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After being in a relationship that I thought was heading towards marriage, allow me to make a few suggestions for those on the road to marriage.
Live with your significant other for some time - this should be self explanatory, in case it's not though: how a person sleeps makes a difference, how/if they clean up makes a difference, are they good with bills. All these are questions you will kick yourself about if you never found the answer before walking down the aisle. Living with a significant other gives you a chance to see if the girl you fell for has been putting on a facade for a while.
How are arguments handled? If you have anger issues, get them in order before you even entertain being with another person. If you and your s/o argue, what's the outcome? Do you both walk away crying or angry? Or do you sit down and really resolve the issue so it doesn't linger? If y'all can't resolve a small fight, how can you ever resolve something bigger and more important?
Do you really trust your s/o? I'm not just talking about cheating either, do you trust them with your deepest secrets? A lasting marriage is built on trust.
LEAVE THE OTHER SIDE CHICKS ALONE!!!
You're entering a union, it's time to grow up and do right by her. If you still have other females on your mind, you aren't ready. Being out and seeing a random chick that looks so damn good is one thing, it's the others you see daily that you gotta worry about.
Understanding that even if y'all smashing 7 days a week now, it is a fact that it will slow down. Will you still adore her after a moment of no pleasure?
I got a few more, but figured I'd put these out first.
Live with your significant other for some time - this should be self explanatory, in case it's not though: how a person sleeps makes a difference, how/if they clean up makes a difference, are they good with bills. All these are questions you will kick yourself about if you never found the answer before walking down the aisle. Living with a significant other gives you a chance to see if the girl you fell for has been putting on a facade for a while.
How are arguments handled? If you have anger issues, get them in order before you even entertain being with another person. If you and your s/o argue, what's the outcome? Do you both walk away crying or angry? Or do you sit down and really resolve the issue so it doesn't linger? If y'all can't resolve a small fight, how can you ever resolve something bigger and more important?
Do you really trust your s/o? I'm not just talking about cheating either, do you trust them with your deepest secrets? A lasting marriage is built on trust.
LEAVE THE OTHER SIDE CHICKS ALONE!!!
You're entering a union, it's time to grow up and do right by her. If you still have other females on your mind, you aren't ready. Being out and seeing a random chick that looks so damn good is one thing, it's the others you see daily that you gotta worry about.
Understanding that even if y'all smashing 7 days a week now, it is a fact that it will slow down. Will you still adore her after a moment of no pleasure?
I got a few more, but figured I'd put these out first.
