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I have both. Which is worse?
Deadbeat Mother or Father
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Father. No matter if you're a son or daughter.
Messed up for you OP but I'm sure you've preserved (minus your comments in the Draya thread
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Messed up for you OP but I'm sure you've preserved (minus your comments in the Draya thread
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Father IMO. There would be a drastic decrease in **** and thots if they had fathers in their lives. For this reason I won't date any more chicks with dad issues. *kanye shrug*
Deadbeat mothers are just rarer.
Deadbeat mothers are just rarer.
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Deadbeat mom for sure. The women had you come out of her body and STILL doesn't want you? I mean that's just rough to think about.
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She beat my a when I was younger. I currently live with her like I haven't forgotten anything yet. The most uncomfortable I've ever been. Like she choose her man and her lifestyle keyword: hers
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Father. No matter if you're a son or daughter.
Messed up for you OP but I'm sure you've preserved (minus your comments in the Draya thread
lol I want this thread to be as serious as my fondness in Draya. But yea, I'm broken hearted right now. Nothing is going right and hasn't been for 13 years.
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both are equally ****** up.
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I don't know how old you are but at some point you'll just have to let that baggage go and move on or let that baggage motivate you to be a better person and one day be a much better parent. Can't let what they did or didn't do hold you back.Father. No matter if you're a son or daughter.
Messed up for you OP but I'm sure you've preserved (minus your comments in the Draya thread
lol I want this thread to be as serious as my fondness in Draya. But yea, I'm broken hearted right now. Nothing is going right and hasn't been for 13 years.
You really just have to adopt the attitude of **** them and **** what they think. That there really no different than any stranger you haven't met. Act like you an orphan. Most importantly, distance yourselves from them. They shouldn't be in your lives in any capacity if you're able to.
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father
im 28
havent seen this ***** *** ***** since the day all eyes on me released
never forget it
he played that **** in the car ride
and took me to a giants baseball game that day
***** called me recently to try and "start over"
only reason this ***** *** ***** did that is cause he found out he got prostate cancer
and now his guilt probably hitting him
i didnt get upset or nothing i let him talk and was polite
but real talk i didnt give 2 *****
i stay in the bay area
if anybody knows the bay area
its ALLLLLL connected
i stay in oakland
he has lived in vallejo,fairfield, sf, richmond and aint seen me since 1995
**** his ***** ***
i aint NEVER gonna let my son and daughter feel like how i have felt and feel
after me and my kids mom broke up
i made SURE that they end up living with me
and i couldnt imagine my life without being there with them
im 28
havent seen this ***** *** ***** since the day all eyes on me released
never forget it
he played that **** in the car ride
and took me to a giants baseball game that day
***** called me recently to try and "start over"
only reason this ***** *** ***** did that is cause he found out he got prostate cancer
and now his guilt probably hitting him
i didnt get upset or nothing i let him talk and was polite
but real talk i didnt give 2 *****
i stay in the bay area
if anybody knows the bay area
its ALLLLLL connected
i stay in oakland
he has lived in vallejo,fairfield, sf, richmond and aint seen me since 1995
**** his ***** ***
i aint NEVER gonna let my son and daughter feel like how i have felt and feel
after me and my kids mom broke up
i made SURE that they end up living with me
and i couldnt imagine my life without being there with them
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Deadbeat mother is by far the worst because they made the choice to have the baby.
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or didnt have the money to abort
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Damn son said since all eyes on me dropped...
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I have neither. But I would think a mother would be worst.
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R u still with the girl with the huge ****?
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yup we been together 6 years
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If push came to shove they could always do a selfie
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thats whats sup'
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I am adopted, so I guess you can say I have deadbeat biological parents. For me I received a letter from my adoption agency to why I was given up for adoption, the mom is worse for me.
I think the worse case depends on each situation.
I think the worse case depends on each situation.
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Idk man I just think a majority of problems are not having that POSITIVE male role model in their life
I think that's why **** is as crazy as it is nowadays
Kids don't have no chill button anymore
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Mom (that what I have). 
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Blessed to have both parents still happily together
both are equally bad.
both are equally bad.
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It might vein your case but I don't think it's a 100% given that the parents are deadbeats if you are given up for adoption. Circumstances can force that and some ppl might just realize they aren't fit parents. So it wouldn't about not wanting the child but not wanting to ruin or risk the child's life.
Just about every case where a baby is abused left in a locked car on a hot day or in a dumpster, Draya's kid situation, etc. is an example of a parent that should've gave up their children for adoption.
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What are you meaning?
'he didn't come to my random little league game'
'He's never been in my life'
'He sexually assaulted me'
'He beat me to the point I could have died'
As someone who had 1 dad that was literally not there and had a step dad who was barely a paycheck( he was barely around because of work and he didn't make much money) I feel a lot of people watch tv, assume their parents are supposed to be that way so if they aren't like tv they are 'deadbeats' entitled cats making up problems for their life. Nope, don't know what it's like to be someone else, but I will tell you, **** ain't been sweet for me and I'm still grateful for the little I had
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To answer the question a deadbeat mom is worse, plenty of cats raised without fathers, couldn't imagine life without my moms.
'he didn't come to my random little league game'
'He's never been in my life'
'He sexually assaulted me'
'He beat me to the point I could have died'
As someone who had 1 dad that was literally not there and had a step dad who was barely a paycheck( he was barely around because of work and he didn't make much money) I feel a lot of people watch tv, assume their parents are supposed to be that way so if they aren't like tv they are 'deadbeats' entitled cats making up problems for their life. Nope, don't know what it's like to be someone else, but I will tell you, **** ain't been sweet for me and I'm still grateful for the little I had
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To answer the question a deadbeat mom is worse, plenty of cats raised without fathers, couldn't imagine life without my moms.
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no parents is worse
