Ever had to cut a friend off? Vol. I can't mess wit you no more B

One of my friends said we need more friends, I told em
Less is more, there's plenty of us. I have been chillin wit da same crew since ele-middle school 3 died, 2 doing horrible, and there's about 3 of us doing pretty good, you see I used to hustle, I had tons of aquatences, but man they wasn't real friends ....if all ninjas ask for is bud or a free smoke or find this or can u get that, man drop dem like a bad habit.lifes about getting urself out there,making YOUR name matter. In the end you. Might have 1 boy still on your lvl by the time your 30 (25) now

:x :x at those stories.

I've lost most of my childhood friends from moving in hs, then making new friends only to move back where I grew up.

I really only hang with a couple of my cousins now.

I have a friend I've known since I was five, once we graduated high school things just changed. Dude just stays home smoking herb and playing Yu Gi Oh all day, doesn't give a damn about hygiene either. Got fat as a mug, got dusty uncut hair, don't shower enough...I feel like I'm talking bad about my dude but the ish is disappointing.

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georgehimself said:

If you're not losing friends, you're not growing up.

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Naw, it means you have a bad choice of friends and make bad decisions

I got 5 good friends with one I know since i was 4.  We are all tight to this day

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Word. Two of my homies I met when I was 5, the other 2 I met when I was 12. Still tight with everyone but one of my homies.

And I don't even know why me and son fell out. One day we just stopped talking. Like we grew apart. Or rather, I started growing up, and one day I look up and we haven't spoken in almost 2 years...

I've had the same clique of friends since middle school, with two addtions since then. These 7 cats i've known for damn near 20 years and were all at my wedding if not apart of it. Everyone else are my homies for life, but I can't **** with them outside of certain situations.

We all got boys who you love (no romo) to death but can't be around too much cause of the **** they about. Be it the type of life they living or trouble they get into you can't be down with everyone all the time. I'm a father now and married I can't be riding around to get high with people like I used to back in the day or hitting the club with party friends either. I still got crazy love for them but we move in different lanes now.

I've had the same friends since the 6th grade and theyre not going anywhere. Theyre family

I was in the first grade when I realized it wasn't nothing to cut that b!#@# off. It was free time and me and this thotty named artivia was playing. We were building stuff with playdoh. We plotted to take some. Playtime was over so we had to put everything up. I tucked my handful in my pocket. She wanted to be bold n ish. Playing with hers behind a book. She gets caught. Throws it in my lap and says "it's his, he got it in his pocket" I busted into tears and got Momz called on me. Don't think I got in trouble tho. That was grimey tho. Saw her about a year ago for the first time in like 15 years. I brought it up and she laughed about it. Still ain't funny to this day.

The first 2 posts got me like



Props for sharing your stories doe..

I hate when these types of threads begin with stories about the OP's childhood. Man, I don't care about when you were a youngin'. I'm a grown man. I'm trying to relate to recent events.

AdobeCS4 said:

I hate when these types of threads begin with stories about the OP's childhood. Man, I don't care about when you were a youngin'. I'm a grown man. I'm trying to relate to recent events.

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Cut multiple friends off. Mostly over female issues.

Long story short...my 21st bday party at my house...my girl at the time (of 4 years mind you) passed out early she was a light weight. I carried her up to my bed and closed the door around 11 we were up til 3. Around 230 my best friend at the time goes upstairs to "go to the bathroom". I hear my door close. I can tell it was mine by the direction of the sound. I was like What The?! went up stairs my door is closed and locked with my best friend and my passed out GF. I knocked he didn't answer i flipped out....kicked my own door down found him laying on the ground with the covers over his head trying to look up her dress. Physically dragged him by his feet down the steps head bouncin off the steps like a slinky. And threw him out. My boys wouldn't let me go out side and fight him...he was definielty wasted. But we were friends since high school at the time...haven't spoke to him sense

I ain't got time for dudes trying shady nonsense with girls im with.

I'm still trying to figure out what the **** the Puerto Rican chick had to do wit the story.

It's like those tests in the 3rd grade where you had to read a few paragraphs and determine what events had nothing to do with the story.

My group of friends (7 dudes) had to cut off another guy a couple of years ago. We couldn't deal with him anymore (lying, shady moves, c-block, etc.)

I cut all the disloyal ******* out of my square. My crew thats left would ride for me and I would do the same

AdobeCS4 said:

I hate when these types of threads begin with stories about the OP's childhood. Man, I don't care about when you were a youngin'. I'm a grown man. I'm trying to relate to recent events.

