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married or committed nters.....when did u realize she was the ONE
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When she bust di pum pum open pon di rooftop of the Camry
Srsly tho, just time will tell. I been with broads who I know ain't the one within a week
Srsly tho, just time will tell. I been with broads who I know ain't the one within a week
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Time has told my dog lol........
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That's wassup. Does she do everything you want
1) is she pleasing you sexually?
2) what's da mouf like?
3) can she cook?
4) is she ambitious?
5) cool with ur fam/her fam?
6) how long y'all been together
Don't get caught up in the honeymoon phase (first 6 months) of a new new relationship. The real troof come out in a year.
As long as you happy, that's all that matters.
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^^This is an important aspect. Me and my fiancee have been together since 06. Been through many rough times. But we are still together and will be making the next step this October.
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When she was preggo..
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"The one" is a myth bro, the sooner you realize that, the easier it'll be for you to settle with a compatible mate....focusing on finding "the one" puts you at risk of not giving it your all with a potentially good woman.
"The one" and "the grass is always greener" go hand in hand and give a lot of men such high expectations that are damb impossible to meet by any woman.
Just find a woman you are compatible with, good family values and treats you good, then make it work.
"The one" and "the grass is always greener" go hand in hand and give a lot of men such high expectations that are damb impossible to meet by any woman.
Just find a woman you are compatible with, good family values and treats you good, then make it work.
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When she passes the "door" test.
I've been doing this one since I stole my first car back when I was 14. The "door" test basically boils down to this: When you take a girl out for the first time, lock the door on your side of the car, open her door first, walk around the back, and see if she unlocks the door for you. If she does, she's a keeper. If she doesn't, she's a selfish ***** and you should consider yourself lucky to have recognized that early on.
It's all in the little details; remember that.
That's it for today.
Watch your backs and keep your noses clean.
I've been doing this one since I stole my first car back when I was 14. The "door" test basically boils down to this: When you take a girl out for the first time, lock the door on your side of the car, open her door first, walk around the back, and see if she unlocks the door for you. If she does, she's a keeper. If she doesn't, she's a selfish ***** and you should consider yourself lucky to have recognized that early on.
It's all in the little details; remember that.
That's it for today.
Watch your backs and keep your noses clean.
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i think i saw this in a movie one time...think it was wit al pacino, called "a brooklyn story" or something like that
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To piggyback off of steezy, "the one" is usually an expectation you have of an ideal partner. Also, if you're dating with the intent of being married then you will find a wife much easier. And another area to address is when people say "marriage is 50/50" NOT true. Sometime it can be 70/30, 80/20 or whatever. The thing is you have to find someone whom you are willing to work with for life.
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Bruh did this man say the Brooklyn story? Lol it's Bronx tale homie
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didnt know this. had a chick reach through the other side and unlock/open it for me.
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References go over your head on the daily.
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lolwut, relationships being built off the strength of door tests 
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Marriage is compromise.. Plain and simple.. I knew she was the one because everything that was suppose to break us made us grow closer together(cheesy but true).
By the way we are not married, but have been together for a little over two years and plan on it one day..
By the way we are not married, but have been together for a little over two years and plan on it one day..
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You know that she is when you have someone that you have built a real relationship with. Someone that you can trust, that you are attracted to physically, mentally, and spiritually, the same sense of humor, has the same ethics and moral code, supports you in the good things that you pursue, and cares enough about you to be honest no matter how it makes you feel, forgives, and is that person that you cannot be apart from...a true friendship.
Find this and you have the one. Take a few years to build, see one another really angry, go through some losses, financial struggles, and if necessary some time apart. If you both can work though all of this and still have the true friendship, then you've got it.
It's hard work. The key is realizing that you are no different than any other man, and are capable of the same mistakes than any other man can make. You have the same male default program as any other man. This applies to her also. What makes you a "good man" and she a "good woman" is discipline and integrity. Discipline and Integrity are those things that keep you honest and focused not only when she's around, but when no one else can see you.
Good luck OP.
You know that she is when you have someone that you have built a real relationship with. Someone that you can trust, that you are attracted to physically, mentally, and spiritually, the same sense of humor, has the same ethics and moral code, supports you in the good things that you pursue, and cares enough about you to be honest no matter how it makes you feel, forgives, and is that person that you cannot be apart from...a true friendship.
Find this and you have the one. Take a few years to build, see one another really angry, go through some losses, financial struggles, and if necessary some time apart. If you both can work though all of this and still have the true friendship, then you've got it.
It's hard work. The key is realizing that you are no different than any other man, and are capable of the same mistakes than any other man can make. You have the same male default program as any other man. This applies to her also. What makes you a "good man" and she a "good woman" is discipline and integrity. Discipline and Integrity are those things that keep you honest and focused not only when she's around, but when no one else can see you.
Good luck OP.
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Solid advice
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This!
Spot on my dude!!
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.. cant add anything else other than rediscovering how truly good of a woman she really is by watching her take care of our son .......
and at the same time be able to show love and take care of me.... unconditionally ...
(known her 15 yrs, married for 5 yrs)
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Supermanblue79 everything u just said was on point sir !
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I have 2 females I could spend the rest of my life with. 1 of 7 years and the other 5 years. I just can't keep my D in my pants. All 2 I could wife easily.
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