The Emasculation Of The Black Man vol: just a little think piece

Responsible black men being in the lives of young black males will HELP the state of young black men.

I NEVER said everyone with an example will make it..
I NEVER said everyone without an example won't make it.
I NEVER said it will fix EVERYTHING.
I NEVER said that is the solution to ALL.

Not sure what you are reading but but carry on.
 
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Responsible black men being in the lives of young black males will HELP the state of young black men.

I agree fully ... and the problem starts at home, of course. I would love to know what the "real problem" is. There are so many avenues you can take, but the focus starts at home. Believe it or not, not EVERY parent wants to see their son/daughter succeed. Misery truly does love company ... Sad but true.

Back to black youth. They are terribly misguided. As an older African-American male, I think the least I can do, is preach education to them (and I do that to all colors). Some times I wish NYC had a Black College. If you go to Atlanta, you see plenty of educated brothers showing enough love. That kind of unity doesn't exist in the north.

Such an easy subject to ramble on and on about. So many things contribute to the problem.
 
Responsible black men being in the lives of young black males will HELP the state of young black men.

I NEVER said everyone with an example will make it..
I NEVER said everyone without an example won't make it.
I NEVER said it will fix EVERYTHING.
I NEVER said that is the solution to ALL.

Not sure what you are reading but but carry on.

not today but you've spewed that trash on here before
 
Sure I did man. Again, nice try.

Nothing I am saying in this thread differs from what I have said before.

Sounds like a person vendetta. Stick on topic man

ive already addressed the topic

im addressing you now

if more black folks like you that are SOOO concerned with our youth, focused on more efficient issues instead of this mythical problem we'd be alot better off
 
Yea I forgot that focusing on youth development is a pointless angle to take. :smokin


Hope you are having fun with this man.
 
Man, ya'll stay feeding into this ********. Emasculation by whom exactly? The media?

"Everybody wants to be a *, but nobody wants to be a *"- Paul Mooney

Black male is the definition of cool. Hence it would filter down to everyone no?

Fact is, soul singers in the 60's albeit good music, they talking about crying in their songs, and watching television until it goes off air. That's pretty damn "soft" if you ask me
 
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Man, ya'll stay feeding into this ********. Emasculation by whom exactly? The media?

"Everybody wants to be a *, but nobody wants to be a *"- Paul Mooney

Black male is the definition of cool. Hence it would filter down to everyone no?

Fact is, soul singers in the 60's albeit good music, they talking about crying in their songs, and watching television until it goes off air. That's pretty damn "soft" if you ask me

What?
 
Man, ya'll stay feeding into this ********. Emasculation by whom exactly? The media?

"Everybody wants to be a *, but nobody wants to be a *"- Paul Mooney

Black male is the definition of cool. Hence it would filter down to everyone no?

Fact is, soul singers in the 60's albeit good music, they talking about crying in their songs, and watching television until it goes off air. That's pretty damn "soft" if you ask me
so how exactly does this tie into the topic?
How does this relate to brothas dressed in fur boots prancing around saying "yasssss boo boo"?
How exactly does this relate to young thug cross dressing, making it seen "Cool" to the young black youth?
 
Lol So if I was to say, "If there was a such thing as God, he'd be a cool guy,", I'd be Christian?

Go to bed bro. You're tired, it's showing.
 
I will say that it is funny whenever parents spend so much time/focus on making their kids fly. It is ALL about the parent.
 
Man...is no one going to talk about the general gay agenda put out by the media. Couple that with a growing lib movement which decides having defined gender roles was somehow bad. At every turn you see kids making big life chooses...like if you're under the age of 16 you don't really get to come out to me. Then you got dudes crying left and right on tv. Being a man used to be readily defined. In houses with males, what's the point if they aren't man enough to be men? A man is suppose to be the rock of the family, someone you can always look at and know things are going to be ok, how can he be that when he's crying? Telling everyone how much he can't do? Idk, women's lib/liberals in general are killing manhood.

Social Media also plays a huge in the downfall. No you got men acting like females, sub tweeting, posting pics for attention. Attention seeking in general...getting jealous. These are all things I associate with being a female, making a damn spectacle of themselves.


Social media = downfall of manhood.

I somewhat agree on this. It makes me sick when Men (not just black) in general act like scorned women on social media. Like son, be a man and tell the chick how you really feel!! :smh:
 
man i have felt the same way for so long my dad would always get on me i didn't know why but i do know this world is gone
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What do we do about it?

I agree with what you're say. But what I have noticed with many of us that argue the black plight is that we present no remedies or solutions to the problems we face. I think this is why our community lacks the guidance it once had back in the days of brother Malcolm and other black revolutionaries. We have a world of complaints, but very few of us have legitimate solutions. Without a sound course of action, we'll continue to be viewed as "black people complaining".
as men we need to step up we need to be at the home not in the streets
 
Look, I understand you guys want to have a "deep, intelligent discussion", but it's all in vein.

You can't do anything about other people. Nothing anyone is going to say on NT is going to change anything. All you can do is take care of you and yours and lead by example. You don't fall for that ****, you'll find a woman who ain't going for that ****, y'all will have kids that ain't going for that ****, that'll have kids that ain't going for that **** and then "they" are going to have to try something else.

You can't un-trick the tricked. You see it, so you already halfway there, so act accordingly.

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Thank you. That's all I needed to read.
 
Emasculation for black males is such an extensive process that you can't even pinpoint the main reason in a simple paragraph.

I'll add something that I don't think has been stated about black communities around the country.

Single mothers receive incentives from the government that allows them to "raise" 2 or 3 kids without having a career or a man to provide for them.
The government now has taken the role of the provider. Who needs a man in a black household? :smh:

 
All I'll contribute is that a strong family structure is important to the upbringing of children into successful adults.
 
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