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Why you mad though daddy?

i was so pissed off at my supervisor for trying to have an attitude with me but this story got me feeling better so thanks

but ya there was a couple friends i had to dead... one comes to mind where i had a boy i use to burn with all the time... this guy was like the grimest dude ever always trying to look for a comeup... so im over his crib chillin and we go scoop in queens im in nj btw and he asks to borrow my ezpass so im like ya go ahead... so i crash at his crib and the next day i dip out but i forgot my ezpass there... i didnt realize until later on that day when i had to go home that my ezpass was not working because i didnt have it on me... ok no big deal let me call son up to get get it back... i could not get in contact with him if my life depended on it... he was ducking my calls...i even went to his crib to scoop it and he never even open the door... i was like man i should damage his car right now but figured ok its not worth it... so i check my ez pass this guy used up like 180 worth of tolls... i tried to tell ezpass that it was stolen and not mines because i never go to the city like that... but they werent trying to hear that because there was no proof... i had to tell my parents i lost it and they ended up paying for it and since then my pops cancelled the ezpass all together because of me...this guy had the audicity to call me like 2-3 years later saying i messed up i just hung up the phone...

I actually had someone cut me off.

We didn't do anything but go to his house and smoke weed and I knew that. I was always a good friend to him because he is a freaking bum.

He had no car but he got a DUI so I would always pick him up at night when he got off of work.

He has no education because he dropped out of college so he works minimum wage jobs.

I actually wanted to cut him off at first but I stuck by him because I was desperate for friends which is something I shouldn't have done.

I did a lot for this "friend" too. I would split my sandwiches with him or even buy him one. I never ever asked for gas money from him and I even bought tickets to a hockey game so we could do something outside of his house.

On New Years, he tells me that he didn't want to be my friend anymore because all we do is smoke and I brought nothing to the table. I told him that the reasoning as to why I purchased tickets to the hockey game was so we could actually do something rather than smoking. I bought the tickets as well.

I stopped dealing with a cat I'd known for 10 years back in January. he had too many beeyotch tendencies and was stressing me out. and like shawn carter said, "that's ghey, iain't into liking dudes no way".

- on a regular basis he would call me 2 or 3 times, leave a voicemail and a text within a couple hours. if i didn't call him RIGHT BACK, he would freak out. when i finally would call him back he'd be like "I BEEN TRYING TO GET IN TOUCH WITH YOU WHERE YOU BEEN???" i'd be like, "handling my business. why? where's the fire? what's going on?" his response? "oh nothing, was just checking in with you".

- he would talk chit about me behind my back to mutual friends.

- a couple years back, we were each banging chicks that were also friends. one day in the course of conversation, i told him that i gone "knee deep" in my chick the other nite. he didn't believe me, but didn't say that - mind you, he and i had been cool for 3+ years at the point and i'd never given him a reason not to believe. my chick, in a separate conversation with his chick, tells her that i beat the breaks off. his chick tells him. this dude comes back to me and says yeah i know you told me you put your ankles in it, but i didn't believe you until now. WTF???

- dude would tell me i needed to check something out (usually music or a movie) and if i told him i wasn't interested in it, he would pretty much DEMAND that i check it out anyway.

- he banged a chick i used to (unsuccessfully) sweat back in the day. not only did he tell me about it, he BRAGGED big time about it, basically throwing it in my face. and to even get the yambs in the first, he threw salt on my name to the chick. i'm not mad that he beat it, but don't throw salt on my name to get it. and then don't come back with "oh i hit but you didn't" type attitude. if you my dude that is.

- the breaking point was earlier this year, revolving around some ps3 games he sent me. mind you, i'm that dude that plays games on my ps3 MAYBE 15 days out of 365. i use the console more so for music/video streaming and playing dvds. the games that i buy are SPECIFIC - FP shooters or football typically. and even then, i don't be pressed to play them - i have games that i bought in 2011 that are still in the plastic! dude sends me some games that he didn't want (and that i didn't want either). then this dude proceeds to call or send me a text msg every day asking did i get it yet?!?

i thought about all of the above (plus other stuff) and came to the conclusion that i don't need dudes friendship. he knows exactly who i am, yet he still comes with that b.s. it's very true what they say about friends and family giving you more stress than enemies.

CLIFFNOTES - dude either thought he was SONning me or that we was in a relationship, neither of which was acceptable

FlyNY said:

So it's time for us to hide. Me and Jamal go and he comes up with an idea to hide in his shed..cool cool. So we in the shed, and he looks at me
Me: "what's really good?"
Jamal: *smiles at me*
Me: ......
Jamal: *tries to go in for a kiss and gets pushed out the shed*
Me: "Yo what's wrong with you god??"
Jamal: "You not gon kiss me my *****?"
Me: "**** outta here B, I ain't with that ****"

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All jokes aside, the isolation move was brilliant. To bad the plan was foiled. Lmao at "playing ball widely and missing shots."

jimmybeanz said:

I stopped dealing with a cat I'd known for 10 years back in January. he had too many beeyotch tendencies and was stressing me out. and like shawn carter said, "that's ghey, iain't into liking dudes no way".

