Jordan Width Help. All Help appreciated and upvoted!

So my situation is the optimal length for me is size 9.5, but width is size 10. I have sort of a dilemma here because i have to choose between the 2. I chose length and went with a pair of size 10 3's (i heard they were wide.) I'd basically prefer to wear a size 9.5 if possible but the width is always a killer, because my pinky toe always pushes against the side of the shoe.

Apparently the 12s and 13s are also known to be wide jordans, even possibly wider than 3. do you guys think if i bought them in a 9.5, they might work like a 10 the way the 3s are a 10?

I'm hoping it might solve my problem with length vs width thing, if say a size 9.5 pair of flints could fit like a size 10 width, i could just buy those. 

TLDR; Are the 12s/13s a lot wider than the 3s? Are 13s better than the 3s in terms of pinky toe room?

I have wide feet, and can do a 10.5 in 12s and 13s, but need an 11 for 3s. So Yes, IMO 12s and 13s are wider than 3s, so you should be good with a 9.5 in both.

Having said that, I'd rather a shoe be a little big then a little small. Everyone's foot is different, both shape and preference wise, some people like their shoes tight, some prefer loose. Good luck!