I live a life of solitude.

zapatohead408 said:
I feel as if I get married I would get cheated on and it wouldn't even bother me.
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I always see dudes get depressed about their girl leaving or cheating on them. For some reason I can't emphasize with them. I would just move on. I've had girls I liked, but never been that attached to any of them. I don't even know what "true love" feels like
 
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Niyr said:
You'll be alright OP, i'm a loner too. **** gets depressing sometimes but know you can go out into the world and experience it unfiltered, there's so much out there
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And bruh, you're not a true introvert if you get negative feels living a life of solitude. Meet some people! No shots
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I wouldn't hit that
 
AZwildcats said:
zapatohead408 said:
I feel as if I get married I would get cheated on and it wouldn't even bother me.
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I always see dudes get depressed about their girl leaving or cheating on them. For some reason I can't emphasize with them. I would just move on. I've had girls I liked, but never been that attached to any of them. I don't even know what "true love" feels like
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*empathize. And you've just never met the right one or ever really been in love. I look at heartbreak as a good thing when I'm out of it. I'm apathetic about most things, but knowing I loved someone so much it hurt to be apart feels right.
 
Man i hope yall find a passion or some sort of skill you can sharpen in your lone time.

Majority of geniuses are introverts probably because they focus on their passions moreso than the extroverts who needs to get stimulation from the outside world.

My point is dont just be a loner and waste away. Find something you're good at interested in and become ambitious. Otherwise you're just being a hermit.
 
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zapatohead408 said:
I feel as if I get married I would get cheated on and it wouldn't even bother me.
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Why is that though?
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Truthfully don't know. Only really imagine marriage with one chick I know, other women piss me off. I feel as if I were to end up married to someone I meet later in life I'll just be getting cheated on, wouldn't even bother me. Wouldn't look for clues or evidence or anything. If it comes to my attention, just kick her out and o about my life.

Don't really think marriages can last.
 
I better get a girl soon, otherwise I'm all about that solitude life. Get some land, get a nice trailer...use land to make money (concerts, go kart tracks, maybe even a restaurant).


I see myself, ten years from now, burning one on the roof of a trailer, watching the sunset over my land while drinking a beer and reading some classic novel. That would be so damn dope.
 
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am1x90xnike said:
I better get a girl soon, otherwise I'm all about that solitude life. Get some land, get a nice trailer...use land to make money (concerts, go kart tracks, maybe even a restaurant).


I see myself, ten years from now, burning one on the roof of a trailer, watching the sunset over my land while drinking a beer and reading some classic novel. That would be so damn dope.
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Why do you want a trailer and not a house?
 
I'll admit that I sometimes want to be one of those people who have hundreds of likes on facebook, seemingly happy as can be, living great lives. It's like theyre living in the moment you know? I feel like im too bogged down by the stresses of my future and am subsequently missing out on the present moment.

But on the other hand I do enjoy being alone, it lets me tune into myself as an individual and be unique in character and personality. It's always been this way for me, regardless of how many people I've had in my life at the time. However I do sometimes wish I was more popular and socially outgoing... but whatever
 
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I'll admit that I sometimes want to be one of those people who have hundreds of likes on facebook, seemingly happy as can be, living great lives. It's like theyre living in the moment you know? I feel like im too bogged down by the stresses of my future and am subsequently missing out on the present moment.

But on the other hand I do enjoy being alone, it lets me tune into myself as an individual and be unique in character and personality. It's always been this way for me, regardless of how many people I've had in my life at the time. However I do sometimes wish I was more popular and socially outgoing... but whatever
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People don't realize that Facebook is literally a way for people to show off how awesome people's lives are. Every picture will be of a person partying or having a great life. Doesn't mean they're DOING that all the time.

Would you upload a pic of yourself alone at home fapping or dancing naked in your living room? No :lol:
 
AZwildcats said:
I always see dudes get depressed about their girl leaving or cheating on them. For some reason I can't emphasize with them. I would just move on. I've had girls I liked, but never been that attached to any of them. I don't even know what "true love" feels like
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Because you're a virgin.
 
Jay6jay said:
So because he never has Sex that means won't be able to know true love?
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Not a knock at him and was more so aimed at this portion of his post "For some reason I can't emphasize with them. I would just move on. I've had girls I liked, but never been that attached to any of them." rather than being in love.

When you have sex, there is another degree of attachment and a bond that's established. It's easy to say you'd just move on when a girl cheats on you and gets with someone else when you don't know what it's like to actually be with a girl like that. Just my opinion.

Also I have never told a girl I love her before having sex with her. 4-6 months into a healthy sexual, and more importantly overall healthy, relationship is when I drop the L word if I feel it.

And for the record I believe in the difference between "making love" and just "smashing". Call me a sap but when you got some good love making going on that will help you identify true love. How can you truly love someone you don't vibe with mentally, spiritually, and physically?
 
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The word love gets tossed around so much I doubt many know what it really is.

You think that sex helps you fall in love with a person, when in all honesty sex is making you think you love that person. This is why a lot people do the whole celibacy thing even non believers. You are right about the attachment but I believe you can love someone before you have sex with them. I loved my girl before we had sex. It was a sometime long distance relationship at the beginning and we didnt grease till about the 4th month. I know that is not a long time and I know I "loved her quick but I felt that emotion before having sex with her.
 
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shoeking2101 said:
Girl just flaked on me. May just pull up to the movies and catch a flick dolo tonight
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Saw 22 jumpstreet alone on Wednesday had to get away from my girl and just be alone. Plus she was trippin on some dumb **** anyway Best time I've had in a while. Theater was damn near empty I was in there farting and everything. It was epic
 
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Used to be like this can't Anymore .miss it . Got two little girls wit me All the time . I'm a huge homebody, always have been. I genuinely dislike being around anybody for long periods of time. I'm a people hater . I'm pretty unconventional.


I got a girl but I see her like twice a month by choice. I dislike being around her as well after a few hours.
 
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