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Anyone on NT adopted? Anyone ever put a kid up for adoption?
Share your experience, if you don't mind.
Share your experience, if you don't mind.
Anyone have any experience with adoption?
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Know a girl who is adopted...she's a freak. My only experience.
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Freaky as in weird or freak as in sex?
What exactly do you need to know OP, I can try asking this girl about her brothers adoption maybe...
What exactly do you need to know OP, I can try asking this girl about her brothers adoption maybe...
am1x90xnike
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Sex. Like huge intimacy issues. She was abused as a tike, removed from her birth home, a nice military couple adopted her. She is very nice, but I can tell sex is the only way she knows how to be intimate. Sucks really, but she is a great girl and will make some dude happy...I just know to much...shes a lot of fun though... a lot of fun lol.
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Just for any experiences that have had experience with it. Whether it be a person that was adopted or. Parent that put a child up for adoption. What're your feelings, if any, towards your kid or biological parents?
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Tell us how you really feel blinkin...
The Weeknd dun got you in a situation you cant handle?
The Weeknd dun got you in a situation you cant handle?
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Its a lot to the story. Too many details to divulge and open ended possibilities.
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I have 4 cousins that are adopted. My aunt adopted twins, another adopted a son, and my uncle and his wife a daugther.
I always wonder if they know they're adopted, or if they'll ever tell them. One of my aunts let my cousin meet his bio brother that looks exactly like him
but he was really young at the time so he couldn't really know what it all meant, all 4 of the kids are around 13-15 now
they all have never been treated like anything other than biological family, but I wonder if knowing they're adopted will introduce some different feelings in them about the fam when they're older, hopefully not
I always wonder if they know they're adopted, or if they'll ever tell them. One of my aunts let my cousin meet his bio brother that looks exactly like him
but he was really young at the time so he couldn't really know what it all meant, all 4 of the kids are around 13-15 now
they all have never been treated like anything other than biological family, but I wonder if knowing they're adopted will introduce some different feelings in them about the fam when they're older, hopefully not
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Do the parents ever discuss letting the kids know? What about keeping contact with the bio parents?
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Damn that's wild, sounds like a dope person though.
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Yesterday in the the supermarket I saw this two black kids in a shopping cart at the self checkout, around three or four, they kept throwing stuff out of the cart and this white guy was picking it up, I just thought he was just helping someone out, then they looked at him with that sneaky kid smile and I realized he was their dad. Then his wife came and gave those kids the look and they stopped and they left with the kids in the cart.
Thought it was real cool, I would definitely adopt a kid if for some reason I couldnt have my own, even if I do.
Thought it was real cool, I would definitely adopt a kid if for some reason I couldnt have my own, even if I do.
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I mean i know adopted people.........fair amount, they all got issues..............who doesnt have issues though?
but what is this thread about?
i could NEVER give up my child for adoption
flame suit on...........i rather do abortion before adoption
im all for abortion if its early as hell............
how in the $&$& can you give up your child?
but on another note..................i would adopt a child.
but what is this thread about?
i could NEVER give up my child for adoption
flame suit on...........i rather do abortion before adoption
im all for abortion if its early as hell............
how in the $&$& can you give up your child?
but on another note..................i would adopt a child.
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why?
al audi
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lemme clarify
i rather abort before giving up my DNA
call me selfish? im for abortion if it is very early on.............you gotta make a choice and fast
if not ill man up an be a father, i just cannot give up my own
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Later in life I might adopt a young homie I've thought about it several times
Teach him some real stuff about life that he can't learn in school and put him on game on how stuff really works
Teach him some real stuff about life that he can't learn in school and put him on game on how stuff really works
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one of my best homies growing up was adopted. he had his life on track and secured, dude dun goofed up and blew his chances once he met his bio mom and found out his bio dad passed. felt bad but I told him his real parents were the ones who raised him. dude went on a bad trip down the wrong road, haven't heard from him in years. we were like brothers too.