- on a regular basis he would call me 2 or 3 times, leave a voicemail and a text within a couple hours. if i didn't call him RIGHT BACK, he would freak out. when i finally would call him back he'd be like "I BEEN TRYING TO GET IN TOUCH WITH YOU WHERE YOU BEEN???" i'd be like, "handling my business. why? where's the fire? what's going on?" his response? "oh nothing, was just checking in with you".

- he would talk chit about me behind my back to mutual friends.

- a couple years back, we were each banging chicks that were also friends. one day in the course of conversation, i told him that i gone "knee deep" in my chick the other nite. he didn't believe me, but didn't say that - mind you, he and i had been cool for 3+ years at the point and i'd never given him a reason not to believe. my chick, in a separate conversation with his chick, tells her that i beat the breaks off. his chick tells him. this dude comes back to me and says yeah i know you told me you put your ankles in it, but i didn't believe you until now. WTF???

- dude would tell me i needed to check something out (usually music or a movie) and if i told him i wasn't interested in it, he would pretty much DEMAND that i check it out anyway.

- he banged a chick i used to (unsuccessfully) sweat back in the day. not only did he tell me about it, he BRAGGED big time about it, basically throwing it in my face. and to even get the yambs in the first, he threw salt on my name to the chick. i'm not mad that he beat it, but don't throw salt on my name to get it. and then don't come back with "oh i hit but you didn't" type attitude. if you my dude that is.

- the breaking point was earlier this year, revolving around some ps3 games he sent me. mind you, i'm that dude that plays games on my ps3 MAYBE 15 days out of 365. i use the console more so for music/video streaming and playing dvds. the games that i buy are SPECIFIC - FP shooters or football typically. and even then, i don't be pressed to play them - i have games that i bought in 2011 that are still in the plastic! dude sends me some games that he didn't want (and that i didn't want either). then this dude proceeds to call or send me a text msg every day asking did i get it yet?!?

i thought about all of the above (plus other stuff) and came to the conclusion that i don't need dudes friendship. he knows exactly who i am, yet he still comes with that b.s. it's very true what they say about friends and family giving you more stress than enemies.

CLIFFNOTES - dude either thought he was SONning me or that we was in a relationship, neither of which was acceptable

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I agree and get what you're saying, but if you think about it you hardly hang or associate with your enemies and most of your time is spent with your friends, family, and coworkers so it's only logical they give you the most stress because you deal with them the most.

But, on topic I got stories for days on this... but I don't feel like talking about my past this dreadful Monday morning so I'll just read other's replies.

Girl was trying to mess around with me, while she was dating one of my good friends. Told her to step off, then told me friend. Other then that, for the kids i don't like.. I just don't talk to them, and go cold turkey on em.

My crew from middle/high school. We were about 8 deep since the 7th grade. Believe it or not our lives was very similar to the characters portrayed in The Wood. Due to some smoking the herb, and other activities I wasn't down with, me and 2 others started distancing ourselves. It wasn't nothing on some sucker type ish, just a natural progression. Me and my best friend fell apart once we both got to college. I went to UofH he went to Oklahoma. Once I met my then girlfriend(my wife now) he started throwing salt at me questioning me why I was in a relationship etc.. Honestly he was still baggin as many chicks as he could and I was starting to fall back in that aspect. So we really only spoke every few months. But I will give him credit. When my brother passed last year, he came to the funeral and supported me.

Other college friends just got cut off due to me growing up and wanting and expecting different things. I have 1 true homie left. Period. Been cool for almost 12 years now. That's all I need besides my wife honestly. I keep my circle small on purpose

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I hate when these types of threads begin with stories about the OP's childhood. Man, I don't care about when you were a youngin'. I'm a grown man. I'm trying to relate to recent events.

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QFT….thats what I'm saying…. OP????
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Had to cut a few people off some you just grow apart from while growing up. But one dude in particular comes to mind. I been knowing this dude since 7th grade I'm about to be 34 next month.

I got married Oct. 14, 2012, & since he was one of my close friends I wanted him to be a groomsmen. He agreed to do but complained about how expensive it was to be in weddings but whatever. You know you have a deadline to get fitted for your tux. I texted & called him to remind him of the deadline which is like June. He never responds & the deadline passes. He had a little situation that he needed advice on so he called. We talked & I said you still got time to get fitted since they extended the deadline. He said he would go that weekend but never did. Deadline came & went & I ended up getting married & he never gave me an explanation of why he didn't want to be in the wedding. Haven't talked to him since & don't plan on it either.

****** up part about it is that months later another homeboy got married (which he was closer to) & he was in his wedding I saw pics on IG.

Cut a homie off this year
***** always use to flake when I tried to set something up for the night