I've noticed this too. I wonder if other people notice this as well or if it's just people who (apparently) think alike how we do.

That or they RT things about revolution and such knowing damn well they either don't give a damn or know about.

Idk how it makes me feel, like does that make me normal or weird for being normal? My philosophy about this is "**** it, **** them, and **** the world, I'm me."
 
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