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Not adopted, but I didn't find out about my biological father until the day I graduated high school from my mom. Ended up getting a letter and pictures from my half sister I never met, but never followed up or responded.
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my mom adopted 2 kids...she adopted them after she sent me to live with my dad so i never lived with them and only saw them when i visited my mom...
to be completely honest, I've never really gotten used to calling my sisters...
...i know, its ****** up but its just how i feel
i still got love for them and if they need help, ill have their backs as much as i can...
to be completely honest, I've never really gotten used to calling my sisters...
i still got love for them and if they need help, ill have their backs as much as i can...
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I'd abort before I gave my kid up for adoption, too.
It's simpler.
It's simpler.
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I'd adopt a kid if I can afford it, regardless if I have children of my own at that point.
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People say "I would never bring a kid into this horrible world" but there are millions of kids that need a home. I'm strongly considering it when I'm older
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Sister had a kid @ 17 and gave it up for adoption. Whole ordeal pretty much scarred my mother for life between the pregnancy and adoption.
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I'm adopted. Moms (RIP) scooped me when I was like 6 or 7 months old, so essentially she's all I ever knew. She always let me know that I was adopted over the years, and while there were always questions about where I came from, I never really struggled with a lot of the identity issues that adopted kids struggle with because I felt secure at home with moms.
Back in 2003 I was back home from college for the weekend and my mom asked me if I'd be willing to sign some papers that would release the information about my biological parents. I really had no desire or interest in it at that point in life, but I did it for her because she really wanted to know more about my history. Ended up meeting both sides of my birth family a month or so later, which was cool and weird at the same time. We maintained relationships for several years and I even moved to the same city as them (but only because I met my wife here), but things kind of cooled off for me when my mom died in 2007. It made me recognize what true family is, as my birth families just weren't that to me even though they tried.
From the beginning I never had a true desire to find my birth family and as time went on, it just got weird for me to be wanted so much. It was cool at first, being the long lost son/grandson/cousin/brother. But I just don't like that type of attention and both my birth parents are still VERY scarred from the whole adoption thing since they were both so young at the time. It made for an awkward feeling of carrying on relationships with them out of duty and guilt, instead of really wanting to. I care about them and want the best for them, but to put it bluntly, having relationships with them just isn't important to me. It sucks to even have to say that, but it is what it is. Life happened, I was adopted and raised by an awesome lady and I met them at age 24, well past those true bonding years. All in all, I can't say that I regret meeting them because I have my own family now and that happened because I met them. But some days I do wish I had never signed those papers. Dealing with these relationships has added a TON of stress that wasn't there before.
Back in 2003 I was back home from college for the weekend and my mom asked me if I'd be willing to sign some papers that would release the information about my biological parents. I really had no desire or interest in it at that point in life, but I did it for her because she really wanted to know more about my history. Ended up meeting both sides of my birth family a month or so later, which was cool and weird at the same time. We maintained relationships for several years and I even moved to the same city as them (but only because I met my wife here), but things kind of cooled off for me when my mom died in 2007. It made me recognize what true family is, as my birth families just weren't that to me even though they tried.
From the beginning I never had a true desire to find my birth family and as time went on, it just got weird for me to be wanted so much. It was cool at first, being the long lost son/grandson/cousin/brother. But I just don't like that type of attention and both my birth parents are still VERY scarred from the whole adoption thing since they were both so young at the time. It made for an awkward feeling of carrying on relationships with them out of duty and guilt, instead of really wanting to. I care about them and want the best for them, but to put it bluntly, having relationships with them just isn't important to me. It sucks to even have to say that, but it is what it is. Life happened, I was adopted and raised by an awesome lady and I met them at age 24, well past those true bonding years. All in all, I can't say that I regret meeting them because I have my own family now and that happened because I met them. But some days I do wish I had never signed those papers. Dealing with these relationships has added a TON of stress that wasn't there before.
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